We got in a discussion in class today about whether or not oral sex is "sex"...

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MrDudeMan

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Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Bootprint
but from webster

3 a : sexually motivated phenomena or behavior
Thanks you. Webster's rocks.

If you're going to use that to lump BJ's in the "sex" category, you could also include kissing. And flirting. Not that they should be in there, but you could using the same reasoning.

:roll:

the definition talks about touching of genitals. therefore, your whole post is really idiotic and you are wrong. HJs and BJs are sex...its right there in the dictionary.
 

neonerd

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Apr 24, 2003
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Originally posted by: Crazymofo
DANTE
You sucked that guy's dick?

VERONICA
Yeah. How do you think I know he
liked...

DANTE
(panicky)
But...but you said you only had sex
with three guys! You never mentioned
him!

VERONICA
That's because I never had sex with
him!

DANTE
You sucked his dick!

VERONICA
We went out a few times. We didn't
have sex, but we fooled around.

DANTE
(massive panic attack)
Oh my God! Why did you tell me you
only slept with three guys?

VERONICA
Because I did only sleep with three
guys! That doesn't mean I didn't
just go with people.

25.


DANTE
Oh my God-I feel so nauseous...

VERONICA
I'm sorry, Dante. I thought you
understood.

DANTE
I did understand! I understand that
you slept with three different
guys, and that's all you said.

VERONICA
Please calm down.

DANTE
How many?

VERONICA
Dante...

DANTE
How many dicks have you sucked?!

VERONICA
Let it go...

DANTE
HOW MANY?

VERONICA
All right! Shut up a second and
I'll tell you! Jesus! I didn't
freak like this when you told me
how many girls you fucked.

DANTE
This is different. This is important.
How many?!

She counts silently, using fingers as marks. DANTE waits on
a customer in the interim. VERONICA stops counting.

DANTE
Well...?

VERONICA
(half-mumbled)
Something like thirty-six.

DANTE
WHAT? SOMETHING LIKE THIRTY-SIX?


VERONICA
Lower your voice!

DANTE
What the hell is that anyway,
"something like thirty-six?" Does
that include me?

VERONICA
Um. Thirty-seven.

DANTE
I'M THIRTY-SEVEN?

VERONICA
(walking away)
I'm going to class.

DANTE
Thirty-seven?!
(to CUSTOMER)
My girlfriend sucked thirty-seven
dicks!

CUSTOMER
In a row?

:laugh::thumbsup:
 

Vette73

Lifer
Jul 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Its a technicality made up by girls to feel non-slutty.

Oral is more personal IMO so its even more slutty to gobble c0ck like there is no tomorrow (like some girls I've met).

Girls will still adamantly refuse they are not slutty though:
Girl A: "its not like I F'ed him for christsake, all I did was tickle his balls and drink his seminal fluid... thats doesn't make me a slut, thats PG-13 family friendly material!"
Girl B: " *PHEW*, well if thats ALL you did you have nothing to be ashamed about girlfriend, we're not sluts like those girls over there who *GASP* actually have penetration"
Girl A: "Yeah those girls are total sluts. We're so high and mighty we aren't like that trash"
Girl B: "Lets go, we're late for prayer. We don't want to be bad Catholics!"


I think some guys came up with it to tell women its ok and we don;t have to do IT and you are not a slut.
But its still sex no matter what, and I agree it is as if not more personal
 

Queasy

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Aug 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: Queasy
Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: Queasy
If one person is manipulating another person's genitals to bring them to orgasm, yes. Try to use your brain sometime. I promise it doesn't hurt.
So handjobs = sex?
If you can't figure it out from my previous posts....yes, handjobs = sex.

Bwhahahahahaha... let me guess, you decided to define it that way so that in your mind you are no longer a virgin?

You must enjoy making an ass of yourself. I'm married with a child and I have another on the way.

Also, yes it is sex if someone else is giving you the handjob. Again, you're lack of reading comprehension is without compare.
 

isasir

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Aug 8, 2000
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If you're getting freaky at a club and a girl is grinding her body against you, is that considered sex? It seems to be from all the definitions being thrown around here.

And what about foreplay? (Assuming you're doing it right ;) )
 

Cobalt

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Apr 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: iamme
so, a girl can give out blow jobs and have guys go down on her and she's still a virgin?

i think not.

They are still virgins if they are still intact down there.
 

Mookow

Lifer
Apr 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: Bigsm00th
Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Bootprint
but from webster

3 a : sexually motivated phenomena or behavior
Thanks you. Webster's rocks.

If you're going to use that to lump BJ's in the "sex" category, you could also include kissing. And flirting. Not that they should be in there, but you could using the same reasoning.

:roll:

the definition talks about touching of genitals. therefore, your whole post is really idiotic and you are wrong. HJs and BJs are sex...its right there in the dictionary.

Really? Where does it talk about touching genitals? Lets look at Webster's (provider of the definition that they were looking to) entire definition:
Main Entry: 1sex
Pronunciation: 'seks
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin sexus
1 : either of the two major forms of individuals that occur in many species and that are distinguished respectively as female or male
2 : the sum of the structural, functional, and behavioral characteristics of living things that are involved in reproduction by two interacting parents and that distinguish males and females
3 a : sexually motivated phenomena or behavior b : SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
4 : GENITALIA

I dont see how, using the definition above, you can include handjobs and exclude kissing.

But, a question for you: Do you think that when you get yourfirst HJ or BJ from another person, you have lost your virginity?
 

Mookow

Lifer
Apr 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: Queasy
Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: Queasy
Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: Queasy
If one person is manipulating another person's genitals to bring them to orgasm, yes. Try to use your brain sometime. I promise it doesn't hurt.
So handjobs = sex?
If you can't figure it out from my previous posts....yes, handjobs = sex.

Bwhahahahahaha... let me guess, you decided to define it that way so that in your mind you are no longer a virgin?

You must enjoy making an ass of yourself. I'm married with a child and I have another on the way.

Also, yes it is sex if someone else is giving you the handjob. Again, you're lack of reading comprehension is without compare.

Just because you write it doesnt make it true. I asked the specific question about handjobs because I was being nice and letting you consider that if you hadnt already, because very few people consider handjobs sex, excluding the very religious.
 

Mookow

Lifer
Apr 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: isasir
If you're getting freaky at a club and a girl is grinding her body against you, is that considered sex? It seems to be from all the definitions being thrown around here.

And what about foreplay? (Assuming you're doing it right ;) )

If you orgasm from that girl grinding on you, then according them, it is sex.
 

YOyoYOhowsDAjello

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Aug 6, 2001
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Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: YOyoYOhowsDAjello
Originally posted by: Queasy
Originally posted by: her209
So is a hj considered sex?

If it involves one person having an orgasm. Yep.

an orgasm = sex now? so, if someone has an orgasm and someone else is in the room and did something to them, they just had sex?

this is getting stupid. OBVIOUSLY orgasm doesn't equal sex. you studs out there think your partner is always having an orgasm? lol.

edit: queasy put it well, above

I didn't mean to say that you can't have sex if you don't have an orgasm. My notation was do question the comment that "if it involves one person having an orgasm" being sex. I was questioning the notion what orgasm was a sufficient condition for sex having occured. My argument does not mean that I think orgasm is a neccessary condition for sex, just that orgasm is not sufficient.
 

isasir

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Aug 8, 2000
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Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: isasir
If you're getting freaky at a club and a girl is grinding her body against you, is that considered sex? It seems to be from all the definitions being thrown around here.

And what about foreplay? (Assuming you're doing it right ;) )

If you orgasm from that girl grinding on you, then according them, it is sex.

So I guess that means that a lot of people here could just go to a strip club, shell out $40 for a couple of lap dances, shoot their load, and relieve themselves of virgin status. HOT DEAL!
 

Mookow

Lifer
Apr 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: isasir
Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: isasir
If you're getting freaky at a club and a girl is grinding her body against you, is that considered sex? It seems to be from all the definitions being thrown around here.

And what about foreplay? (Assuming you're doing it right ;) )

If you orgasm from that girl grinding on you, then according them, it is sex.

So I guess that means that a lot of people here could just go to a strip club, shell out $40 for a couple of lap dances, shoot their load, and relieve themselves of virgin status. HOT DEAL!

I think most of the people that think that qualifies as sex have already done precisely that. That, or they are frotteurs.
 

JulesMaximus

No Lifer
Jul 3, 2003
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Originally posted by: nick1985
i for one, do not think oral sex should be considered "sex", they are 2 completely different things. thought? or am i asking the wrong crowd. :Q


the professor gave a statistic that said: 86% of 19 year olds have had sex. the whole class was saying how that sounded way to high, and thats when the professor said that oral sex counts, and that was included in the numbers. most of the class disagreed

Wow, you are a dumbass. Were there any other dumbasses in your class who agreed with you? Obviously, intercourse and oral sex are two different things but they are both sex.
 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
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Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: Bigsm00th
Originally posted by: Mookow
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Bootprint
but from webster

3 a : sexually motivated phenomena or behavior
Thanks you. Webster's rocks.

If you're going to use that to lump BJ's in the "sex" category, you could also include kissing. And flirting. Not that they should be in there, but you could using the same reasoning.

:roll:

the definition talks about touching of genitals. therefore, your whole post is really idiotic and you are wrong. HJs and BJs are sex...its right there in the dictionary.

Really? Where does it talk about touching genitals? Lets look at Webster's (provider of the definition that they were looking to) entire definition:
Main Entry: 1sex
Pronunciation: 'seks
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin sexus
1 : either of the two major forms of individuals that occur in many species and that are distinguished respectively as female or male
2 : the sum of the structural, functional, and behavioral characteristics of living things that are involved in reproduction by two interacting parents and that distinguish males and females
3 a : sexually motivated phenomena or behavior b : SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
4 : GENITALIA

I dont see how, using the definition above, you can include handjobs and exclude kissing.

But, a question for you: Do you think that when you get yourfirst HJ or BJ from another person, you have lost your virginity?

why dont you try reading my link? see where it says sexual intercourse? i looked that up and posted a link to it in this thread. go read it.
 

Vette73

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Jul 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: FrustratedUser
Why wouldn't a BJ be called sex. If it wasn't then I guess all the gals would give it to you all the time.


Ding Ding.. thats the point. You tell a girl "its only a BJ, it does not count..." and there ya go. ;) She THINKS she is not a slut and it doesn;t count :roll:
 

nitsuj3580

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Jun 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Cattlegod
SIMPLE RULE: Penis in Vagina = SEX. Nothing Else!!!! OMGz


So for all the "oral does not count" people, does that mean if you had a girlfriend that gave someone a blow job, you be ok with that? Its NOT sex? Right?

how do people come up with retarded conclusions like this? What does this have to do with anything? If my g/f was making out with someone else, I would not be ok with that either and that is not sex so of course if she was giving someone a BJ, I would not be ok with that either regardless of my definition of "sex" :roll:
 

Preyhunter

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UrbanDictionary's definition of sex:

1. sex
A painful activity in which a man, using the stiffest and pointiest part of his pelvic region, repeatedly stabs a female in her crotch until he feels satisfied. Can also take place between two men, in which one male stabs the other in the bum. Lesbian "sex" may be fun and all, but it aint real sex unless there is some sort of stabbling going on, perhaps with a cleverly shaped hand or steel dildo.

Link
 

Turkish

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May 26, 2003
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As oral sex may lead to orgasm, yes it is. Your hand does not count. It has to be with another human being.
 

bmacd

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wow...a ton of excellent points made in the thread. I really don't think there is a correct answer persay, but a question of beliefs.

-=bmacd=-
 

bigredguy

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sex short for sexual intercourse, no penis in vagina = not sex

somehow this rule doesn't work for me against anal sex though

its not sex, its just a one sided french kiss with your one eyed yogurt slinger.