M: I said a close perspective has been shown to produce more bias than one at a distance sometimes, related to the level of previous bias, but I also disagree with your black and white characterization of the Arab. Arabs are like any other people because they ARE people. In the first place we know that we demonize the other to allow ourselves, in good conscience, to kill them, and that we project on others, the unknown, all our hidden psychological fears. Our own intransigence and unwillingness to change that we won't admit to ourselves, we see in the other via the psychological process called projection.
S: Of course they are people, and nowhere have I implied they are genetically inferior. If you took an Arab infant and raised him in a Western culture entirely, he'd become a Westerner...
M: You aren't saying they are genetically inferior. You are saying that their difference from you makes coexistence impossible, that they are too violent and not up to Colorado standards. You are biased in my opinion but it isn't racial. It comes from colorations from your past experience and closeness to bad experiences just like people in the US who live in high crime black areas tend to see all blacks as thugs. There is a contextual truth to what you say but it is blinding to higher realities, namely that we are all the same.
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M: What some call different may not be so different as we may have a psychological need to maintain, as I pointed our in the prior point I just made.
S: It's a different culture, and different cultures yield different ethics, values and morals. The scale is so different here you just can't compare them to Westerners.
M: Hehe, no fair saying things twice to make them seem true by repetition. I can and do compare them to Westerners because they are human like me. He who knows who he is, in my opinion, knows everybody and sees himself in others too. We are all the same. We are all the same. Hehe. Know thyself and perhaps you will agree.
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M: Many of these things are all a part of Islamic law, I believe.
S: Correct, but also the result of tribal social arrangement that has been going on... well, forever. It's interesting, but it's different. Arab regimes are based on force and dictatorship for a reason - way before the EXISTANCE of the CIA (for all those who imply US nutured these).
M: This sounds like nothing more than more bias to me. It is the use of force by governments that create monsters of the people and that monstrosity is always used as a convenient reason by dictators to justify their positions. All of humanity once lived in a tribal state and there is much in the way of good that is had thereby and much that can be bad just as in any arrangement humans have so far come to. This is no pretext, in my opinion, for Israel to justify the use of its own force as all such 'low types' will ever understand. It is very difficult for people with implacable enemies not to also lose their own bearings and go off the deep end. Israel has not been totally immune to this in my opinion.
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M: It is not just a habit. It is a cultural imperative. You neighbors will hound you to death and your family will lose all respect if you don't follow this tradition. It is, however, illegal in Islamic law and purely tribal in origin, no? Americans used to hold slaves.
S: Correct again. If you want to go on with the comparison to slavery, think what would happen if someone tried to change slavery after 1000 years. As part of this scenario, think that Jesus had a slave of his own. Would it be this easy, like, one civil war and a century or two of struggle for granting equal rights?
I'm not saying a change couldn't happen - it WILL happen - but it's going to take time and it should come from within the Arab nation. You can't enforce such huge changes UNLESS you go for another crusade, or drop the A-bomb Japan style. If you want to remold them, you have to shatter them first, but you can't just change them, not by normal wars and not by stirring like the CIA.
M: No, change will not be easy or instant, but change, information exchange, and the quantity of human knowledge have accelerated at an inconceivable rate and continues to do so. Good grief, I've seen Pong go to World of Warcraft. Hehe. Slavery would die very fast today, but the important point is that it was human conscience, the realization of the essential identical humanity of blacks and all other peoples that ended slavery. The compassion and love in the human soul came out. The stupid and senseless hate between Israel and the Arab world isn't fundamentally different or essentially more intractable. It is in the nature of chimpanzees to empathize with other chimps and to feel for them as they feel for themselves. The golden Rule IS genetic. The point is that consciousness and conscience can only happen in the individual. Nothing can force change, but humanity has a basic human nature, the image of God, toward which it will always evolve regardless of the madness in which it finds itself. In each person there is God who is trying to be known. Only you can hear your own inner voice. You are what you eat, as we like to say, and if you focus on differences, how bad the other guy is and not on your own faults and things that only you yourself can change, that evolution will never happen for you and thus for the rest of the human race. Have you not already come a long way? Change occurs out of need and Israel and Palestine have tremendous need. What is required, I think is focus, the realization, the refusal to focus on difference, but to know that we are all the same. Sadly, what we hate in the other is the part of ourselves we do not wish to see and that can change only by knowing yourself. We are all conditioned to be the way we are and need to study just what and how we came to be what we are. We need, also, I think, to go out and meet the other. The unknown is the playground of the devil and where he likes to pretend to appear.
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S: Yes, but the fact is that communication is forcing all of us to wake up to the other. We are not inferior and let the best of cultures win, no, in the field of cultural competition?
Again I agree with you, and the Internet and Sattelite TV (the biggest catalyst for a change in the Arab world) do shorten processes that could take centuries before.
But it will still take some time, and we still have this obstacle of Islamic fundamentalism that might direct the reform boat to a very wrong course. Granted, it will correct itself eventually, even on its own, but we have difficult times ahead.
M: Yes, but the war all people should be fighting, in my opinion, is not the war between people, but the war of ideas, the truth that we are all the same and the image of God. We need to find some way to convince humanity that it's demons are the product of our own mind, our self hate projected out there.
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M: They did not get to be perceived as traitors by being paragons of western values, but by being worthless scum, no?
S: As I said, none was a symbol of integrity, and it's easy to see why reverting to "pure" Islamic fundamental values was the chosen solution in many of these cases.
The thing is, Arabs could stand alot of aggression by their rulers, but when it comes to selling their honor to the west, they uproot.
The repeating theme is, they hate each other, but they hate the west more. It's the same with their attitude toward Israel, BTW.
M: I do not understand what you mean by uproot. Arab honor to me is fear of losing face which is fear of being humiliated, which is fear of remembering how being humiliated is how one was conditioned to conform to the insanity of our parents and society. The hate of the other is hate for who we were, angels who used to be God, and were turned by humiliation. Arab humiliation is universal. We are all the same. We fear hate because it killed us and we hate killers so we kill God within us for revenge. We have all strapped on the bomb and blown ourselves up. We have died to love.
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M: As I said, they co-exist pretty damn good where I live and all the kids are on the same soccer team. In the US we get lots of practice, have rewarding things to do beside kill each other, and have courts and police to put breaks on trouble. Far from perfect, mind you, but a bit intolerant of those claims it can't be done.
S: I said that some individuals find their ways to the west and integrate well. Others do not. I enjoyed a conversation enroute from NY to San Diego with a former Jordanian who sat next to me. He seemed to have adopted Western values completely, but can that be said on all the Arabs who chose to live in the west? Their majorities?
Look at what happens in Britain, Rome, Madrid, Paris. It's just the beginning. They - objectively - show no will to become true residents of their hosting countries.
M: I look and I see they are humiliated in those places too. But we don't do so much of that here because we are all members of some class or race that somewhere else is worthless and we cut ourselves more slack. Have to, it's competition city here and everybody's money is green and anybody may become a business partner.
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M: I will try to change the way you think if I find your thinking is also killing your neighbor and stands in the way of that happy earth. I will seek to bring you before the bar of rational minds.
S: It's the grim reality we have to face here.
Here's a brief summary of the state of coexistance in Israel -
In short, Arabs are mostly left alone. They don't live next to Jews, they don't pay taxes, they don't serve in the army. They enjoy some kind of under-the-table Autonomy. Their leaders, while representing them in the Knesset, show contempt to the state of Israel and some of whom even justify Nassarallah. When Hizbullah rockets hit Arab villages, the Arabs pronounced their dead children martyers, Shaids, just like suicide bombers.
The police doesn't want to deal with them, they are responsible for most of the property related crimes in Israel.
Could you imagine yourself an American town of Chinese with NO police presence, no taxes, nothing? A true no-mans-land?
They have their own ruling system, one that is based on tribes, just like in days of old.
Now tell me, how can you integrate another 2 million of those? What would happen to Israel?
M: Sounds to me like you might want to integrate those 2 million first, no? I would begin with taxes. I notice that people forget their race or color or religion when you put their hand in their wallet.
Why the hell are these people not given the same responsibilities as any other citizen. The sound like a bunch of welfare queens. Sounds like they have basically been put on the take. Where's the dignity in that. Pride comes when you shoulder your share of the good work of society.
S: Of course they are people, and nowhere have I implied they are genetically inferior. If you took an Arab infant and raised him in a Western culture entirely, he'd become a Westerner...
M: You aren't saying they are genetically inferior. You are saying that their difference from you makes coexistence impossible, that they are too violent and not up to Colorado standards. You are biased in my opinion but it isn't racial. It comes from colorations from your past experience and closeness to bad experiences just like people in the US who live in high crime black areas tend to see all blacks as thugs. There is a contextual truth to what you say but it is blinding to higher realities, namely that we are all the same.
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M: What some call different may not be so different as we may have a psychological need to maintain, as I pointed our in the prior point I just made.
S: It's a different culture, and different cultures yield different ethics, values and morals. The scale is so different here you just can't compare them to Westerners.
M: Hehe, no fair saying things twice to make them seem true by repetition. I can and do compare them to Westerners because they are human like me. He who knows who he is, in my opinion, knows everybody and sees himself in others too. We are all the same. We are all the same. Hehe. Know thyself and perhaps you will agree.
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M: Many of these things are all a part of Islamic law, I believe.
S: Correct, but also the result of tribal social arrangement that has been going on... well, forever. It's interesting, but it's different. Arab regimes are based on force and dictatorship for a reason - way before the EXISTANCE of the CIA (for all those who imply US nutured these).
M: This sounds like nothing more than more bias to me. It is the use of force by governments that create monsters of the people and that monstrosity is always used as a convenient reason by dictators to justify their positions. All of humanity once lived in a tribal state and there is much in the way of good that is had thereby and much that can be bad just as in any arrangement humans have so far come to. This is no pretext, in my opinion, for Israel to justify the use of its own force as all such 'low types' will ever understand. It is very difficult for people with implacable enemies not to also lose their own bearings and go off the deep end. Israel has not been totally immune to this in my opinion.
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M: It is not just a habit. It is a cultural imperative. You neighbors will hound you to death and your family will lose all respect if you don't follow this tradition. It is, however, illegal in Islamic law and purely tribal in origin, no? Americans used to hold slaves.
S: Correct again. If you want to go on with the comparison to slavery, think what would happen if someone tried to change slavery after 1000 years. As part of this scenario, think that Jesus had a slave of his own. Would it be this easy, like, one civil war and a century or two of struggle for granting equal rights?
I'm not saying a change couldn't happen - it WILL happen - but it's going to take time and it should come from within the Arab nation. You can't enforce such huge changes UNLESS you go for another crusade, or drop the A-bomb Japan style. If you want to remold them, you have to shatter them first, but you can't just change them, not by normal wars and not by stirring like the CIA.
M: No, change will not be easy or instant, but change, information exchange, and the quantity of human knowledge have accelerated at an inconceivable rate and continues to do so. Good grief, I've seen Pong go to World of Warcraft. Hehe. Slavery would die very fast today, but the important point is that it was human conscience, the realization of the essential identical humanity of blacks and all other peoples that ended slavery. The compassion and love in the human soul came out. The stupid and senseless hate between Israel and the Arab world isn't fundamentally different or essentially more intractable. It is in the nature of chimpanzees to empathize with other chimps and to feel for them as they feel for themselves. The golden Rule IS genetic. The point is that consciousness and conscience can only happen in the individual. Nothing can force change, but humanity has a basic human nature, the image of God, toward which it will always evolve regardless of the madness in which it finds itself. In each person there is God who is trying to be known. Only you can hear your own inner voice. You are what you eat, as we like to say, and if you focus on differences, how bad the other guy is and not on your own faults and things that only you yourself can change, that evolution will never happen for you and thus for the rest of the human race. Have you not already come a long way? Change occurs out of need and Israel and Palestine have tremendous need. What is required, I think is focus, the realization, the refusal to focus on difference, but to know that we are all the same. Sadly, what we hate in the other is the part of ourselves we do not wish to see and that can change only by knowing yourself. We are all conditioned to be the way we are and need to study just what and how we came to be what we are. We need, also, I think, to go out and meet the other. The unknown is the playground of the devil and where he likes to pretend to appear.
======================
S: Yes, but the fact is that communication is forcing all of us to wake up to the other. We are not inferior and let the best of cultures win, no, in the field of cultural competition?
Again I agree with you, and the Internet and Sattelite TV (the biggest catalyst for a change in the Arab world) do shorten processes that could take centuries before.
But it will still take some time, and we still have this obstacle of Islamic fundamentalism that might direct the reform boat to a very wrong course. Granted, it will correct itself eventually, even on its own, but we have difficult times ahead.
M: Yes, but the war all people should be fighting, in my opinion, is not the war between people, but the war of ideas, the truth that we are all the same and the image of God. We need to find some way to convince humanity that it's demons are the product of our own mind, our self hate projected out there.
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M: They did not get to be perceived as traitors by being paragons of western values, but by being worthless scum, no?
S: As I said, none was a symbol of integrity, and it's easy to see why reverting to "pure" Islamic fundamental values was the chosen solution in many of these cases.
The thing is, Arabs could stand alot of aggression by their rulers, but when it comes to selling their honor to the west, they uproot.
The repeating theme is, they hate each other, but they hate the west more. It's the same with their attitude toward Israel, BTW.
M: I do not understand what you mean by uproot. Arab honor to me is fear of losing face which is fear of being humiliated, which is fear of remembering how being humiliated is how one was conditioned to conform to the insanity of our parents and society. The hate of the other is hate for who we were, angels who used to be God, and were turned by humiliation. Arab humiliation is universal. We are all the same. We fear hate because it killed us and we hate killers so we kill God within us for revenge. We have all strapped on the bomb and blown ourselves up. We have died to love.
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M: As I said, they co-exist pretty damn good where I live and all the kids are on the same soccer team. In the US we get lots of practice, have rewarding things to do beside kill each other, and have courts and police to put breaks on trouble. Far from perfect, mind you, but a bit intolerant of those claims it can't be done.
S: I said that some individuals find their ways to the west and integrate well. Others do not. I enjoyed a conversation enroute from NY to San Diego with a former Jordanian who sat next to me. He seemed to have adopted Western values completely, but can that be said on all the Arabs who chose to live in the west? Their majorities?
Look at what happens in Britain, Rome, Madrid, Paris. It's just the beginning. They - objectively - show no will to become true residents of their hosting countries.
M: I look and I see they are humiliated in those places too. But we don't do so much of that here because we are all members of some class or race that somewhere else is worthless and we cut ourselves more slack. Have to, it's competition city here and everybody's money is green and anybody may become a business partner.
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M: I will try to change the way you think if I find your thinking is also killing your neighbor and stands in the way of that happy earth. I will seek to bring you before the bar of rational minds.
S: It's the grim reality we have to face here.
Here's a brief summary of the state of coexistance in Israel -
In short, Arabs are mostly left alone. They don't live next to Jews, they don't pay taxes, they don't serve in the army. They enjoy some kind of under-the-table Autonomy. Their leaders, while representing them in the Knesset, show contempt to the state of Israel and some of whom even justify Nassarallah. When Hizbullah rockets hit Arab villages, the Arabs pronounced their dead children martyers, Shaids, just like suicide bombers.
The police doesn't want to deal with them, they are responsible for most of the property related crimes in Israel.
Could you imagine yourself an American town of Chinese with NO police presence, no taxes, nothing? A true no-mans-land?
They have their own ruling system, one that is based on tribes, just like in days of old.
Now tell me, how can you integrate another 2 million of those? What would happen to Israel?
M: Sounds to me like you might want to integrate those 2 million first, no? I would begin with taxes. I notice that people forget their race or color or religion when you put their hand in their wallet.
