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What do you plan to do with your parents when they get old?

Mine want an assisted living community... probably this one specifically as it's extreemly high end and he knows well in advance what he'll be getting. http://kcc.kendal.org/

My dad will kill himself if he gets "bad," al la crapping his pants and forgetting who his wife is.
 
Lock 'em up in chains, down in the basement!!! 😉

Actually, we lost Dad almost 5 years ago, from lung cancer (thus why I have quit the demon cigarettes!), and Mom now stays with my single sister (they share a 2-br apt). It works out well for both of them, and they enjoy each other's company. When mom starts getting to be too much of a burden, she'll likely just fade away, since I know she doesn't want to die in a rest home.
 
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: iamtrout
What are the different options? What do your parents want? If you're Asian, what do your parents want?

:roll:

What about blacks or mexicans?

What's that supposed to mean? My parents (Asian) both want to move in with me when they get old, because that's Chinese culture.
 
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: iamtrout
What are the different options? What do your parents want? If you're Asian, what do your parents want?

:roll:

What about blacks or mexicans?

Stop trying to start sh!t. Most Asian cultures have very different traditions regarding taking care of the elderly that whites, blacks, and other cultures do not have.
 
QFT, I'am Indian and I cannot dream of leaving my parents in a retirement home or so. Not that it is wrong, but my culture dictates I take care of them and I will do so just like my parents took care of theirs.
 
QFT, I'am Indian and I cannot dream of leaving my parents in a retirement home or so. Not that it is wrong, but my culture dictates I take care of them and I will do so just like my parents took care of theirs.
 
My parents will live with me or my brother. They are the best parents on earth and I'm going to take care of them like they always have for me.
 
lock them up in an institution, and study them to see what nutrients can be extracted for our own personal benifit
 
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: iamtrout
What are the different options? What do your parents want? If you're Asian, what do your parents want?

:roll:

What about blacks or mexicans?

Grasping at straws so early in the morning?

Trouty, why did we ditch the other thread? You still didn't answer my question about you getting a job.
 
No clue, but they haven't even hit 50 yet so I've got a while to plan it out.
The GF's parents have mentioned in the past that she's the one they want to take care of them. So I figure when it gets to that point, we'll sell their house and build an addition on to ours.
 
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: iamtrout
What are the different options? What do your parents want? If you're Asian, what do your parents want?

:roll:

What about blacks or mexicans?

They don't count, they're only 15 or 16 years younger than their parents 😀

Seriously though, culture != race.
 
After having to deal with my grandparents, my mom and dad bought some sort of extra insurance specifically so we *wouldn't* have to worry about it. I forget exactly what it was though.

I realize what I just wrote might sound mean, but that's basically what it boiled down to. My grandmother was alright; she was just physically weak. My grandfather, on the other hand, had Alzheimer's, and did all sorts of odd things. He nearly burned the house down two years ago, because he set his pillow against one of the heating panels that were built into the wall. his room smelled like smoke for a *long* time.

Nate
 
Originally posted by: Poulsonator
It will be if they lose their minds.
I'm callous, I know. But if they truely lose their minds, then it doesn't matter what happens to them. They are already gone. Those are just shells that eat, drink, and sleep.

If they forget to eat and die, they were already dead. Why waste tons of society's resources simply to keep a shell living a lifeless life for only ~6 more months?
 
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