Waitresses who try and memorize your order

Raizinman

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I went out with 2 other couples the other night thus making 6 people. We met at a nice steak restaurant for dinner before a movie. It was dinnertime and the restaurant was about half full.

The waitress came over and took our drink order. Nothing too complicated, a few cokes, teas, and waters. She took our drink order (which wasn't very complicated) without writing anything down. When she came back in about 5 minutes to take our food order, she once again did not pull out her little pad to write the order down. Knowing these couples, and knowing that they always want their order specialized, I suggested to the waitress that she write down the order. "Oh no, I'm real good at this, you'll see!"

Well, Jim ordered first and his order would have taken almost a full pad of paper, extra salad dressing, no onions, fries on the side, medium rare, etc. etc. By the time we were half way through with our order, you could see she was already having problems as she was repeating (wrongly) back to the people whose order she had already taken. Again, I suggested that she write down the order as a disaster dinner was in progress. After I made the second comment about her writing things down, I suppose I intimidated her and she quit repeating the orders back.

When she left, we honestly were taking bets if anyone was going to get their order right. The salads came out first and only two were right. We decided to 'grin and bear it' and ate them even though they were not prepared the way we asked. When our meals came out and the steaks were not cooked the way we asked we called over our waitress.

She actually had the nerve to argue with us. We called the manager over and we explained the situation. That if she had written things down, this would not have happened. He ?comped? our meal. If waitresses believe that they command such a powerful memory, perhaps they should look for work in the 'rocket industry' instead of the 'food industry'!!

EDITED for the alphabet imparred.
 

waggy

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wow. please break that up. makes it hard to read.


But yeah i hate it when they try it and screw up
 

Anubis

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heymrdj

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That's what happened at my pizza hut. She was a good friend that became a waitress there. She always had a good memory, but she screwed up too many orders that way. I told her for all my orders she had to write them down. Of course our orders are big, we always came in groups, 5-12 people at a time. So the orders were harder than normal anyways.
 

kranky

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I have no clue why waitresses would not write down orders. Who are they trying to impress? The only thing I care about is whether it's right - there are no extra style points for doing it from memory.
 

Descartes

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Many (I'd venture to say most) of the nicer restaurants (not saying the one you mentioned is one of them) never write down orders, even for large groups. Some countries never write down orders no matter what, and they manage to get the orders right.

What you encountered was an ill-trained waitress that didn't know the menu. If she did, she could have "chunked" the orders, but if she doesn't know the menu she's too busy trying to remember everything literally. Of course, she could just be a horrible waitress.

 

spacejamz

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the proper title is 'server'. the words 'waiter' and 'waitress' went out awhile back (unless you live in podunk USA)...probably around the same time that 'christmas' parties became 'holiday' parties...

i learned this when a girl I used to date worked at Bennigans...
 

MetalMat

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Originally posted by: spacejamz

the proper title is 'server'. the words 'waiter' and 'waitress' went out awhile back (unless you live in podunk USA)...probably around the same time that 'christmas' parties became 'holiday' parties...

i learned this when a girl I used to date worked at Bennigans...

Here comes the PC bandwagon, ugh. I used to work as a waiter and hated being called a server. I still call the ladies Waitresses.
 

rivan

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Originally posted by: spacejamz

the proper title is 'server'. the words 'waiter' and 'waitress' went out awhile back (unless you live in podunk USA)...probably around the same time that 'christmas' parties became 'holiday' parties...

i learned this when a girl I used to date worked at Bennigans...

So... you're taking your PC cues from a waitress from Bennigans? Did she dump you fornot wearing enough flair?
 

biggestmuff

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Originally posted by: spacejamz

the proper title is 'server'. the words 'waiter' and 'waitress' went out awhile back (unless you live in podunk USA)...probably around the same time that 'christmas' parties became 'holiday' parties...

i learned this when a girl I used to date worked at Bennigans...

:roll:
 

OdiN

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I've been out to a place where we had 8 people ordering. Waitress did not write anything down and got it all perfectly. There ARE those who can do it. But if they can't, they shouldn't try.
 
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Originally posted by: Xavier434
I'm gonna chalk this one up under the, "Who cares. Shit happens." list.

It shouldn't have happened though. I'd be pissed about it as well and leave a really small tip.
 

spacejamz

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Originally posted by: rivan
Originally posted by: spacejamz

the proper title is 'server'. the words 'waiter' and 'waitress' went out awhile back (unless you live in podunk USA)...probably around the same time that 'christmas' parties became 'holiday' parties...

i learned this when a girl I used to date worked at Bennigans...

So... you're taking your PC cues from a waitress from Bennigans? Did she dump you fornot wearing enough flair?

actually it was around the same time that a stewardess became a flight attendant, so it made sense...

don't hate the player, hate the game!
 

Xavier434

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Originally posted by: Schfifty Five
Originally posted by: Xavier434
I'm gonna chalk this one up under the, "Who cares. Shit happens." list.

It shouldn't have happened though. I'd be pissed about it as well and leave a really small tip.

A lot of things in life "shouldn't" happen and people do things sometimes which are not 100% optimized for efficiency , but we are all human and that's life. I guess when I read threads like this it makes me believe that the OP is making a mountain out of a mole hill. Life is much better just to shrug this kind of stuff off and limit your worries and frustrations to more important matters. I'm not saying I would tip well after it happens to me, but to make a thread about it in frustration is just stupid and I believe it reflects upon one's personality as being the type that complains too much about everything.