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Weird phone call

Nocturnal

Lifer
A male just called me and told me that he found my phone number in his girlfriend's bag on a napkin.

I'm in a five year long term relationship with a girl who I love dearly. I have not given my number out to any female to call and have as a friend.

I may have given out my phone number for business. I sell cellular phones and may have given it out in case someone needed assistance or had questions about the phone.

This guy went on to tell me that they have a three month old son together. He said I may have met her at the beach. He kinda forced the issue and kept talking to me as if I knew her. I don't know her. He kept saying things like "she probably didn't give you her real name." And I was trying to tell him that I don't recall any girl by the names that he mentioned. He said I may have met her at the beach as she frequents the beach often. I told him I don't go to the beach.

This is too weird and got me a little spooked. He asked me if he could call me back and I told him sure why not. I told him to ask her how she got my # in the first place. The only logical conclusion that I could think of is I sold her a phone and he didn't know about it since he kept saying he doesn't recall her buying a new phone or I was selling an item online at another forum and left my phone number to be contacted. Then the girl saw something her boyfriend may want, and thus took down my phone number to be given to him. Perhaps she forgot to give it to him and it was left in the bottom of her purse until he found it today.

It's a little weird and kinda spooky. I asked him if he could repeat the number he was trying to call and he did repeat my number perfectly. I gave him my first name and he gave me his.
 
He was searching through her purse? He's in trouble. . .

He should have just asked her before calling you. He'll probably end up feeling like an idiot because of the simple explanation.
Let us know how it ends.
 
Originally posted by: Nocturnal



This is too weird and got me a little spooked. He asked me if he could call me back and I told him sure why not. I told him to ask her how she got my # in the first place. .

Why would you do that? You should have just said I sell cell phones and give out my number to people all the time. end of conversation, *click*
 
Does anybody think that any effort on their part will stop someone from cheating on them?

Expending energy to find out if they are cheating doesn't sound like wasted effort, but you're not going to make them stop.



People need to put their effort into making themselves as attractive (and I'm not talking about physically attractive)as possible to the SO and let the chips fall where they may.

 
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