Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Besides that, I think it is a great thing to do. I don't really understand the whole "have a kid out there" thing. I know everyone is different and sees things differently but to me, that is such a non issue. I mean... without trying to be too graphic or gross... why is it that some men, who normally never think about sperm and where it is deposited and what it could turn out to be... get so squeemish about having a purpose when they eject it.
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Why is it sperm every where else, but then potentially 'my kid' for this? Seriously... maybe I am just older and see things differently, maybe it is cause i am female... but I asked the b/f about this and he says that it would be no big deal to him at all, except for the child support thing.
Originally posted by: moshquerade
it is definitely a moral dilemma isn't it... i mean it's easy money, but, if i were a guy, i don't think i could get by the idea that there could be a kid with my genes running around out there without my knowledge...Originally posted by: Mill
One of the dumbest ideas I've ever heard of.
and then that kid might want to contact you one day.
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you didn't answer. have you donated?Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: moshquerade
it's about whether you mind that someone may have your child.
i.e., selfishness
Originally posted by: cavemanmoron
Originally posted by: moshquerade
it is definitely a moral dilemma isn't it... i mean it's easy money, but, if i were a guy, i don't think i could get by the idea that there could be a kid with my genes running around out there without my knowledge...Originally posted by: Mill
One of the dumbest ideas I've ever heard of.
and then that kid might want to contact you one day.
Right.I would be cautious of this.
The court might say you owe back child support! :shocked:
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
I think the only thing that makes this a bad idea is the possible child support issue. That is the most hateful thing ever.
Besides that, I think it is a great thing to do. I don't really understand the whole "have a kid out there" thing. I know everyone is different and sees things differently but to me, that is such a non issue. I mean... without trying to be too graphic or gross... why is it that some men, who normally never think about sperm and where it is deposited and what it could turn out to be... get so squeemish about having a purpose when they eject it.
(sorry, it is hard to NOT sound sarcastic on this topic thru this medium. But I dont mean to, I promise).
Way I see it... so many guys have unprotected sex and leave a deposit and it is no big deal. And really... never think that ...hmmm.... they dont think about it as a potential child. They think about it as sperm. Whether it ends up down the shower drain, or a bed sheet, it is just sperm. It is not thought about as anything more... I think that making this deposit would be the same thing. Deposit the sperm and never think of it as anything else, just sperm.
Why is it sperm every where else, but then potentially 'my kid' for this? Seriously... maybe I am just older and see things differently, maybe it is cause i am female... but I asked the b/f about this and he says that it would be no big deal to him at all, except for the child support thing.