Wow, totally forgot about this thread. Here's an update on how the trip went:
Bremerton is pretty decent. Lots of construction due to the tunnels from the ferry terminal, but overall there's stuff to do and the people are friendly. If you're ever in the area, stay at the Oyster Bay Inn, you can rent an "apartment" for about $160 a night, 3 bedroom, 2 bath, full cable, high speed internet, all that. Kind of old, but it's the way to stay if you got kids or lots of people who want privacy.
The ferry to Seattle is useful as hell....right to downtown, costs nothing to get there, only $6.70 to get back (on foot), only an hour each way. No wonder there's no kids in Bremerton all summer, they just hang out in Seattle for next to nothing. We went to a few things in Seattle, mostly up in the Center, went to the sci-fi and sound museum, the Needle, stuff like that.
Outside of Bremerton there's a few smaller towns, such as Poulsbo. Absolute pit. Next to nothing interesting, their arts and craft shops are full of made in China overpriced garbage, and my wife almost got food poisoning at a seafood restaurant, because the cook "forgot" to cook her fish properly. None of the meals we had were any good, and from talking to other locals it's more of a tourist trap than a real town.
Head back north, Port Angeles is another pit. No idea if it was ever a nice place to live, but right now it's pretty damn horrible. Everything is run-down, the people look depressed, not worth staying in for long at all. A little ways east is a town I can't pronounce, starts with a Q I think, fairly decent looking place, they spent some money to fix it up, way better than P.A.
The Coho ferry from Victoria to Port Angeles was another low-point of the trip. I have two tiny kids and a stroller, carrying it up two flights of stairs is not fun. Restrooms weren't clean, inside was hot as hell because their ventilation was off, outside was decent though.
Overall it was a good trip, took some pictures, had some fun, my wife met a friend of hers she hasn't seen in a while, my brother met a friend from highschool he hasn't seen in like 10 years, I got to see Seattle (so did my parents). Good stuff.