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Trente

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In reference to this thread, I got her cell phone number and spoke with her. she showed no interest what-so-ever and I knew this was going nowhere. I attempted to lead a normal coversation but she only responded with yes/no. she was on the way to her IDF base... when I told her if she wants to write down my number she told me not at the moment; she was not sure as to where our conversations will lead to...

In the end, I guess I did the right thing clearing this issue. I do not think I over stressed her and I could feel that she thought there was no future for this connection. I think she was surprised to get a call from me...

Oh well, it is time to listen to Stairway to Heaven, Karma Police and So Far Away, in a never ending loop. :(
 
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bigredguy

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didn't read anything but...

NECROPHILIAC!!!


edit: wow i should quit posting drunk. Sorry about that dude.
 
Mo0o

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Aw damn that sucks, maybe shes one of those "once you like her , she loses interest" girls
 
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Trente

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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Aw damn that sucks, maybe shes one of those "once you like her , she loses interest" girls
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You might be right. I was afraid of that and I wrote it in that thread - she might be playing games. It sucks ass for me and I wish I could avoid that call. I guess many guys get to drool over her and that is her kick.
 
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Originally posted by: Trente
Originally posted by: Mo0o
Aw damn that sucks, maybe shes one of those "once you like her , she loses interest" girls
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You might be right. I was afraid of that and I wrote it in that thread - she might be playing games. It sucks ass for me and I wish I could avoid that call. I guess many guys get to drool over her and that is her kick.
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Should have played it cool and see if she would come to you
 
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Trente

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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Originally posted by: Trente
Originally posted by: Mo0o
Aw damn that sucks, maybe shes one of those "once you like her , she loses interest" girls
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You might be right. I was afraid of that and I wrote it in that thread - she might be playing games. It sucks ass for me and I wish I could avoid that call. I guess many guys get to drool over her and that is her kick.
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Should have played it cool and see if she would come to you
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I never showed her that she got my attention. I played it cool *all* those years, trying hard to show her that I am not affected by her presence in any way...

I did not even know what her voice was like up untill today when I called her to make the 1st step. You can not do such a thing without making her realize that she got your attention.
 
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thebenjamins

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Originally posted by: Trente
In reference to this thread, I got her cell phone number and spoke with her. she showed no interest what-so-ever and I knew this was going nowhere. I attempted to lead a normal coversation but she only responded with yes/no. she was on the way to her IDF base... when I told her if she wants to write down my number she told me not at the moment; she was not sure as to where our conversations will lead to...

In the end, I guess I did the right thing clearing this issue. I do not think I over stressed her and I could feel that she thought there was no future for this connection. I think she was surprised to get a call from me...

Oh well, it is time to listen to Stairway to Heaven, Karma Police and So Far Away, in a never ending loop. :(
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she just aint for you. no biggie.
 
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Trente

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Originally posted by: thebenjamins
Originally posted by: Trente
In reference to this thread, I got her cell phone number and spoke with her. she showed no interest what-so-ever and I knew this was going nowhere. I attempted to lead a normal coversation but she only responded with yes/no. she was on the way to her IDF base... when I told her if she wants to write down my number she told me not at the moment; she was not sure as to where our conversations will lead to...

In the end, I guess I did the right thing clearing this issue. I do not think I over stressed her and I could feel that she thought there was no future for this connection. I think she was surprised to get a call from me...

Oh well, it is time to listen to Stairway to Heaven, Karma Police and So Far Away, in a never ending loop. :(
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she just aint for you. no biggie.
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I still feel sad though. I wonder who is the kind of person she is looking for? It really hurts. I hope i'll never run into her again. but who knows...I feel so silly and confused. what was I thinking? I guess it was doomed to fail from the very beginning. :brokenheart:
 
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sonambulo

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I did not even know what her voice was like up untill today when I called her to make the 1st step. You can not do such a thing without making her realize that she got your attention.
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maybe you can start off just talking to girls in the cafe about the weather or something
 
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jjones

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Originally posted by: Trente
In reference to this thread, I got her cell phone number and spoke with her. she showed no interest what-so-ever and I knew this was going nowhere. I attempted to lead a normal coversation but she only responded with yes/no. she was on the way to her IDF base... when I told her if she wants to write down my number she told me not at the moment; she was not sure as to where our conversations will lead to...

In the end, I guess I did the right thing clearing this issue. I do not think I over stressed her and I could feel that she thought there was no future for this connection. I think she was surprised to get a call from me...

Oh well, it is time to listen to Stairway to Heaven, Karma Police and So Far Away, in a never ending loop. :(
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Eh, it's okay; at least you gave it a shot.

Girls are a numbers game and IMO you should not waste time wondering and get right to asking them out (in the course of conversation) so you can move on to the next if you get rejected. I've been rejected lots of times but I've dated many, many girls also. It's part of the game and I've dated several girls that had initially rejected me. If I run into them again, I hit them up again; you never know when a girl changes her game. I've hit girls up repeatedly so the next time they see me they're either going to run away or finally give in. It's all a game. :D

Edit: BTW, it's never a good idea to ask a girl out over the phone unless you're sure she likes you. In general you want to ask them out when you're face-to-face. Even if a girl moderately likes you, over the phone it's too easy for her to play it safe and say no.
 
Red Dawn

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: Trente
In reference to this thread, I got her cell phone number and spoke with her. she showed no interest what-so-ever and I knew this was going nowhere. I attempted to lead a normal coversation but she only responded with yes/no. she was on the way to her IDF base... when I told her if she wants to write down my number she told me not at the moment; she was not sure as to where our conversations will lead to...

In the end, I guess I did the right thing clearing this issue. I do not think I over stressed her and I could feel that she thought there was no future for this connection. I think she was surprised to get a call from me...

Oh well, it is time to listen to Stairway to Heaven, Karma Police and So Far Away, in a never ending loop. :(
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Cheer up, this is just the beggining. You will face much more rejection in the future, this is just a precursor of what life has in store for you!
 
MichaelD

MichaelD

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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Trente
In reference to this thread, I got her cell phone number and spoke with her. she showed no interest what-so-ever and I knew this was going nowhere. I attempted to lead a normal coversation but she only responded with yes/no. she was on the way to her IDF base... when I told her if she wants to write down my number she told me not at the moment; she was not sure as to where our conversations will lead to...

In the end, I guess I did the right thing clearing this issue. I do not think I over stressed her and I could feel that she thought there was no future for this connection. I think she was surprised to get a call from me...

Oh well, it is time to listen to Stairway to Heaven, Karma Police and So Far Away, in a never ending loop. :(
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Cheer up, this is just the beggining. You will face much more rejection in the future, this is just a precursor of what life has in store for you!
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:Q :D So true....
 
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Mucho

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It comes a time when you just have to give up move on and never look back. I've been there a few times it hurts for a few days or until you get a date :)
 
rh71

rh71

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:beer: for you for trying. no harm done... you'll see that in a couple days.
 
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Trente

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Thanks for the kind words everyone! I'm gonna have to face her in the future to come though, as she will always remain a part of the family.
 
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thebenjamins

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Originally posted by: Trente
Originally posted by: thebenjamins
Originally posted by: Trente
In reference to this thread, I got her cell phone number and spoke with her. she showed no interest what-so-ever and I knew this was going nowhere. I attempted to lead a normal coversation but she only responded with yes/no. she was on the way to her IDF base... when I told her if she wants to write down my number she told me not at the moment; she was not sure as to where our conversations will lead to...

In the end, I guess I did the right thing clearing this issue. I do not think I over stressed her and I could feel that she thought there was no future for this connection. I think she was surprised to get a call from me...

Oh well, it is time to listen to Stairway to Heaven, Karma Police and So Far Away, in a never ending loop. :(
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she just aint for you. no biggie.
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I still feel sad though. I wonder who is the kind of person she is looking for? It really hurts. I hope i'll never run into her again. but who knows...I feel so silly and confused. what was I thinking? I guess it was doomed to fail from the very beginning. :brokenheart:
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you sound young, she is probably obsessed by media stereo types, and probably isnt very smart.
 
brigden

brigden

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This thread is further proof of how beyond hope some of you truly are.
 
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