We got in a discussion in class today about whether or not oral sex is "sex"...

Page 5 - Seeking answers? Join the AnandTech community: where nearly half-a-million members share solutions and discuss the latest tech.

SithSolo1

Diamond Member
Mar 19, 2001
7,740
11
81
Sex = penetration
Blow job = penetration
Going down on your honey = penetration (Never done it but I assume the tongue enters her body at some point in the process)

Thus sex = blow job = going down ..... right?
 

toekramp

Diamond Member
Jun 30, 2001
8,426
2
0
It's not sex, i can't even believe this is in discussion...atot is just chalk full of uptight morons
 

CHfan4ever

Diamond Member
Oct 1, 2004
3,290
0
0
Cool, im going to tell my gfriend i saw another girl and she made me a blow job, and tell her after tis not sex?? hmmm

Masturbating together in couple is sex, so yeah, oral sex is sex too
 

toekramp

Diamond Member
Jun 30, 2001
8,426
2
0
Originally posted by: ifesfor
Cool, im going to tell my gfriend i saw another girl and she made me a blow job, and tell her after tis not sex?? hmmm

Masturbating together in couple is sex, so yeah, oral sex is sex too

stupid stupid stupid, do you lose your virginity from strokin' each other, no. it is not sex
 

MaxDepth

Diamond Member
Jun 12, 2001
8,757
43
91
funny.
I knew girls in college who thought of themselves as virgins because they only did oral and anal.
 

olds

Elite Member
Mar 3, 2000
50,071
744
126
Originally posted by: bootymac
I've always lived by the "Penis in Vagina = Sex" rule of thumb

I guess if you have to pick a creed to live by, that will do.
 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
15,069
94
91
its funny how everyone ignored my quote from the dictionary. if you are going to say a word, you need to use it how it was meant to be used, otherwise we will all get confused and not be talking about the same thing. therefore, it is my contention that anyone who says oral sex is not sex should either read my definition and learn something or just admit you are wrong.
 

toekramp

Diamond Member
Jun 30, 2001
8,426
2
0
Originally posted by: Bigsm00th
its funny how everyone ignored my quote from the dictionary. if you are going to say a word, you need to use it how it was meant to be used, otherwise we will all get confused and not be talking about the same thing. therefore, it is my contention that anyone who says oral sex is not sex should either read my definition and learn something or just admit you are wrong.

Is it Sex Proof

Sex = lose virginity
Oral sex != lose virginity

thus sex != oral sex
 

RaynorWolfcastle

Diamond Member
Feb 8, 2001
8,968
16
81
Is this what arts students do with their class time? Why am I wasting my time in EE when I could be discussing oral sex in class?
 

toekramp

Diamond Member
Jun 30, 2001
8,426
2
0
Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
Is this what arts students do with their class time? Why am I wasting my time in EE when I could be discussing oral sex in class?

:roll:
 

RaynorWolfcastle

Diamond Member
Feb 8, 2001
8,968
16
81
Originally posted by: toekramp
Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
Is this what arts students do with their class time? Why am I wasting my time in EE when I could be discussing oral sex in class?

:roll:
you roll your eyes because you think that this is such a stimulating discussion that it should be included in every curiculum?

Seriously, what exactly do you learn from having this discussion in class?
 

MAME

Banned
Sep 19, 2003
9,281
1
0
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Cattlegod
SIMPLE RULE: Penis in Vagina = SEX. Nothing Else!!!! OMGz


So for all the "oral does not count" people, does that mean if you had a girlfriend that gave someone a blow job, you be ok with that? Its NOT sex? Right?

Would you be ok with them kissing someone else? That's definately not sex either you genius
 
Jul 12, 2001
10,142
2
0
i think its a type of sex (obvious)...

but the way the word "sex" is used in discussions it is not sex...if a girl gave me a blowjob and my friend comes up and asks me "did you have sex with her?"...there is no way i would respond "yes"...i would say "no, but i got a blowjob"

definition based, yes its a type of sex
in all realistic purposes in language its not considered "sex"


 

SelArom

Senior member
Sep 28, 2004
872
0
0
www.djselarom.com
here's the way I see it
"sex" can mean one of two things: fvcking, and expressing emotion physically and/or intimately

is a blowjob considered fvcking? of course not. but there is a level of intimacy that exceeds what you express with most of the people you come across.

another way to see what I mean: would you be upset if you're girlfriend fvcked another guy? how about if she just gave him head?

the problem is with defining things in terms of yes and no. If you take a shirt from a store and leave a 20 on the counter and walk out, you're not "technically" stealing. but you're not paying for it either. maybe the clerk would be okay with it, maybe he would have you arrested.

it all boils down to who's involved, and I don't think it matters what ANYONE thinks about if it is or it isn't except between the two (or possibly more) people who would have their relationships affected by it
 

eakers

Lifer
Aug 14, 2000
12,169
2
0
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Cattlegod
SIMPLE RULE: Penis in Vagina = SEX. Nothing Else!!!! OMGz


So for all the "oral does not count" people, does that mean if you had a girlfriend that gave someone a blow job, you be ok with that? Its NOT sex? Right?

i'd be upset if my bf kissed another girl and thats not sex

it ain't immoral if its oral!
 

Rogue

Banned
Jan 28, 2000
5,774
0
0
Dictionary.com OWNS toekramp

vir·gin·i·ty Audio pronunciation of "virginity" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (vr-jn-t)
n. pl. vir·gin·i·ties

1. The quality or condition of being a virgin.
2. The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched.

Note the bolded part. I would not consider the act of oral sex by someone to allow them to keep that description, would you?

Main Entry: in·ter·course
Pronunciation: 'int-&r-"kO(&)rs, -"ko(&)rs
Function: noun
1 : connection or dealings between persons or groups
2 : physical sexual contact between individuals that involves the genitalia of at least one person

C'mon man! Put them all together and sex = oral sex. Oral sex = fellatio. Fellatio = sodomy (by most legal definitions). Sodomy = sex.
 

Rogue

Banned
Jan 28, 2000
5,774
0
0
Originally posted by: LeetViet
fellatio = sodomy? :shocked:

sod·om·y (sd-m)
n.

1. Anal copulation of one male with another.
2. Anal or oral copulation with a member of the opposite sex.
3. Copulation with an animal.
 

MaxDepth

Diamond Member
Jun 12, 2001
8,757
43
91
Originally posted by: Rogue
Originally posted by: LeetViet
fellatio = sodomy? :shocked:

sod·om·y (sd-m)
n.

1. Anal copulation of one male with another.
2. Anal or oral copulation with a member of the opposite sex.
3. Copulation with an animal.
And in many states, a criminal offense (both acts.) NC still has them on the books as being criminal.