As far as I know, F@H is the only one that has a "throttle". To run other projects alongside, you will have to look/run them together. The thing that comes into play here is priorities. Other than the "standard" priorities that Windows allows you to have (Realtime, High, AboveNormal, Normal, BelowNormal, Low), there are many "sub-priorities", 20 in total if i remember correctly.
Although projects may use the "Low" priority as you see in Task Manager, some (such as Seti@home, Seventeen or Bust) will use priority 4, whereas some like DF (or SoB using True-Idle in the Service Installer) will use priority 1, however they will still show as "low" in TaskManager. The numbers may be a bit off, but the idea is the same. Therefore, to run 2 projects at once, and have them split 50/50 you will need 2 projects that are at the same priority, and this will be seen by the CPU usage in TaskManager.
Of course, if you're talking about a dual CPU machine, then everything changes!

You would assign one project to one processor, and assign the other process to the other CPU.
Confused