What is she thinking?

[PCHO]

Ok, this girl that I have had a crush on for years is back home from college and I want to make my move but I'm not sure what shes thinking.

We are and have been great friends for awhile, but I'm interested in making it into more but I dont want to go for it and then lose our friendship.

Sometimes I think she feels the same way and other it seems like that thought couldnt be farther from her mind.

Any female AT posters have any advice?

 

[Russ]

<< I'm not sure what shes thinking. >>



If you ever figure out what a woman, ANY woman is thinking, you'll quickly be retiring to a tropical island with the royalties from publishing the solution to one of life's greatest mysteries.

Russ, NCNE

 

[Azraele]

Something you may want to consider:

Has she graduated college yet? If not, then she'll be going back in the fall, and, depending on how far away you are, you two may have to handle a long-distance relationship, not an easy thing on either person. Being so far apart from a loved one is very hard.


Other than that, you should consider telling her how you feel, but leave her plenty of room in case she just wants a friendship. A good heart to heart can be a wonderful thing, but you don't want her to feel perssured or uncomfortable.

Weigh the pros and cons carefully.

Good luck.

 

[Entity23]

another thing that I've heard is that a woman knows if she wants to sleep with you in the first 5 minutes of meeting you.....She may just want to be friends. Dont make a move on her, talk fist...drop some hints and see if she picks them up.