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What is the definition of a 'nice guy"

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I'll give it to you straight, and this is coming from years of varied experience:

When you're dealing with girls, do whatever you have to do to get what you want. Lie to them all you want, use cheesey pickup lines, demean them, tear down their confidence, use them. Now don't get me wrong, this won't work on all girls, but it will work on most.

The nice guy is someone who puts up with some girl's ****** while getting nothing in return, all the while thinking that he's getting ahead. He's not.
 
Here's a nice guy, but not the only nice guy:
Any guy who declined a relationship because he didn't want to risk a friendship (usually because they're too good of friends.) Any guy who does that and where girls know that is probably going to be a magnet. Too bad nobody knows I've done that a few times 🙂
 
This isn't a complex topic, it only SEEM complicated because the phrase "nice guy" has been appropriated by self-obsessed losers who do things like create webpages about "ladder theory". These are not nice guys, most of the time they are bigger jackasses than the "jerks" they claim to hate so much. A nice guy is a guy who is nice. A "nice guy" is a guy who claims to be a nice guys while complaining that women are clearly all a bunch of stupid bitches because they won't blow him on a first date, because clearly they are all just attracted to jerks.

See the difference?
 
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: saymyname
Uh oh. You have a woman as a "best friend"? Are you trying to score? Did you fail and get in the friend zone? You're a nice guy aren't you?

Should have treated her like crap and you wouldn't be in this mess.
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it IS possible to have a female friend. She's married to another very good friend of mine.

FVCK. you don't always need an interior motive to become friends with a girl.

Should I deprive myself from her friendship just because she's married? FVCK NO.

People like you make me lose faith in society.
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QFFT. Two of my best friends are beautiful women. Their husbands are also two of my best friends, too.
 
A 'nice guy' is a guy with no knowledge of the dynamics of a given relationship the girl he would like to date is in and has put said girl on a pedeatal. He is constantly saying to himself "I would treat her so much better than that guy.....why do chicks always pick the assholes?".





oh yeah....and he never gets laid..........
 
friends donts get laid...nice guys do...being a dick doesnt mean more pussy...it means your a dick...

i suppose the definition of a nice guy would be someone who treats girls with respect...cares about what you have to say...wants to hang out and not just ******...etc.

the sad thing is...girls tend to want to be their friend...but once you hit the certain level of friend-ness, if you dont establish that you want some lovin...you will never get any...you will be helping her with all her problems and bull ****** while other people ****** her...its a load of crap

but...girls marry nice guys...so...i suppose the better choice depends on if you want to be married
 
Originally posted by: Journer
but...girls marry nice guys...so...i suppose the better choice depends on if you want to be married
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Girls also marry assholes that abuse and/or cheat on them day in and day out too. And why spend your whole life catering to women and always being the "nice guy friend" when you can have some fun, learn a thing or two, and the marry when you have a better idea of what you want in a mate?

Edit: BTW, when I say "cater to women" I mean in the extreme sense of the term as it applies to the stereotypical "nice guy" (no confidence, not comfortable expressing sexuality around women, extremely awkward socially with women). Not to be misconstrued with "doing nice things for women when they deserve it."
 
you mean guys that are afraid to really tell a woman how he feels, is always trying to "finesse" her, trying to "understand" her, trying to be her best "friend" and then can't figure out why she goes for a real man?

you mean that kind of guy?
 
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