Well, I think this is it

[NissanGurl]

Not going to get into details, but I think that my 5 year relationship is over tonight. Huge fight, he's not here now with no plans to return tonight. I think we were both unhappy. We had more days fighting than not. Still not sure how I feel at this point. He was looking up apartment ads online, so I would keep the apartment we were in, along with keeping the dog.

Heh, on the upside I'll have more time to work out and get in shape. Gonna be a rough night/weekend. Just had to vent to someone. Friend I called didn't answer. :beer: all round on me

 

[OdiN]

Sucks to have something end after so long 🙁

 

[MoPHo]

I'm sorry. if it makes you feel any better, I have to work in the ER tonight and deal w/ all the druken asshats that come in.

And while you may feel like crap, don't. These things happen. And don't question yourself for thinking that you aren't good enough. You are.

That's my after-school special speech, and I'm sticking to it.

 

[Kadarin]

It's hard to go through, but sometimes it's for the best. I had a 7 year relationship crash and burn on me a few years ago, so I know what you're going through.

:beer:

 

[NissanGurl]

Originally posted by: MoPHo
I'm sorry. if it makes you feel any better, I have to work in the ER tonight and deal w/ all the druken asshats that come in.

And while you may feel like crap, don't. These things happen. And don't question yourself for thinking that you aren't good enough. You are.

That's my after-school special speech, and I'm sticking to it.

Thanks for the encouragement. From the pic in your thread looks like at least a few people are having a worse night. Sorry you have to deal with the drunks.

 

[NissanGurl]

I just don't know what to do at this point. Should I start packing up his stuff? Don't know where he went or when he plans on coming by. I hope it's for the best. Actually loved him, but I guess sometimes that isn't enough. Anybody have any suggestions on what to do to keep my mind occupied tonight?

 

[KarenMarie]

too bad i dont still live in Tennessee... i would give you moral support this weekend.

 

[thecrecarc]

Originally posted by: NissanGurl
I just don't know what to do at this point. Should I start packing up his stuff? Don't know where he went or when he plans on coming by. I hope it's for the best. Actually loved him, but I guess sometimes that isn't enough. Anybody have any suggestions on what to do to keep my mind occupied tonight?

read ur sig 😀


on a more serious note, hope everything ends well. when something that long breaks, its tough, but all i have to say is... get over it. might seem a bit harsh, but hey....

edit: wow, my spellnig sucks

 

[BriGy86]

perhaps you could hook up with one of the the fella's here that are having all the women problems 😀

(search for "YAGT" 😉)

 

[NissanGurl]

Originally posted by: thecrecarc

Originally posted by: NissanGurl
I just don't know what to do at this point. Should I start packing up his stuff? Don't know where he went or when he plans on coming by. I hope it's for the best. Actually loved him, but I guess sometimes that isn't enough. Anybody have any suggestions on what to do to keep my mind occupied tonight?

read ur sig 😀


on a more serious note, hope verything ends well. whew something that king breaks, its tough, but all i have to say is... get over it. might seem a bit harsh, but hey....

No beer here, but I did just buy my first bottle of Patron...

 

[Otaking]

🙁
:beer: and for you

 

[dawnbug]

I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

 

[EvilYoda]

My first suggestion would be to get out of the apartment...take the bottle of Patron over to someone's house (really, who's going to refuse Patron?) and rent a scary movie or anything that will force you to concentrate and temporarily remove yourself from reality.

But remember, the alcohol's the important part 😉 (jp...don't want to do anything stupid now, just cool the nerves down)

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

Took me about 2 months to get over my 4 year relationship. heh.

 

[NissanGurl]

Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

Friend just called back. He's in the middle of another friend's birthday celebration. He said he'd leave right now except everyone rode with him. He's gonna call back in about a 1/2 hour.

Think I'll take EvilYoda's suggestion and try to head over to his place with the Patron and watch a movie (we're both movie addicts).

 

[lasergecko]

Everything happens for a reason. If you've been fighting as often as you say, it's time time say "good riddance" and time to upgrade.

("We had more days fighting than not." != love)

 

[dawnbug]

Originally posted by: NissanGurl

Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

Friend just called back. He's in the middle of another friend's birthday celebration. He said he'd leave right now except everyone rode with him. He's gonna call back in about a 1/2 hour.

Think I'll take EvilYoda's suggestion and try to head over to his place with the Patron and watch a movie (we're both movie addicts).

Have fun. 🙂

 

[MX2]

Originally posted by: MoPHo
I'm sorry. if it makes you feel any better, I have to work in the ER tonight and deal w/ all the druken asshats that come in.

How does dealing with drunken asshats you dont even know and will most likely never see again compare to a relationship of 5 years ending😕

NissanGurl....

 

[NarcoticHobo]

Originally posted by: NissanGurl

Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

Friend just called back. He's in the middle of another friend's birthday celebration. He said he'd leave right now except everyone rode with him. He's gonna call back in about a 1/2 hour.

Think I'll take EvilYoda's suggestion and try to head over to his place with the Patron and watch a movie (we're both movie addicts).

As far as I can tell end of relationship +booze +member of opposite sex = complications. Hope you trust your friend and (more importantly) yourself completely.

 

[doze]

Get good and drunk for the next few days/weeks/months because it takes a while to get over. Took me almost a year to almost completely (never get over it 100% if you loved them) get over a 5+ year relationship. The real kicker was that my grandpa died 2 weeks after we split up. I was kinda depressed, barely slept, etc.. at first but I had my buddies to hang out with and I went out and partied a lot.

 

[NissanGurl]

Originally posted by: NarcoticHobo

Originally posted by: NissanGurl

Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

Friend just called back. He's in the middle of another friend's birthday celebration. He said he'd leave right now except everyone rode with him. He's gonna call back in about a 1/2 hour.

Think I'll take EvilYoda's suggestion and try to head over to his place with the Patron and watch a movie (we're both movie addicts).

As far as I can tell end of relationship +booze +member of opposite sex = complications. Hope you trust your friend and (more importantly) yourself completely.

Trust him completely actually. He's one of those guys with a sense of honor/chivalry and I know he would never take adavantage. Plus I know I can control myself even when drunk. I just kinda need some support right now.

 

[Willoughbyva]

Breaking up from a mature relationship is always hard. I wish you the best.

Perry

 

[MisterJackson]

Originally posted by: NissanGurl

Originally posted by: NarcoticHobo

Originally posted by: NissanGurl

Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

Friend just called back. He's in the middle of another friend's birthday celebration. He said he'd leave right now except everyone rode with him. He's gonna call back in about a 1/2 hour.

Think I'll take EvilYoda's suggestion and try to head over to his place with the Patron and watch a movie (we're both movie addicts).

As far as I can tell end of relationship +booze +member of opposite sex = complications. Hope you trust your friend and (more importantly) yourself completely.

Trust him completely actually. He's one of those guys with a sense of honor/chivalry and I know he would never take adavantage. Plus I know I can control myself even when drunk. I just kinda need some support right now.

No offense, but they always say that. Just be careful. Don't ruin a chance with your bf if you do decide to work it out by having a "revenge fling".

 

[NarcoticHobo]

Trust him completely actually. He's one of those guys with a sense of honor/chivalry and I know he would never take adavantage. Plus I know I can control myself even when drunk. I just kinda need some support right now.

Righto, I would never trust a guy personally, lol. Sounds like you know what you are doing though.

 

[NissanGurl]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson

Originally posted by: NissanGurl

Originally posted by: NarcoticHobo

Originally posted by: NissanGurl

Originally posted by: LadyBuggy
I disagree with everyone who says that you should get over it right away. The end of a five year relationship with someone that you loved isn't going to get out of your mind in the next day, week or month. It's a huge loss (at least it sounds like it was, since you loved him), and you've got to give yourself some time to grieve for your loss. Take your time, but do try to stay positive.

As for what to do tonight, do you have any family nearby if your friends are all unavailable? I think it would be best to be around people who care about you tonight.

Good luck with everything.

Friend just called back. He's in the middle of another friend's birthday celebration. He said he'd leave right now except everyone rode with him. He's gonna call back in about a 1/2 hour.

Think I'll take EvilYoda's suggestion and try to head over to his place with the Patron and watch a movie (we're both movie addicts).

As far as I can tell end of relationship +booze +member of opposite sex = complications. Hope you trust your friend and (more importantly) yourself completely.

Trust him completely actually. He's one of those guys with a sense of honor/chivalry and I know he would never take adavantage. Plus I know I can control myself even when drunk. I just kinda need some support right now.

No offense, but they always say that. Just be careful. Don't ruin a chance with your bf if you do decide to work it out by having a "revenge fling".

Sound advice. Been drunk around him before though and things were alright. I think I may be crashing soon. I'm so tired at this point.