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whats a DS-3 >>
A DS-3, sometimes called T-3 by the vulgar

, is a 28 T-1 plus "extra" signaling circuit.
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45mbps is slower than an OC-3, so would an oc3 use a bigger frame relay link? >>
An OC-3 can carry 3 DS-3 circuits.
AS previously noted, Frame Relay is defined between 56k DDS and DS-3 (45 Mbps). OC-3 (155 Mbps) can't be directly used. If OC-3 bandwidth is required, the provider translates the frame relay to ATM using the FRF8 standard and delivers an ATM circuit to the customer.
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and what's a frame relay link? >>
Frame Relay is a WAN system that allows Multiple sites to communicate without requiring multiple circuits per site. The sites are differentiated by Permanent Virtual Circuits, or PVC's.
Each PVC has a local identifier, called a DLCI. A DLCI is a number between 0 and 1023 (0-15 are reserved, however). Think of it as a VLAN tag, if that makes sense.
Frame relay was priced attractively because the provider "shared" bandwidth inside his frame relay network. This sharing cost the provider less than dedicated bandwidth, and the savings were passed on to the users.
Hope this helps;
Doug