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What are the things you look for in a girlfriend?

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How much does appearance matter? Money? Personality?

If her family had $100 mil*, would that matter to you? What if you were just looking to casually date? What if you were financially comfortable yourself?

*Edit: make it more like $1-3 billion. lol
 
Appearance and personality matter, not sure why money would matter. If her family had 100mil, that would make it tough for me, becuase you know she would be spoiled as all hell and expect everything she wants. I couldn't deal with that sh!t for 40 years waiting for her parents croak.
 
For me, the appropriate girlfriend would not speak English (or at all really).

Wouldn't want the wife to find out.
 
friendly, sexy and attractive. when we make eye contact it must be sexy. you know? you can just tell sometimes, even if you aren't all that horny. it's all about the eyes.

Edit: money doesn't matter to me. personality and appearance do. A good personality makes a girl who would be so-so in another guys eyes super hot in my eyes. The difference lies, I believe, in what we seek in our mates' temperament. What sucks is knowing you have something and never having a chance or never taking it.
 
In no particular order:

Attractive physically
Good personality
Intelligent
Good sense of humor
Emotional maturity
Someone who is secure with herself
Someone who "has it together" in terms of finances and life in general
Good "chemistry"
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
In no particular order:

Attractive physically
Good personality
Intelligent
Good sense of humor
Emotional maturity
Someone who is secure with herself
Someone who "has it together" in terms of finances and life in general
Good "chemistry"
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Winner you summed it up very well! Standing Ovation for you!
 
great personality
physically attractive (eyes are the first thing I take into account, then smile, then her backside 😉)
good height (I'm near 6'4, so I like legs on a woman. Preferably around 5'8-5'10.)
in good shape (tight in the right spots)
avoids drama
social and outgoing
confident
one or more college degrees (while she could be the next polymath and not have a college degree, chances are she will have one if she is above average--so it's a good "filter")
cannot be of certain profession (for example, I refuse to date a girl in law, insurance or politics)
mature
intelligent
wide variety of interests--doesn't have to know everything, but willing to learn and take interest in things (otherwise I'd get bored of her).
good financial and relationship background--people who come with a lot of baggage tend to keep on in that lifestyle
love to laugh
non-smoker
no tattoos
must not eat seafood (odd, I know, but I find watching people eat seafood to be absolutely revolting)
willing to settle down
non-religious (agnostic, preferably)
doesn't want a dozen kids (a couple, maybe when we're in our mid 30s)
doesn't already HAVE kids


this is our dream girl, right? of course this criteria is too picky 😀
 
Originally posted by: Flyback
great personality
physically attractive (eyes are the first thing I take into account, then smile, then her backside 😉)
good height (I'm near 6'4, so I like legs on a woman. Preferably around 5'8-5'10.)
in good shape (tight in the right spots)
avoids drama
social and outgoing
confident
one or more college degrees (while she could be the next polymath and not have a college degree, chances are she will have one if she is above average--so it's a good "filter")
cannot be of certain profession (for example, I refuse to date a girl in law, insurance or politics)
mature
intelligent
wide variety of interests--doesn't have to know everything, but willing to learn and take interest in things (otherwise I'd get bored of her).
good financial and relationship background--people who come with a lot of baggage tend to keep on in that lifestyle
love to laugh
non-smoker
no tattoos
must not eat seafood (odd, I know, but I find watching people eat seafood to be absolutely revolting)
willing to settle down
non-religious (agnostic, preferably)
doesn't want a dozen kids (a couple, maybe when we're in our mid 30s)
doesn't already HAVE kids


this is our dream girl, right? of course this criteria is too picky 😀
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and a bit OCD as well :laugh:

 
Originally posted by: Flyback
great personality
physically attractive (eyes are the first thing I take into account, then smile, then her backside 😉)
good height (I'm near 6'4, so I like legs on a woman. Preferably around 5'8-5'10.)
in good shape (tight in the right spots)
avoids drama
social and outgoing
confident
one or more college degrees (while she could be the next polymath and not have a college degree, chances are she will have one if she is above average--so it's a good "filter")
cannot be of certain profession (for example, I refuse to date a girl in law, insurance or politics)
mature
intelligent
wide variety of interests--doesn't have to know everything, but willing to learn and take interest in things (otherwise I'd get bored of her).
good financial and relationship background--people who come with a lot of baggage tend to keep on in that lifestyle
love to laugh
non-smoker
no tattoos
must not eat seafood (odd, I know, but I find watching people eat seafood to be absolutely revolting)
willing to settle down
non-religious (agnostic, preferably)
doesn't want a dozen kids (a couple, maybe when we're in our mid 30s)
doesn't already HAVE kids


this is our dream girl, right? of course this criteria is too picky 😀
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wrong, that's your dream girl. I agree with you up to confident. Why on earth wouldn't you date a lawyer, insurance agent or politician? ok I understand the politician one. LOL
 
Originally posted by: animalia
wrong, that's your dream girl. I agree with you up to confident. Why on earth wouldn't you date a lawyer, insurance agent or politician? ok I understand the politician one. LOL
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Personal preference. Many people here are employed in those sectors so I'm not going to start slinging mud. Just keep it as personal preference, please 😀
 
Able to speak Japanese, Korean, and limited English.
Cute voice like one of those anime cartoons.
Long skinny legs.
Must look good in a bikini.

Hmmm...that pretty much sums it up for me.
 
Attractive
Beautiful smile
Intelligent
Kind

That's all I ask for, and I do the best to provide it myself.

Also, I grew up around cats, I understand cats. I'm starting to understand dogs though, too; as long as she's willing to have cats around eventually, I'm cool.
 
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