Ways to end a relationship......(WITH POLL)

[BUrassler]

Please explain your answers.

 

[Sentinel]

A person can identify someone who is using heavy drugs, not necessarily someone who is having an affair. Once a cheater always a cheater doesn't play the same part in abusing drugs.

 

[Lonyo]

Depends on how serious, but I would pretty much always dump someone who was cheating, I don't have a huge problem with people doing drugs, and you say drug "use" not abuse, so I don't have a problem with use really.
Middle one, I say probably yes, because we're human and if you're like that I don't believe fully you can change those cheating elements of yourself, unless you are in love or something, and if you've already cheated on , say me, then you might still do it again.
People can give up drugs, so I voted no.

Also, for Q1 did you mean serious use, or did you mean any kind of abuse?

 

[BUrassler]

Originally posted by: Lonyo
Depends on how serious, but I would pretty much always dump someone who was cheating, I don't have a huge problem with people doing drugs, and you say drug "use" not abuse, so I don't have a problem with use really.
Middle one, I say probably yes, because we're human and if you're like that I don't believe fully you can change those cheating elements of yourself, unless you are in love or something, and if you've already cheated on , say me, then you might still do it again.
People can give up drugs, so I voted no.

Also, for Q1 did you mean serious use, or did you mean any kind of abuse?

Fixed

 

[BUrassler]

added question

 

[LanceM]

Cheating is an automatic "goodbye," regardless of how long I've been with someone. No ifs, ands, or buts.

Drugs... it really depends. I'm totally against anything beyond purely medicinal use, but if a significant other smoked pot *just once*, I wouldn't necessarily kick her to the curb. Twice, though, and she's outta there.

 

[acemcmac]

Originally posted by: BUrassler

Originally posted by: Lonyo
Depends on how serious, but I would pretty much always dump someone who was cheating, I don't have a huge problem with people doing drugs, and you say drug "use" not abuse, so I don't have a problem with use really.
Middle one, I say probably yes, because we're human and if you're like that I don't believe fully you can change those cheating elements of yourself, unless you are in love or something, and if you've already cheated on , say me, then you might still do it again.
People can give up drugs, so I voted no.

Also, for Q1 did you mean serious use, or did you mean any kind of abuse?

Fixed

If you dont underline or somehow mark what was fixed, nobody is going to compare that paragraph line by line to figure out how your views are different :roll:

 

[BUrassler]

Originally posted by: acemcmac

Originally posted by: BUrassler

Originally posted by: Lonyo
Depends on how serious, but I would pretty much always dump someone who was cheating, I don't have a huge problem with people doing drugs, and you say drug "use" not abuse, so I don't have a problem with use really.
Middle one, I say probably yes, because we're human and if you're like that I don't believe fully you can change those cheating elements of yourself, unless you are in love or something, and if you've already cheated on , say me, then you might still do it again.
People can give up drugs, so I voted no.

Also, for Q1 did you mean serious use, or did you mean any kind of abuse?

Fixed

If you dont underline or somehow mark what was fixed, nobody is going to compare that paragraph line by line to figure out how your views are different :roll:

Sorry, I meant I fixed the poll, not his post.

 

[DainBramaged]

Cheating is worse because it is something that is committed against an individual versus themselves.

I believe that people can cheat once and never do it again. It doesn't make it right, but it could happen.

Drug users are able to quit w/help.

I would probably take either back, all depending on the circumstances; however, cheating would make me think long and hard.

 

[BUrassler]

anyone else?

 

[imported_Trippin315]

May I suggest a Cleveland Steamer.

 

[BUrassler]

Originally posted by: Trippin315
May I suggest a Cleveland Steamer.

sure, thanks

 

[ggnl]

Originally posted by: LanceM
Cheating is an automatic "goodbye," regardless of how long I've been with someone. No ifs, ands, or buts.

Drugs... it really depends. I'm totally against anything beyond purely medicinal use, but if a significant other smoked pot *just once*, I wouldn't necessarily kick her to the curb. Twice, though, and she's outta there.

Wow. Someone needs to learn to live a little...

 

[IeraseU]

From a male perspective I could not accept cheating of any type.

As far as drugs, personally I view drug use in much the same way that I view alchohol use.....and I feel that at some point in the future this period of time where drug use is illegal, will be looked upon in a similar manner as we currently look upon the period of prohibition.