Hmmmm....
You must have one of those special 6800 GT's. I heard from an Australian source that if you get the right kind you can even do HDR+AA in Far Cry with it.
3DMark can be flightly like that. I know that with my 7800 GT's, if I didn't overclock the core at least 27 MHz the score wouldn't really show a steady increase, but once I hit 27 MHz or more on the overclock it boosted the score.
You'll just have to play with it, overclock it until it can't run through 3DMark and crashes, then go back and down clock it until it does, etc. (Just watch your temps) Finding the sweet spot is a part of overclocking, it's not always a straight shot where an increase in frequencies always = an increase in scores / framerates.