What is the Indian "code" (skin disease or something?)

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datdamkid

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What the hell, this is really pissing me off, my mom found out abou tmy gf in Feb. Well feb to now everything was great until today somehow my mom found out i was out w/her and stuff. So my mom made me promise i didn't talk to her nor see her so i did (I lied) but then later on she comes to my desk and shes like how could you lie to me; how am i going to trust you now....the whole reason for this being is my gf's gmom has some "code" its some type of skin thing ? ( I think it has to do with when ur skin is white in some spots and the rest is tan or something like that ) My mom thinks this is heratetory (sp?) Or something. When we were talking in Feb when she first found out, my mom said i could date neother Guju indian girl and she wouldn't care. But I can't date the one that im inlove w/the most what is that. So i've continued to screw what my mom said because i'm in love wiht my gf like crazy. She really is the best thing that has happened to me, my first gf though im only 16 but i've been with her almost a year now. This is the same girl i posted about last Feb. that wanted to be friends but not go out but be friends w/benifits well that ended up leading to going out and now we've been goign out for a while.....so i'm not planing on leaving her but god this is really getting stressful w/my mother shes driving me nuts. and then another thing my mom said to me blantently that I ruined her life wtf?....why the heck would she say that well neway i just wanted to know whats so bad about this indain "code" if anyone knows of it. I really don't think its heratatory or anything.....

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1. mom found out about gf in Feb
2. mom said can't go w/her because of her gmom has some indian "code"
3. i continue to date her
4. mom finds out today that im still w/her
5. what is this indain "code" whats so bad about it
6. What the heck do i do, i'm in love w/my gf. She relaly means everything to me......I don't want leave her. but dont' want to explain this to my mother
7. forgot to mention mother doesnt care if i go out w/neother indian guju girl.
8. i'm probably confusing everyone because im really freaking stressed out over sh!t right now


 
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CarlKillerMiller

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Are you talking about Jamaican disease? Where the skin becomes splotchy and messed up?


Second, are you indian yourself? Please elaborate.

Answering that question would change many things.
 
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datdamkid

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Yes, I am indian. My gf is indian also. And yes what you said about the skin becoming splotchy and messed up is correct I think
 
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HOWITIS

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i think all dark skined people have that "disease" where you get pale blotches. isn't that what M. Jackson tried to say he had.
 
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Aimster

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I can understand if a girl has to sneak around her parent's back to see a guy.

A guy who has to sneak around his parents back to see a girl = boy.
 
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datdamkid

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Originally posted by: Aimster
I can understand if a girl has to sneak around her parent's back to see a guy.

A guy who has to sneak around his parents back to see a girl = boy.
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Well Indian parents are just the people that don't want the whole GF/BF cr@p at all...
 
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CarlKillerMiller

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It's not all dark skinned "low-caste" people, but you have to remember something important:

Althought most modern indians say that the caste system is no longer important, that's LIES. LIES. Every modern indian of a "higher" caste feels that they are better than the lower folks, although the lower folks are the people who are owning businesses and making their claim here in a completely different way from the upper class. That animosity is ALWAYS going to exist. You have to deal with it.

("upper caste", by the way, even though that's complete BS)
 
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datdamkid

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Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
Maybe she doesn't want you to date and this is an excuse?

Are both your parents Indian?
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Yes both of my parents are indian, but they said i can date, just not her.
 
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AgaBoogaBoo

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I say drop it and move on, they might have reasons, if they wanted to tell you they would have

Don't try to make too many "independent decisions" just yet, we can wait a little more time for that point in life, right?
 
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Aimster

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Originally posted by: datdamkid
Originally posted by: Aimster
I can understand if a girl has to sneak around her parent's back to see a guy.

A guy who has to sneak around his parents back to see a girl = boy.
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Well Indian parents are just the people that don't want the whole GF/BF cr@p at all...
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Not true.
I'm dating a girl and her parents do not know about her.

I bring girls home to my house to bang all the time. Nobody is going to say anything to me.

I understand her situation. A man needs to stand up to his parents and set his own rules. A girl can do the same, however girls seem to be more attached to their parents than guys.

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Not all Indian people are that way. I've dated Indian girls and I have met their parents.
Are you Hindu? Muslim?
How old are you?
 
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Cobalt

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First off you're 16, you're not in love and you don't fully understand what it is. So don't lose your head over it, it really isn't that big of a deal.
 
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amol

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Where in India are your parents from? Maybe they're Karade Bhraman and they want to you to date/marry another Karade Brahman
 
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Eli

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Oh for Christ's sake, tell your mom to mind her own fscking business and date anybody you please.
 
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CarlKillerMiller

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Originally posted by: Eli
Oh for Christ's sake, tell your mom to mind her own fscking business and date anybody you please.
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oh yeah, that's Really going to work. :roll:

"Hey ai, mind your own fvcking business!"

*disowned* *penniless*
 
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