- Jan 23, 2002
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What is the three most important factors for you in a relationship?
For a healthy relationship from a man's point of view (or mine):
FYI, I'm 23.
#1. Sex/Intimacy. A lot of people have said sex is a vital factor in a healthy relationship and I couldn't agree more. Stop being lazy after getting married, having kids or when your sexual libido is waning. Sex to men is like diamonds for women. If you can't have sex or not in the mood to have sex, is it that much of a chore to spend 10 minutes of your time giving him a nice relaxing BJ? Draining him makes a less likely chance for him to cheat too, so it's a side benefit
#2. Trust/Commitment. I'm the least bit jealous guy so this might vary. You can wear whatever tasteful sexy looking outfit you want. You can hang out with anyone you want. You can go out when you want. I'm not here to restrict you, but don't mistake my unrestrictness as a sign of you can do whatever you want and in the end it will be ok. If the trust is broken, I will question your motive, your intent, your reasonings for everything you do until the trust is sealed again, if it can at all.
#3. Ability to Auto-Cruise. It's a fact that guys need less maintenance in a relationship. We could sit on out butts and everything would be fine from our side. Women needs status updates. They need to feel connected and communicative with their partner. A compromising of the two extremes are necessary.
Girlfriend:
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Bikini Shot
For a healthy relationship from a man's point of view (or mine):
FYI, I'm 23.
#1. Sex/Intimacy. A lot of people have said sex is a vital factor in a healthy relationship and I couldn't agree more. Stop being lazy after getting married, having kids or when your sexual libido is waning. Sex to men is like diamonds for women. If you can't have sex or not in the mood to have sex, is it that much of a chore to spend 10 minutes of your time giving him a nice relaxing BJ? Draining him makes a less likely chance for him to cheat too, so it's a side benefit
#2. Trust/Commitment. I'm the least bit jealous guy so this might vary. You can wear whatever tasteful sexy looking outfit you want. You can hang out with anyone you want. You can go out when you want. I'm not here to restrict you, but don't mistake my unrestrictness as a sign of you can do whatever you want and in the end it will be ok. If the trust is broken, I will question your motive, your intent, your reasonings for everything you do until the trust is sealed again, if it can at all.
#3. Ability to Auto-Cruise. It's a fact that guys need less maintenance in a relationship. We could sit on out butts and everything would be fine from our side. Women needs status updates. They need to feel connected and communicative with their partner. A compromising of the two extremes are necessary.
Girlfriend:
Model Pose
Bikini Shot
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