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The intense heat from just about any building fire will MELT steel. After a really intense blaze, you can find slag and other evidence of molten metal.
The intense heat of the fire is the most likely cause of the collapse, causing the steel to reach such a temperature that it could no longer support the immense weight. Once the top floors start coming down like that, the whole structure is vulnerable. It just comes down like a house of cards under the immense pressures.
While the black box can withstand a lot, it is not indestructable. Extreme impact crashes involving a steep angle of impact relative to the ground often damage the black box enough so that little information can be obtained from it. With several thousand tons of rubble piling on top of whatever was left of the black box after impact, I would not be surprised if it is beyond salvage.