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What is the worst thing someone ever said to YOU!

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Hyperblaze

Lifer
Okay, we've had words on what was the worst thing you've said to a girl...

however, what was the worst thing someone (male or female) ever said to you?

And what was your reaction?
 
After four years of close friendship, I went to visit a female friend for a weekend. When I returned she was pretty standoffish and I assumed that she may have gotten in a pack of trouble with her boyfriend for having a guy stay over at her place, even though me visiting was her idea and about six months in the making.

When I finally got around to asking her about it, she unloaded on me. "I hate that you're indecisive ... I don't think you have a good heart ... You're very cold and insensitive." After a fairly long silence from my end she simply hung up. This is a friend I'd listened to into the wee hours of the night when she needed someone to talk to or when she felt alone having moved to a new city on her own. Thanks, friend.
 
Broken up with on Valentine's day:
"You're a heretic and you jeopardize my relationship with god"

Oh.. I'm absurdly proud of this now, though at the time I cared.
 
You're very cold and insensitive.
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Yeah, but you're Canadian.... It's probably just a result of that crappy weather you have up there....you're cold from the temp and insensitive from the frostbite. 😉
The slut's just ignoring the obvious....
 
Originally posted by: djheater
Broken up with on Valentine's day:
"You're a heretic and you jeopardize my relationship with god"
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you got that one as well? nice, i was called a heathen mpt a heretic tho, i thought it was funny
 
Eh...probably a former "friend" thinking it was really witty to make fun of my weight. I can't remember exactly what he said, nor do I care to.
 
too embarrassing to tell, and too mean to forget, trust me.

those words will haunt me forever.
 
Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
You're very cold and insensitive.
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Yeah, but you're Canadian.... It's probably just a result of that crappy weather you have up there....you're cold from the temp and insensitive from the frostbite. 😉
The slut's just ignoring the obvious....
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HAHA. 😀 The weird thing is, anyone who knows me will say that I'm TOO decisive often to the point of perceived arrogance, and that I'm the easiest person in the world to talk to if one wants to unload. The whole thing was a ridiculous and obvious attempt to put distance between us so that our being close wouldn't threaten her boyfriend. Justify it as I might, of course, it still hurts.
Originally posted by: Darthvoy
That it was non of business when I found a condom wrapper in me ex's room. (Was said by my ex)
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Well if she was your ex at the time I'd have to agree with her. 😉
 
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
You're very cold and insensitive.
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Yeah, but you're Canadian.... It's probably just a result of that crappy weather you have up there....you're cold from the temp and insensitive from the frostbite. 😉
The slut's just ignoring the obvious....
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HAHA. 😀 The weird thing is, anyone who knows me will say that I'm TOO decisive often to the point of perceived arrogance, and that I'm the easiest person in the world to talk to if one wants to unload. The whole thing was a ridiculous and obvious attempt to put distance between us so that our being close wouldn't threaten her boyfriend. Justify it as I might, of course, it still hurts.
Originally posted by: Darthvoy
That it was non of business when I found a condom wrapper in me ex's room. (Was said by my ex)
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Well if she was your ex at the time I'd have to agree with her. 😉
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No...at the time she was my g/f...🙁
 
Some stupid b!tch I used to work for once berated me in front of her boss and the HR director for asking a question she thought I should know the answer to. God I hated that fvcking b!tch. Glad I don't work there anymore.

I don't think she liked me very much because she was a man hating lesbian and I made almost as much money as she did.
 
I had some really horrible things happen to me in my childhood that scarred me for years... but I just buried them. During my marriage, they all kinda came to a head and I had a rough go of things. I always tried to communicate with my ex hubby what was going on with me, but he didn't always understand...

...anyway, during one fight he said to me:

Ya know... you should have really told me about your childhood before we got married. I should have been informed that I was getting damaged goods.

I will never, ever forget that, even though I have long since forgiven him.

🙂
 
I cant think of anything said to me...

About 8 years ago my sister had cancer and still made it to high school after her first bout of chemo. She had to shave her head due to it though. A teacher called her a neo-nazi/skinhead... He was joking but i know it really hurt my sister.
 
My wrestling coach in high school. He was like a second father to me - a tough man but I loved him a lot. I lost an important match and during the team meeting afterwards he berated me in front of the entire team - telling me I was a snooty b!tch that thinks I'm too good for everyone. Eh - may seem minor to some, but it hit me hard as a young lad.

 
Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
I cant think of anything said to me...

About 8 years ago my sister had cancer and still made it to high school after her first bout of chemo. She had to shave her head due to it though. A teacher called her a neo-nazi/skinhead... He was joking but i know it really hurt my sister.
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Stupid bastard. She should have just flipped him off and said "I have cancer you a$$hole!"

Edit-It's funny that we always remember the bad things so much more clearly than the good...
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
I cant think of anything said to me...

About 8 years ago my sister had cancer and still made it to high school after her first bout of chemo. She had to shave her head due to it though. A teacher called her a neo-nazi/skinhead... He was joking but i know it really hurt my sister.
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Stupid bastard. She should have just flipped him off and said "I have cancer you a$$hole!"
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The thing was he was informed of it beforehand.
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
I had some really horrible things happen to me in my childhood that scarred me for years... but I just buried them. During my marriage, they all kinda came to a head and I had a rough go of things. I always tried to communicate with my ex hubby what was going on with me, but he didn't always understand...

...anyway, during one fight he said to me:

Ya know... you should have really told me about your childhood before we got married. I should have been informed that I was getting damaged goods.

I will never, ever forget that, even though I have long since forgiven him.

🙂
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physical wounds heal but words cut to the bone, and the effects can last a lifetime. it's been 20 years and what was said still hurts me sometimes.

 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
I had some really horrible things happen to me in my childhood that scarred me for years... but I just buried them. During my marriage, they all kinda came to a head and I had a rough go of things. I always tried to communicate with my ex hubby what was going on with me, but he didn't always understand...

...anyway, during one fight he said to me:

Ya know... you should have really told me about your childhood before we got married. I should have been informed that I was getting damaged goods.

I will never, ever forget that, even though I have long since forgiven him.

🙂
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when was this? If it was around 2001-2002, he was making a refernce to The Sopranos.
 
Originally posted by: y2kc
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
I had some really horrible things happen to me in my childhood that scarred me for years... but I just buried them. During my marriage, they all kinda came to a head and I had a rough go of things. I always tried to communicate with my ex hubby what was going on with me, but he didn't always understand...

...anyway, during one fight he said to me:

Ya know... you should have really told me about your childhood before we got married. I should have been informed that I was getting damaged goods.

I will never, ever forget that, even though I have long since forgiven him.

🙂
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physical wounds heal but words cut to the bone, and the effects can last a lifetime. it's been 20 years and what was said still hurts me sometimes.
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It doesnt hurt me anymore. I mean.. hahaha!! we used to have some battles, I tell ya! We called each other everything at some point. But that one particular thing really rocked my world. But looking back, I see it from his perspective. I mean, I was self destructing right before his eyes and went off the deep end. I ended up having a nervous breakdown...

He was/is not the type of guy that could ever understand or cope with such things... that made him feel inadequate, and he hated me for it. ..and we destroyed our marriage because of it. But that was about 10yrs ago.

We are very very close friends now... we love each other as family. nothing more and nothing less.

🙂
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: y2kc
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
I had some really horrible things happen to me in my childhood that scarred me for years... but I just buried them. During my marriage, they all kinda came to a head and I had a rough go of things. I always tried to communicate with my ex hubby what was going on with me, but he didn't always understand...

...anyway, during one fight he said to me:

Ya know... you should have really told me about your childhood before we got married. I should have been informed that I was getting damaged goods.

I will never, ever forget that, even though I have long since forgiven him.

🙂
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physical wounds heal but words cut to the bone, and the effects can last a lifetime. it's been 20 years and what was said still hurts me sometimes.
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It doesnt hurt me anymore. I mean.. hahaha!! we used to have some battles, I tell ya! We called each other everything at some point. But that one particular thing really rocked my world. But looking back, I see it from his perspective. I mean, I was self destructing right before his eyes and went off the deep end. I ended up having a nervous breakdown...

He was/is not the type of guy that could ever understand or cope with such things... that made him feel inadequate, and he hated me for it. ..and we destroyed our marriage because of it. But that was about 10yrs ago.

We are very very close friends now... we love each other as family. nothing more and nothing less.

🙂
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nevermind he wasn't quoting the soprnos, but just being a dick.
 
Can't think of many things that haven't been said to me, if I ever snap I'm not going to settle for some unplanned foray resulting in a single-digit kill count :evil:
 
One time I made a repost, and you guys did the nested quote R...E...P...O...S...T... thing to me. Bastards 🙁
 
gf-im pregnant
me-lol stop playing
gf-im serious
me-um, stop playing, seriously



it was a joke her and her friend thought it would be funny to pull on me, this was like 2 years ago, whew i was about to cry.
 
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