what do you do when you have problems maintaining a platonic relationship

[unsped]

i have a few really good female friends, im certainly in the friendzone which is fine by me because i like hanging out with them. lately ive been spending more time with them and its tougher and tougher to keep my feelings platonic.

ive been thinking about hanging out with them less, hanging out with different people, or just dissolving the friendship in general.

 

[wfbberzerker]

bah, you just dont have strong enough willpower!

 

[teddyv]

Get a girlfriend?

 

[bondboy]

Try to make the jump from friend ladder to relationship ladder. Good luck!

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Topic Title: what do you do when you have problems maintaining a platonic relationship

Replace the word "platonic" in front of the word "friend" with "girl" and have sex.

 

[drinkmorejava]

Originally posted by: teddyv
Get a girlfriend?

If you're capable, that seems like the best idea. Somehow I was able to get out of the friend zone thing with my gf; prob something to do with not seeing eachother over the summer...not to say you should make one of those girls your gf.

 

[Kadarin]

4 choices:

1. Start a relationship with one of them if possible
2. Hang out with them less
3. Keep hanging out with them, suffer from unrequited love, and say goodbye to whatever manhood you ever thought you had
4. Huge orgy

 

[her209]

Friends w/ benefits!!!

 

[neegotiator]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
4 choices:

1. Start a relationship with one of them if possible
2. Hang out with them less
3. Keep hanging out with them, suffer from unrequited love, and say goodbye to whatever manhood you ever thought you had
4. Huge orgy

option 4 gets my vote

 

[Rastus]

Have them set you up with their friends.

 

[huberm]

sorry, you can never get off the friend ladder and move to the relationship ladder.

You become attracted to them because men only have one ladder, while women have two. When women on our ladder do something impressive, they move up. When men do something impressive to women, they will move up their respective ladder, but NEVER switch ladders.

 

[CTrain]

Use you hand more often....it helps alot.