- Suggestions on time in the gym, hour, 2, 3, 4?
Keep it shorter and giving it your all during that amount of time. An hour is good, maybe even less, maybe more (if doing cardio on the same day, you'd probably end up doing more)
- I know I should mix it up however should I focus more on cardio or more on weight lifting? (I'm not looking for really big muscles just want to drop the weight, but don't wanna have the excess skin)
Diet.
Between the two though, definitely weight lifting. Weight lifting will ensure the majority of what you do lose is fat and not muscle. Also, as a beginner you may even build some muscle, thus raising your metabolism. Cardio will not do either, too much would actually cause more muscle loss, the amount of calories burned are very little, and as your body gets used to it you'll burn even less with more work.
- Any suggested pre-work out things to do (except stretching)
The point of warming up is to lubricate the joints and increase the temperature of soft tissues. A good warm-up would progressively increase body temperature, include all the joints, muscles, and movements involved in the training session. When I warm-up the first thing I like to start with is just 5-10 minutes on the stationary bike or something, and then a quick routine of DYNAMIC stretches. You really don't want to be doing static stretches before a lifting session. Use static stretching outside the gym, like right after your workout or before you go to bed for recovery purposes.
- Suggested minimum miles I should run, or minimum sets of reps I should do?
For running, just do whatever you're comfortable with. Again, the emphasis should be on weight training. To start I'd just do a full body routine consisting of squats, deadlifts, bench press, military press, and pendlay rows (switch between bench and military, and deadlift and rows every day) and just do 15-20 minutes of SS cardio afterwards. Then start incorporating hills on a seperate day or something.
Cardio is great, but emphasis should be on diet and weight training. Don't overdo it at the beginning. Just start slow then start incoorporating other things.
- High weight low reps or low weight high reps? (to start)
High weight, low reps. Obviously "high weight" being subjective. Start light and do what you can handle, but your goal should be to push yourself for about 5 reps. TO start I'd do three sets of everything at 5 reps, except deadlifts. One set would suffice, since you squat as well.
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