Me and my ex gf were going out for 1year and 2 months till we decided to end it because she was getting pissed because she felt i left her for last and didn't make time for her. Well I'm a senior in highschool, work on fridays, sats and sunds and I'm a very busy man. I see her at least once a week because she lives 30 minutes away and her mom wont let her go out on school nights. Not my fault. Anyways, she expects me to call her as soon as i get home from school, right before i go to work, right when i get home from work and every single second that i'm not busy. When the hell do i have time to relax?
Shes extremely good looking. a 9.5 out of 10 for me but i didn't stay with her for this long because of her looks. I really care for her and the few times she was happy she made me feel like the luckiest guy in the world.
Shes a very depressed and pestimistic young lady, I just can't deal with that. I'm exactly the oposite, optimistic and love life. Thats why she liked me so much, i had a bright side to everything but i just couldn't be the same with her anymore. Everything i told her to make her better on her sad moments didn't work too good and i had to deal with sleeping on average at 3am every night talking to her on the phone and waking up at 6am the next. There were many times were i told her to seek professional help but she just didn't want to and didn't have the money.
After a year I decided this wasn't healthy for either of us and wasn't going anywhere. The first 3 months were great but after that i was never really happy. So i started thinking more about myself. I came first from now on and avoided her sometimes to go out and have fun with my friends instead of staying home and talking to her on the phone all night listening to her negative thoughts about everything.
I have made her very very sad because of this and she has cried many times. I just couldn't end it myself until she finally ended it. It was a painless breakup for me but not for her.
Was i wrong?
Shes extremely good looking. a 9.5 out of 10 for me but i didn't stay with her for this long because of her looks. I really care for her and the few times she was happy she made me feel like the luckiest guy in the world.
Shes a very depressed and pestimistic young lady, I just can't deal with that. I'm exactly the oposite, optimistic and love life. Thats why she liked me so much, i had a bright side to everything but i just couldn't be the same with her anymore. Everything i told her to make her better on her sad moments didn't work too good and i had to deal with sleeping on average at 3am every night talking to her on the phone and waking up at 6am the next. There were many times were i told her to seek professional help but she just didn't want to and didn't have the money.
After a year I decided this wasn't healthy for either of us and wasn't going anywhere. The first 3 months were great but after that i was never really happy. So i started thinking more about myself. I came first from now on and avoided her sometimes to go out and have fun with my friends instead of staying home and talking to her on the phone all night listening to her negative thoughts about everything.
I have made her very very sad because of this and she has cried many times. I just couldn't end it myself until she finally ended it. It was a painless breakup for me but not for her.
Was i wrong?