Was I being a jerk?

MotionMan

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I was play softball in my Sunday rec league last weekend;
I play catcher and I like to chat it up with the umpire (a carry over from when I played catcher in HS);
The other team's pitcher comes to bat and steps into the box;
As I continue to chat with the ump (who is chatting back, BTW), the pitcher steps out of the box;
He looks at me and says, "Can you not talk while I am batting."
After giving a blank stare for a moment I mumble, "Um, OK.";

The next inning, I come up to bat;
After the first pitch, I step out of the box and as I step back into the box, the pitcher tries to "quick pitch" me (pitching before the batter is generally ready);
The up calls a no pitch;
The pitcher complains that he can pitch once I step in the box;
The up reminds the pitcher that "This is not major league baseball. You cannot quick pitch him. You have to let the batter get ready.";
The pitcher bitches and moans a little more, then, eventually shuts up and pitches.

An inning or two later, the pitcher comes back up to bat;
He steps in the box and the pitcher is about to start his windup and I say, in a loud voice;
"When I was a freshman, I tried out for varsity baseball!!"
The guy steps out of the box and looks at the ump and asks, "Are you OK with that?"
The up says, "I am fine, get in the box.";

He steps back in the box and as the pitcher starts his windup, I say, in a loud voice, "I mostly played outfield that first year!!"

After the pitch, the guy steps out of the box and says, "Is that because I quick pitched you?" (At least he knew he was being a jerk. BTW, he also tried to quick pitch other batters throughout the game.);
I say, "I am done now. I think we understand each other."
I was quiet the rest of the game.

I know it was not the nicest thing to do, but was I being a jerk? Would you have done something similar?

MotionMan
 

meltdown75

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no, you were not being a jerk. your actions were justified.

would i do something similar? no. i would just jersey him and feed him uppercuts.
 

JDMnAR1

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Nah, if he can't handle a little chatter at the plate he needs to stick to needlepoint. To further compound things he quick pitched you after you respected his prior request to can the conversation. You were perfectly justfied, and should have tied his laces together while he was in the box.
 

destrekor

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justifiable, not jerk-like at all, and I would have done the same thing. Baseball is full of both chivalry and dirty 'spitting' quarrels. I think it was handled appropriately and both of you actually handled it probably how I would have. But then again, baseball is my favorite sport to play and I get extremely competitive in it. I also have a loud mouth when something sets me off.
 

Cerpin Taxt

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I voted "yes" you were a jerk, and "yes" I would've done the same thing. Sometimes being a jerk is called-for. The pitcher needed a taste of his own medicine.
 

FoBoT

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it isn't golf, right?
i remember learning in little league to "chatter" to throw them off and all that

i think you are ok with your actions, unless there is a no talking rule in baseball that i never heard of
 

Perknose

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Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

Never played much ball, did you?

OP was entirely justified. :thumbsup:

Edit: Wow, only 9-6 at this point for OP not being a jerk. I see the pussies aren't posting, just voting. ;)

 

MotionMan

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Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

In HS, the catcher talked to the batters. I never liked that as a batter, so I never did it as a catcher.

I do not talk to the ump to bug the batter. I talk to the ump to butter him up ;)

MotionMan
 

MotionMan

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
I would have called fast ball at the head for the first 2 pitches

LOL. The ball does not move fast enough in our league for that. If you get hit by a pitch in our league, you fell asleep in the box.

MotionMan
 

Capt Caveman

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Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

Never played much ball, did you?

OP was entirely justified. :thumbsup:

Played catcher in High School and American Legion. I talked in between pitches but not when the batter was in the box.
 

MotionMan

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Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

Never played much ball, did you?

OP was entirely justified. :thumbsup:

Played catcher in High School and American Legion. I talked in between pitches but not when the batter was in the box.

Oh, come on! You never, when the ball is on the way, say, "That's strike one!"???

MotionMan
 

Capt Caveman

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Originally posted by: MotionMan
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

Never played much ball, did you?

OP was entirely justified. :thumbsup:

Played catcher in High School and American Legion. I talked in between pitches but not when the batter was in the box.

Oh, come on! You never, when the ball is on the way, say, "That's strike one!"???

MotionMan

LMAO.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: MotionMan
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

Never played much ball, did you?

OP was entirely justified. :thumbsup:

Played catcher in High School and American Legion. I talked in between pitches but not when the batter was in the box.

Oh, come on! You never, when the ball is on the way, say, "That's strike one!"???

MotionMan

or ask him if he wanted some naked pics of his gf
 

MotionMan

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: MotionMan
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

Never played much ball, did you?

OP was entirely justified. :thumbsup:

Played catcher in High School and American Legion. I talked in between pitches but not when the batter was in the box.

Oh, come on! You never, when the ball is on the way, say, "That's strike one!"???

MotionMan

or ask him if he wanted some naked pics of his gf

"Do you have any naked pictures of your wife?"
{pause}
"Want some?"

(Name that movie)

MotionMan
 

MotionMan

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The current vote is about 50/50 jerk, but, at the same time, the vote says that it was OK to be a jerk.

LOL.

MotionMan
 

sdifox

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Originally posted by: MotionMan
Originally posted by: zinfamous
Originally posted by: meltdown75

i would just jersey him and feed him uppercuts.

:thumbsup:

Yeah, except it is a Temple league. That would not have gone over well with my Rabbi.

MotionMan

Well, you could have recited from tanakh :)
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: MotionMan
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: MotionMan
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
I think talking to the ump with the batter in the box is rude imho.

Never played much ball, did you?

OP was entirely justified. :thumbsup:

Played catcher in High School and American Legion. I talked in between pitches but not when the batter was in the box.

Oh, come on! You never, when the ball is on the way, say, "That's strike one!"???

MotionMan

or ask him if he wanted some naked pics of his gf

"Do you have any naked pictures of your wife?"
{pause}
"Want some?"

(Name that movie)

MotionMan

Wasn't it Bull Durham?