Just because YOU can mod both phones, doesn't mean they're equally easy to do. I don't understand why you keep beating on this dead horse. YES with enough effort and know how you CAN mod out a iPhone... but it isn't easy
1. you have to jailbreak...
2. you have to spend money on Cydia apps..
3. You can't upgrade your phone with the latest iOS software
I can mod the crap out of my android phone without even rooting. I don't have to PAY for any apps to do it... and I can customize pretty damn far in 15 minutes without editing any files of any kind.
Stop denying reality.
Sorry but jailbreaking is FAR easier than rooting. I've rooted my Milestone, Nexus One, Nexus S and Captivate. I'm not an idiot at doing these things but the last 2 took a while to figure out. Lots of Android drivers to install here and there. Not to mention every device's rooting is different. Rooting the Nexus S was manual while the Captivate had a One Click Root app that didn't work simply because I forgot to install 1 last driver. I went to device manager like 5 times already and I thought I installed everything, but there was 1 last thing I forgot.
And as I said rooting is only 1 step. No one just roots and stops there. Most people unlock the bootloader and install recovery. That's some tough shit as some devices like my Nexus S and Milestone you just download the recovery from forum. The Captivate I had to use Rom Manager which I never use and then it downloaded recovery to some mystery directory. I kept wondering WHY I wasn't in ClockWork yet everytime I rebooted in recovery. Turns out I had to replace the update.zip on my own. Thought Rom Manager would do that automatically.
When I got my iPod Touch 1G, I jailbroke it in no time. Sure I messed up DFU mode, but you just hit restart in PwnageTool and it told me the steps all over again and counted down with me. I ran WinPwn and my ex-gf jailbroke her iPod Touch 2G on her own.
When I got my iPod Touch 4G, it took like 5 seconds with Greenp0ison. When my mom gets her iPad in the next few days I'm confident I'll plug it in and be done in seconds.
When my friend brought her Captivate to me, I had to read up XDA Forums for like 10 minutes covering rooting, ROM guides, how to flash to stock, etc. It's a headache and it's a new process for every goddamn phone.
Seriously, rooting, cydia store, etc is all the most easiest thing. It's a unifying concept. The fact that the Installous will update your pirated apps for you tells you how far the iOS developers have gone. There's nothing that even comes close for Android.
And seriously, only some Cydia apps are paid.