As for pop, most likely the gas is not escaping the bottle.
What is happening is the gas escapes into the thin atmosphere that fills the top of the bottle, and then, when you open it, bye bye gas.
You'll also notice how much faster even a fairly new bottle will go flat, based on how much liquid remains. If you take most of the bottle out, reseal it, check in a few days... it'll be flat most likely. If you only take a few swigs, seal it and check back in a few days, it won't be nearly as flat, if much flatter at all.
Try this: once finished with your serving, before sealing the bottle completely, squeeze the sides until you have a deformed bottle that has very little "empty space" in the neck.
It won't go flat nearly as fast, in fact, if it's not opened but a few times, the carbonation will be fairly well preserved.
If it's a bad seal, gas could be escaping. But most of the time, that gas is simply waiting beneath the cap, longing to escape the bottle before you can enjoy the beverage.
