Gandolfino does an amazing acting job in that role.
He presented as a little child, with repressd issues, in that scene, and was very convincing.
btw,
I miss that Richie character. You had to love to hate him.
I cracked up watching Shawshank Redemption a few weeks ago, and there was that same guy in the circle of friends with Morgan Freeman. Same exact look as Richie.