What is with this??? (college acceptance rant)

stev0

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So i'm sitting in my first hour class, sitting next a friend of mine, lets call him nate. He was talking about how he was accepted to a school just across the border in minnesota, this is the school that I too would like to attend in the next year. A bit of a backrount on ol nate, this kid had done tons of drugs, grass, powders, cid, shrooms, blah blah blah, alcohol and tobacco products as well. He has spend most of high school in the resource center because he is a little "slow", he probably has some sort of learning disability but his parents never bothered to get him tested. He gets average grades, C's B's an occasional D or F. Then there is me, I too get about the same grades as him, never have had to go into the resource center to get help or anything like that, I personaly don't feel that one should be evaluated on grades therefor never really cared about them. All of the computer related classes that I am in are 4.0's all the way though, that might say something, might not. I have had a job working as a IT and webmaster for a local real estate company for the past 4 years. While nate on the other hand bags groceries, he has also had a minor or two (i cannot remember and a dui). I go to apply for the same college and haven't heard a word from them, I honestly don't expect to either.

Here is what really burns me, Is that a college can look at someones application and see that they got a 3.5 gpa all the way though high school so that automatically makes them able to go to their school, without knowing a thing about that person. My guess is that when my application was looked over the person saw my 2.0 and threw it in the garbage. How much does one really learn when they have to spend their entire high school career worrying if they got that a or not if they are going to be able to keep their 4.0 . I am probably one of the few that can sit here and admit that I have learned something in high school, that I can apply to my everyday life and that I will always remember.

Maybe it is just me, pouting over the fact that I didn't get into the school that I would've liked to, it really isn't that big of a deal, I'm going to a school no less than a mile away from the one previously mentioned, for the exact same thing. I just wish that a college would look at who a person really is and not some stupid numbers on some paper that really don't mean much of anything.

 

yoda291

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while I'm sure there's more to acceptance than gpa, you also have to realize that they receive boatloads of applications to go through every term and sometimes, it's hard to judge what kind of person you are. If you're serious about goin there, work your butt off in whatever school you're in and transfer. I've always believed that there's only one person who can tell you what you can and can't do and it's the same guy who helps smokey prevent forest fires.
 

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D00d, you need to learn not to take sh!t so personally! Count your blessings--maybe you are in *just the right* school, even tho you don't know it.
Don't get hung up on how things "should be". Go with the flow--relax......
 

PowerEngineer

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stev0...maybe it is just you.

It's a little hard to get a clear picture of what your "friend" Nate is really like, but it does sound like he might have applied himself a little more to his studies and earned a higher GPA than your 2.0. Perhaps he did well on his SATs too. It sounds like he did this despite some long odds (the learning disability and drug problems you mention).

Like it or not, these "stupid numbers" are a large part of how colleges (and potential employers) try to find out "who a person really is". You're right -- grades aren't everything (your work experience with computers is very important!), but you're making a mistake to dismiss them as meaningless. If you're playing basketball, you go into the game knowing that you need to put the ball through the hoop in order to win. If you're going to high school (especially with a desire to move on to college), you need to get good grades in order to win.

I hope you do get accepted into that Minnesota college. But regardless of which school you do go to, you should carefully review your thinking on grades. If you don't, in four years you may well have a similar story to tell about the job that was offered to someone else.

Good Luck.

 

Uclagamer_99

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realistically, all they really have to go by is the numbers...even the extracurricular activities are like checkmarks on a list...the only sort of inkling of personality you really get to put into your essay is probably your personal statement and/or letter or recs. even then it's not really a good measure of the type of person you are

i dunno how large of a school you attend...but i go to ucla and the freshman applicant pool every year numbers in the tens of thousands...don't think anything can really change how they accept students
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