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Very bizzare.... testing the Deacon Effect

Very true. I tried the same thing in college. I'm the typical 'nice' guy and I got Nowhere with women in grad school. Then I pretended to be an ass to one woman. She called me every night for a month before I told her the truth. It's the truth... most women are idiots and go for jerks.
 
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Very true. I tried the same thing in college. I'm the typical 'nice' guy and I got Nowhere with women in grad school. Then I pretended to be an ass to one woman. She called me every night for a month before I told her the truth. It's the truth... most women are idiots and go for jerks.
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Yep, I was getting NOWHERE with this girl the first few weeks of freshman year, so I invited her to watch the miami game with me and some friends at another friends appartment, told her I'd pick her up at 6, she calls at 6:30 wondering where I am and I said I'm at the appartment and she needs to hurry up and get tehre before the game starts, so that pissed her off, then she gets a friend to drop her off, and kinda gets over it and starts talking to me, and I make it so difficult and completely one sided I just answer every question with yes/no, don't ask her anything compliment her...nothing, so we're watching the game and she comes up and sits next to me then leans on my shoulder and I just sit there like she's a burden, so she makes herself more comfortable on me and I put my arm around her, and the rest of the night was smoooooth sailin lol. WHY they like a-holes is beyond me, but they do, don't be nice to a girl you like on the first few dates, will just land you in the friend zone.
 
I set a pillow for her on the floor. Katie reluctantly got off the couch and sat on the floor. She ate her food and to my surprise she sat next to me again and even cuddled up. Possibly because I turned my heater off and it was 60 degrees in my house, she was stealing my body heat. Bitch.
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lol...
 
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Very true. I tried the same thing in college. I'm the typical 'nice' guy and I got Nowhere with women in grad school. Then I pretended to be an ass to one woman. She called me every night for a month before I told her the truth. It's the truth... most women are idiots and go for jerks.
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Yep, I was getting NOWHERE with this girl the first few weeks of freshman year, so I invited her to watch the miami game with me and some friends at another friends appartment, told her I'd pick her up at 6, she calls at 6:30 wondering where I am and I said I'm at the appartment and she needs to hurry up and get tehre before the game starts, so that pissed her off, then she gets a friend to drop her off, and kinda gets over it and starts talking to me, and I make it so difficult and completely one sided I just answer every question with yes/no, don't ask her anything compliment her...nothing, so we're watching the game and she comes up and sits next to me then leans on my shoulder and I just sit there like she's a burden, so she makes herself more comfortable on me and I put my arm around her, and the rest of the night was smoooooth sailin lol. WHY they like a-holes is beyond me, but they do, don't be nice to a girl you like on the first few dates, will just land you in the friend zone.
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Yup, absolutely true. Learned this over many years of being friend zoned.
 
Im going to go as far as to say as that those entire convos are made up BS.

If youre friend zoned, its not cause youre not enough of a dick, its cause youre too pussy to make a move.

Of course this all depends on the particular girl as usual, but in general, nice girls dont like dicks. But they dont like pussies either.
 
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Very true. I tried the same thing in college. I'm the typical 'nice' guy and I got Nowhere with women in grad school. Then I pretended to be an ass to one woman. She called me every night for a month before I told her the truth. It's the truth... most women are idiots and go for jerks.
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Yep, I was getting NOWHERE with this girl the first few weeks of freshman year, so I invited her to watch the miami game with me and some friends at another friends appartment, told her I'd pick her up at 6, she calls at 6:30 wondering where I am and I said I'm at the appartment and she needs to hurry up and get tehre before the game starts, so that pissed her off, then she gets a friend to drop her off, and kinda gets over it and starts talking to me, and I make it so difficult and completely one sided I just answer every question with yes/no, don't ask her anything compliment her...nothing, so we're watching the game and she comes up and sits next to me then leans on my shoulder and I just sit there like she's a burden, so she makes herself more comfortable on me and I put my arm around her, and the rest of the night was smoooooth sailin lol. WHY they like a-holes is beyond me, but they do, don't be nice to a girl you like on the first few dates, will just land you in the friend zone.
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hate to break it to you, but that only works if you look good - like me.
 
My girlfriend is living proof that it isn't true 100% of the time. 😉

You just have to make your move, and make it quick.. lest ye enter the friends zone.
 
I don't think it works with older women. After college, women consciously or unconsciously begin to think of family, children and a good provider. Thats were nice guys fit in.
 
Originally posted by: mavs55
Originally posted by: DaiShan
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Very true. I tried the same thing in college. I'm the typical 'nice' guy and I got Nowhere with women in grad school. Then I pretended to be an ass to one woman. She called me every night for a month before I told her the truth. It's the truth... most women are idiots and go for jerks.
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Yep, I was getting NOWHERE with this girl the first few weeks of freshman year, so I invited her to watch the miami game with me and some friends at another friends appartment, told her I'd pick her up at 6, she calls at 6:30 wondering where I am and I said I'm at the appartment and she needs to hurry up and get tehre before the game starts, so that pissed her off, then she gets a friend to drop her off, and kinda gets over it and starts talking to me, and I make it so difficult and completely one sided I just answer every question with yes/no, don't ask her anything compliment her...nothing, so we're watching the game and she comes up and sits next to me then leans on my shoulder and I just sit there like she's a burden, so she makes herself more comfortable on me and I put my arm around her, and the rest of the night was smoooooth sailin lol. WHY they like a-holes is beyond me, but they do, don't be nice to a girl you like on the first few dates, will just land you in the friend zone.
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hate to break it to you, but that only works if you look good - like me.
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i was thinkin the exact same thing
 
the freind zone is ok. I was good friends with my wife before we started dateing. she was way out of my legue. heck i was after my wife's friends 🙂
 
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