Utoh

[FDF12389]

So I just found out that one of my ex girlfriends, that i left awhile ago for something new(that didnt go well) is actually my current girlfriends cousin. I dont think they know this yet, I found out randomly in a conversation with one of their friends. We all go to different colleges, so they probably wont find out for awhile, so should I just ride it out or tell her?

 

[Wheezer]

either way you go...good luck.

 

[Spineshank]

Ride it out and act like you didnt know. Whats the big deal?

 

[Robert Munch]

:thumbsup:

 

[dullard]

Misread your title. I thought you typed Utah. Then all the polygamy thoughts came to mind where you might as well take both women.

But then I saw it said Utoh not Utah.

 

[sixone]

Tell her now. Whatever else happens, you don't want to add keeping this secret to your list of transgressions.

 

[FDF12389]

Originally posted by: Gnrslash4life
Ride it out and act like you didnt know. Whats the big deal?

Well things didnt end well with the first relationship, and Ive slept with them both.

 

[Pacemaker]

Originally posted by: FDF12389

Originally posted by: Gnrslash4life
Ride it out and act like you didnt know. Whats the big deal?

Well things didnt end well with the first relationship, and Ive slept with them both.

At the same time?

If so I think they know about each other.

 

[FDF12389]

Originally posted by: Pacemaker

Originally posted by: FDF12389

Originally posted by: Gnrslash4life
Ride it out and act like you didnt know. Whats the big deal?

Well things didnt end well with the first relationship, and Ive slept with them both.

At the same time?

If so I think they know about each other.

no about two years apart

 

[slsmnaz]

Never offer up info that could get you in trouble! Use this time to think of an excuse

 

[James Bond]

Originally posted by: sixone
Tell her now. Whatever else happens, you don't want to add keeping this secret to your list of transgressions.

I totally disagree. Just ride it out. Some day in the future she will probably mention it to you, assuming you have no idea... at that point, just look shocked and laugh.

She won't care, she will be happy she has you probably.

 

[GDaddy]

Depends on ho long you expect your current relationship last, short - keep quite, Long - tell now, beter then getting caught witholding info later.

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: slsmnaz
Never offer up info that could get you in trouble! Use this time to think of an excuse

For a man, the best excuse is ignorance for girl-related problems.

 

[FDF12389]

Originally posted by: slsmnaz
Never offer up info that could get you in trouble! Use this time to think of an excuse

I already have an excuse, her cousin changed too much. I broke it off with her because she wasnt the same person I started dating, never meant to break her heart. I dont think I did anything wrong with that one. But shes still pissed at me.

 

[Beau]

Maybe they're kissing cousins!?! :Q

 

[SuperNaruto]

Pics or Ban!

 

[FDF12389]

Originally posted by: SuperNaruto
Pics or Ban!

Jessicasimpson.com

 

[FDF12389]

I keep getting these sarcastic txt messages from the chic who told me they wre cousins, I think shes just ****** with me, I hope so.

 

[cirrrocco]

whats 'Utoh'

 

[KK]

Originally posted by: cirrrocco
whats 'Utoh'

I thought it was Utah at first, then figured they're probably from alabama.

 

[moshquerade]

keeping it in the family

 

[Fraggable]

Originally posted by: sixone
Tell her now. Whatever else happens, you don't want to add keeping this secret to your list of transgressions.

I found it entertaining that you assume he has a list of transgressions

But I'd have to disagree and go with the ignorance ploy for this reason alone: The girl will probably react in a negative way for no reason. Think about it, what real reason is there to break up with someone your cousin dated. Her initial reaction will be bad, but in the end it won't matter.

I normally advise complete honesty, but... for things that just don't matter?

 

[SlowSpyder]

Wasn't this a movie with Julia Styles? I've seen my wife watch it on WE.

A guy thing. Found it.

 

[FDF12389]

Originally posted by: SlowSpyder
Wasn't this a movie with Julia Styles? I've seen my wife watch it on WE.

A guy thing. Found it.

When he wakes up the morning after his bachelor party in bed with a strange woman (Stiles), a man (Lee) presumes he must have cheated on his fiancee. Guilt leads him to try to cover it up in the week before the wedding, high jinks ensue. Written by Ryan McIntosh

How is that anything like this? Anyway Im pretty sure they are not cousin and my friend was messin with me.

 

[dbk]

3 some!!!!!!! Yeah, tell her.