What do u talk about with girls?

[ThaGrandCow]

<< I talk to them about the same stuff I talk about with guys for the most part. They are just normal people too. Thats one thing I learned a while ago. Treat them for the most part like your guy friends (but dont fart towards them). Be a little more gentle, but still treat them like everyone else. What do you do when you get into silence with your friends? Just dont hit the woman and everything will be alright.

You mean I should talk aboot how many w0men i've slept with? >>

Exactly. That'll get you into bed in less than a minute guaranteed. Women love knowing that they are just another notch on the belt.

 

[her209]

LMAO at JFur's comment.

 

[Jfur]

<< As for the military guy, well we can't win them all can we? Maybe he had something else on his mind that night, maybe you and him just didn't click, or maybe he just wasn't comfortable enough around women yet. Everyone needs practice, and maybe you were one of the first people he'd actually been on a date with. >>



Actually, he was really cute, so we went out hiking a few times. He would ONLY talk about the military though. We had been hiking for about 3 hours in complete silence when I asked him if he wanted some water. "No. When we are in training, we travel through the forests without hydration... [silence]." It was actually kind of funny but it got old fast.

 

[Sluggo]

Hmm after being married for 12 years, it goes something like this:

ME: Was that your Mom on the phone?

HER: Yes, why?

ME: Just asking

HER: Dont take that tone with me!!

ME: Huh?

HER: Dont give me that HUH Bullsh1t.

ME: Huh?

HER: Screw You

ME: Huh?

HER: Storms out of room yelling, " you always do this crap to me!!!!!!!"

ME: Finally looks up from computer "Huh?"

 

[Jerboy]

<<

<< As for the military guy, well we can't win them all can we? Maybe he had something else on his mind that night, maybe you and him just didn't click, or maybe he just wasn't comfortable enough around women yet. Everyone needs practice, and maybe you were one of the first people he'd actually been on a date with. >>



Actually, he was really cute, so we went out hiking a few times. He would ONLY talk about the military though. We had been hiking for about 3 hours in complete silence when I asked him if he wanted some water. "No. When we are in training, we travel through the forests without hydration... [silence]." It was actually kind of funny but it got old fast. >>



There are plenty of cute stupid guys tho..

 

[ThaGrandCow]

<< Actually, he was really cute, so we went out hiking a few times. He would ONLY talk about the military though. We had been hiking for about 3 hours in complete silence when I asked him if he wanted some water. "No. When we are in training, we travel through the forests without hydration... [silence]." It was actually kind of funny but it got old fast. >>

<sound of jet going down in flames and hitting the ground in a large explosion>
Definitely not Don Juan material.

 

[her209]

<<Actually, he was really cute, so we went out hiking a few times. He would ONLY talk about the military though. We had been hiking for about 3 hours in complete silence when I asked him if he wanted some water. "No. When we are in training, we travel through the forests without hydration... [silence]." It was actually kind of funny but it got old fast. >>

Cause for a relationship: really cute guy
Cause for a sexual harrassment case: not really cute guy

I'm speaking from my experiences.

 

[tommigsr]

well...when I run things to talk about, I start asking her questions like...what are her plans for the future? What are some features in guys does she like? Another bonus question could be: what kind of women does she like? LOL that would strike it right there...if you guys have the same taste, damn hot diggity, you might be able to pull an orgy out of her LOL

 

[joohang]

LMAO @ Sluggo

 

[Orsorum]

<< LMAO @ Sluggo >>




lol Almost spit toffee peanuts out of my mouth...

 

[Koing]

Talking about her was good.

Ask her whats shes been up to? What shes been doing at work?

If your starting out ask her some of the things she likes to do then you talk about that. You talk about the things you like.

I talk about anything and everything with this girl. Talk about your interests and she'll like to hear about it or at least she'll find it interesting. Make her laugh.

Just talk about 'stuff' that comes to mind. Current affairs stuff on tv is always good and tv programs that you both find funny.

I talk about relationships with her and my love of my interests and she talks about her things and her studies etc.

Me and this girl really click though. I have found that no matter what I've tried with some girls you can't get them to talk for long though. They reply with too short of an answer usually yes or no and it kills the flow. If its like this for too long then 'maybe' its not right and just be friends with her and look for someone else. Or you are spending too much time with her and haven't done much else out of you two together.

Well tickling her is a good idea they love and hate it at the same time.....

 

[her209]

I hate it when they wait for you to start a conversation and then give you crap ass answers like "Oh, I see." I agree that answers like that kill the conversation mood. To me, that sounds like "I'm not interested in what you have to say". C'mon, give us guys a break, we are not mind readers.

 

[Kadarin]

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<< As for the military guy, well we can't win them all can we? Maybe he had something else on his mind that night, maybe you and him just didn't click, or maybe he just wasn't comfortable enough around women yet. Everyone needs practice, and maybe you were one of the first people he'd actually been on a date with. >>



Actually, he was really cute, so we went out hiking a few times. He would ONLY talk about the military though. We had been hiking for about 3 hours in complete silence when I asked him if he wanted some water. "No. When we are in training, we travel through the forests without hydration... [silence]." It was actually kind of funny but it got old fast. >>



LMAO! That's just too funny Great story!

 

[J Heartless Slick]

Talk about what is important to her. Try an opening question like "How was your day?" or "What did you do today?" Usually the woman (girl) will take it from there. Make sure you, kept eye contact, listen carefully, ask non-judgemental questions, and make non-judgemental observations. Use words like "really", "what happen then?", "and then what did she(he) say?", etc.

 

[kaiotes]

i'm very good at a being quiet, whether it be w/ girls or guys.
i'm a guy btw...

 

[PCHO]

just ask the simple question, "How was your day?"

With most girls this can turn into a six hour conversation. If she responds with nothing then shes probably not worth talking to. Just my experiences.

 

[CraigRT]

<< serious answers please >>



Heh.. funny how little people actually honor the man's request...

I am not sure what to say to you... it should come to you, and shouldn't have to be drilled into your head what to say, else you might end up using it again the next time it happens, and that will look dumb.. look around you next time, maybe there is something you could easily talk about that is sitting right under your nose. you'd be surprised at how easily conversation comes when you start talking about the types of coffee or tea you are sipping.. anything works, conversation of any sort is healthy, as long as it's not cussing and swearing and such..

But since I am not a real conversation pro, I am fairly quiet in real life, I am not really sure I am the ultimate person to be giving this advice, although I HAVE been told I talk alot from a few girls.. (I was surprised to hear that)... Personally I like when the other person leads the convo, and I just add.

 

[Danman]

I always ask my gf how she is doing and what homework we have due next period

and just plain talking.

 

[Anghang]

<< I hate it when they wait for you to start a conversation and then give you crap ass answers like "Oh, I see." I agree that answers like that kill the conversation mood. To me, that sounds like "I'm not interested in what you have to say". C'mon, give us guys a break, we are not mind readers. >>



or when its her that starts the conversation and still gives crap answers like that...so in my mind i'm thinking what the hell did you start a conversation with me for if your gonna answer with:

oh i see
hmmm
ooooook
alrighty

a lot others i can't think of at the moment...hehe...its as if she starts the conversation but expects me to carry it on for the both of us....*boggle*

 

[CrazyDe1]

Well..I'm a BS artist I never have trouble comin up w/ some BS...the thing is if you think about it you're not gonna think of anything to say...just sit there and chill out and make sure music is on in the background..cause if music is on you can always sing the lyrics or comment on it. Things I usually talk about are crazy stuff that happened, I tell lots of stories, I make lots of jokes about topics we're talkin about, and I also tease the girl lightly...all in good fun...where she knows you're jokin and not makin fun of her. Talk like you would anyone else...the thing is sometimes I'm not in the right mood and I just have nothin to say...in which case its fun to make fun of people or things going on around you.

The other thing is I'm really blatant...some people get offended by it...so sometimes around girls you have to tone it down a notch. Like me and my black friend will sit and make fun of each other the whole time...I'll say stuff like why don't black people go to college dude? He'll say stuff like why can't you jump? Its all in good fun and its real funny...but it offends girls sometimes. Another example is I brought my girl over to hangout w/ my friends...and she said eh or somethin...and my friend was like are u canadian? And she was like no why...he was all like cuase I was gonna say you have some beady little eyes...if you know us its all in good fun, but if not it really offends some people.

Now if you can find a girl that lets you say anything and shes all about it you've found a keeper.

Oh yeah, if I have to walk up and approach a girl I become retarded and disregard everything I said above...then I don't know what the hell to say...but if I'm hangin out or if I know her or if I'm on a date I'm fine.

 

[CrazyDe1]

Oh yeah...usually its not a problem...becuase I read somehwere chicks speak an average of 15000 words a day while dudes say 5000. In other words if you've run otuta words shes still goin strong...

I've experienced this first hand...chicks venting about their whole lifestory...venting their relationships...everything...I've been able to put the phone down...leave and come back and they're still goin...