what does it mean when a "not so attractive" female likes you?

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skim milk

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I wrote "not so attractive" because I feel that I'm in no position to be calling someone ugly
I know vulnerability is one of the factors needed to attract a mate and I definitely showed that so she probably feels more comfortable around me.
I'm not the biggest hit with girls since my personality sucks but this girl showing me interest rubs me the wrong way.
In a way, I'm flattered but at the same time, if she knew I was out of her league, she wouldn't show any signs.. you know what I mean?

*not saying I'm better than anybody but want to know if it means anything regarding the way she views me
 
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eakers

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it means that she finds you attractive and likes your personality.

Even if a girl has the "hes too good for me" thought, they will still go for it.
 
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patentman

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Dude, it means she likes you. if you need any more explanation then that then its more then your terrible personality thats preventing you from being a hit with the girls. And for the record, girls are not generally "attracted" to vulnerability. A lot of women have a motherly instinct that encourages them subconsciously to comfort those who show vulnerability, but that generally doesn't mean they are romantically interested in vulnerable men. On the contrary, I think you will find that most women are romantically attracted to confident, able men who are sure of themselves. That at least explains why a lot of women seem to be attracted to the biggest A-holes around. After they get treated like crap for a while they eventually come around to realize that they want a nice guy who treats them right....just takes some time.
 
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dug777

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Are you for real OP?

She means exactly what an 'attractive' female means. God i wonder about you people sometimes.

Altho..she could be a man in drag looking for some virgin ass :laugh:
 
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arcenite

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Originally posted by: dug777
Are you for real OP?

She means exactly what an 'attractive' female means. God i wonder about you people sometimes.

Altho..she could be a man in drag looking for some virgin ass :laugh:
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;)

I thought when an ugly girl likes you that means all of Jupiter's moons are lined up and read to send a death ray to kill the man who the ugly girl is attracted to.
 
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GeneValgene

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Originally posted by: fritolays
I wrote "not so attractive" because I feel that I'm in no position to be calling someone ugly
I know vulnerability is one of the factors needed to attract a mate and I definitely showed that so she probably feels more comfortable around me.
I'm not the biggest hit with girls since my personality sucks but this girl showing me interest rubs me off the wrong way.
In a way, I'm flattered but at the same time, if she knew I was out of her league, she wouldn't show any signs.. you know what I mean?

*not saying I'm better than anybody but want to know if it means anything regarding the way she views me
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maybe you're not out of her league
 
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Lola

i feel sorry for the male gender because of this utterly lame question...
why is it so hard to think that no matter how one looks, social status, race, religion, nationality, they are allowed to like anyone they want?

Why does it "rub you the wrong way" just because someone you think is not attractive (don't try to word it nicer so you don't get flammed) likes you?
You should be flattered they find your personality and self appealing.
 
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amicold

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
i feel sorry for the male gender because of this utterly lame question...
why is it so hard to think that no matter how one looks, social status, race, religion, nationality, they are allowed to like anyone they want?

Why does it "rub you the wrong way" just because someone you think is not attractive (don't try to word it nicer so you don't get flammed) likes you?
You should be flattered they find your personality and self appealing.
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Don't kid yourself over there. I've seen plenty of heavier, or unattractive women who seem to take a liking to anyone willing to talk to them. I don't know if they realize it or not, but it's apparent. They just seem to want the emotional support so they'll go for anyone and anything, which if you ask me, is a false conception of "liking" someone. In other words, they "like" a few of their male friends, and if one of them starts a relationship with them, suddenly it's true love. Pathetic in a way...
 
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AMDZen

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I'm not sure exactly what your getting at, your post doesn't really sound like a question - or that your asking for advice or anything, but I can relate.

Seems like anymore the only girls that find me attractive are those that I don't find attractive. It sucks, but I live with it I guess. A lot of my friends think I should just screw all of them because they want me, but I'm not really that type of guy. I know its weird, and every other male on the planet wants nothing but sex - but I would rather find a girl I'm actually attracted to and sleep with her instead.

So I don't know if this is kind of where you going with your post, but it sounds more like a rant to me.
 
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ValkyrieofHouston

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Originally posted by: fritolays
I wrote "not so attractive" because I feel that I'm in no position to be calling someone ugly
I know vulnerability is one of the factors needed to attract a mate and I definitely showed that so she probably feels more comfortable around me.
I'm not the biggest hit with girls since my personality sucks but this girl showing me interest rubs me the wrong way.
In a way, I'm flattered but at the same time, if she knew I was out of her league, she wouldn't show any signs.. you know what I mean?

*not saying I'm better than anybody but want to know if it means anything regarding the way she views me
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What are you really asking, and what are you worried about?
 
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