What does it mean when your girlfriend says to you...

TJN23

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"I know you're driving up here to see me is more out of an obligation than a desire..."

like god, she's my girlfriend, why does she think i dont wanna go up and see her?

sorry for the rant
 

TJN23

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i'm considering it....friday is the only time i'll see all my college guys in one place this summer, so i told her i'd be up on saturday (it's still a long weekend)....apparently now it's an obligation...
 

Kerouactivist

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Originally posted by: TJN23
"I know you're driving up here to see me is more out of an obligation than a desire..."

like god, she's my girlfriend, why does she think i dont wanna go up and see her?

sorry for the rant

If she lives in the D.C. area it might mean that she is banging Micheal Jordan. :)
 

Hoober

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Man, she sounds like a real pity case.

"Give me attention. Give me attention!"
 

TJN23

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Originally posted by: Hoober
Man, she sounds like a real pity case.

"Give me attention. Give me attention!"

shes changed a lot, i hate it...shes goin away to grad school next semester for 2 yrs while i still have a yr left of undergrad........

i think this whole goin away thing is gettin to her
 

radioouman

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Tell her that there is no desire left at all. Tell her that you're pretending you're married.
 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: TJN23
"I know you're driving up here to see me is more out of an obligation than a desire..."

like god, she's my girlfriend, why does she think i dont wanna go up and see her?

sorry for the rant

It means she's got some serious issues. Geez, if you didn't want to see her, you wouldn't be with her in the first place.

 

TJN23

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Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: TJN23
"I know you're driving up here to see me is more out of an obligation than a desire..."

like god, she's my girlfriend, why does she think i dont wanna go up and see her?

sorry for the rant

It means she's got some serious issues. Geez, if you didn't want to see her, you wouldn't be with her in the first place.

ding ding ding!!! someone sees it my way
 

GroundZero

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Originally posted by: TJN23
"I know you're driving up here to see me is more out of an obligation than a desire..."

like god, she's my girlfriend, why does she think i dont wanna go up and see her?

sorry for the rant


she's got someone new
 

TJN23

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doubtful....but then again u can never be too sure...we have always been happy until talking about going away has come up....she thinks i have no confidence in us being 2 yrs apart...we've done 6 months apart twice before...

to be honest, i am having serious doubts of going through with it...i'm not even 21 yrs old....it seems like so much stress to deal with..
 

Kerouactivist

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Originally posted by: TJN23
doubtful....but then again u can never be too sure...we have always been happy until talking about going away has come up....she thinks i have no confidence in us being 2 yrs apart...we've done 6 months apart twice before...

to be honest, i am having serious doubts of going through with it...i'm not even 21 yrs old....it seems like so much stress to deal with..

Amen
 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: radioouman
Tell her that there is no desire left at all. Tell her that you're pretending you're married.

Owwww....that was below the belt. :D

<---Happily married
 

dabuddha

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I'll go out on a limb and play the devil's advocate here. Maybe she just wants to feel reassured. Especially with her going away for 2 years. Women are funny like that.
 

ragazzo

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just go talk to her about it. tell her what you're telling us (not the "i'm thinking about not going" part). reassure her things will be okay.

 

Brutuskend

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Bad news.

In my experiance it sounds like she's getting ready to "brake it off".

For your sakeI hope I'm wrong!
 

Koing

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that is one stunt to pull on a guy driving up to see her.

Man you driving all the way up and she says that!

I think thats screwed up. Go see your friends and have some fun. You don't see them often so she shouldn't be like that.
 

Koing

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that is one stunt to pull on a guy driving up to see her.

Man you driving all the way up and she says that!

I think thats screwed up. Go see your friends and have some fun. You don't see them often so she shouldn't be like that.