UPDATED: Dealership pushed me to sign purchase order on a vehicle

Yzzim

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Drove about 1.5 hours today to a dealership that had a few vehicles in stock that were in my price range and I wanted to try out. Dealership closes at 7, I get there at 6:30 (just got off work at 5 so I got there as early as possible) and I'm immediately met by a salesman. I tell him which vehicles I'm looking at and he gets the keys and we're off.

First vehicle (Hyundai Sonata) I didn't like, so we test drove a Grand Prix. Wife loved it and wanted to drive so we test drove another. We both really liked the car and wanted to see what kind of deal we could do.

We go inside and negotiate for about 30-40 minutes. Most of the time the salesman and sales manager and throwing numbers together while we're both sitting there feeling guilty for keeping them here this long. Finally we agree on a price and I go to the finance guy and the problems start.

I owe money on my current car and he needed a payoff number. My wife called the bank and got the payoff number. We give it to him but he wants to verify it. Not a problem, I completely understand. Only thing is that the bank is closed (it's now 8:30 at night) so he says he could probably take our word for it but will hike the loan up an extra $50-100 to cover any accumulated interest. Fine.

He asks for the title to the car. My wife rummages through the pile of paperwork we have and it's not there. SOB! I forgot it at home. I quickly apologize to the guy and tell him that we left in a hurry and I forgot it. He rolls his eyes and says something like "that doesn't surprise me." I understand his frustration and apologize again and tell him I'll be back tomorrow afternoon to finish everything.

Before he lets me go he types some stuff on his computer and begins printing some paper. I apologize again and tell him I'll be in touch tomorrow. He looks to me and says "Oh no, we've got to have something to show for all this time" and he throws down a Purchase Order in front of me. I look back and tell him that I'm not signing anything until we get the finances figured out and that we can complete everything tomorrow.

He looks back at my wife, gives a half assed smile and says "well this was just a waste of time"

WTF!!!!

I tell him that I'll sign the purchase order if I can take the car home tonight. They have my driver's license along with my wife's (a copy) and my car. He said that would be possible...if we didn't have a trade in we could have completed everything tonight.

Wouldn't taking the car home tonight just be an overnight test drive????

My wife and I both walk out feeling sick. We both felt pushed into signing that purchase order and now we don't even know if we want to deal with them. I'm sure he wanted us to sign right then and there so we couldn't back out, but the way he went about it made us never want to deal with him again.

So what do I do? Do I have to buy the car because the Sales Manager and I have agreed on a price? I really like the car and the salesman & Sales Manager, but the finance guy makes me never want to do business with that dealership again.

He's calling tomorrow to setup a time so we can meet. I'm really wanting to immediately ask for his manager and giving letting him/her in on what happened and saying that I really don't care if I ever deal with them again. But again, I feel committed to buying the car because we agreed on terms.


Cliffs:
-Went to dealership looking to buy
-Found car, agreed on terms
-Finance guy was jerk
-Wanted us to sign purchase agreement so we were committed to car, just so he could "have something to show for tonight"
-Financing wasn't setup, nothing was signed, left on a sour note
-Don't want to deal with dealership, but feel committed because of agreement on terms of car
-He'll be calling tomorrow morning to setup a time. No idea what to tell him



Wow, sorry for the long post. Guess the cliffs is enough info, I just don't know what to do. :(

UPDATE:

Decided to go out the next day and see what other car deals I could find before I called the dealership and gave them a piece of my mind. Found a 2006 Grand Prix for $1300 less, but it didn't have leather or heated seats. Anyway, I liked the car and didn't feel any reason to do business with the first dealership.

Around 5pm (they close at 6) I called the sales manager I had initially dealt with. Asked him if he had heard what happened and he said that he overheard everything the finance manager had said to me, explained how he could have said it better, but he stopped short of apologizing. That wasn't going to suffice.

I told him that I work in the service industry and there is absolutely no way I could get away bidding a job and telling the person that I'm giving the bid to that I need a signature today to insure that I'll get the job so I have something to show for my time. That's just not how the industry works.

I also reminded him that my sister in-law as well as my wife's parents have both bought new vehicles for this dealership just a few years ago. Because the way they had treated both me and my wife, I assured him they wouldn't be getting any of our families business again.

The Sales Manager let me talk and get everything off my chest, which I appreciated. After I was done he told me he understands how I feel and why I feel that way. He again explained that everything could have been handled better by the finance manager and that he (the finance manager) was indeed upset for being there so late and wanted something to show for the night. This time he apologized for everything that had happened and wished things could have gone better.

So...I feel better. Nothing was really said about the car deal, which is good because I would have felt guilty about not going through with it. Suppose I would have been more satisfied if he would have told me the finance manager was going to get his ass chewed, but that probably wouldn't be too professional.

Anyway, I thought it went down good. Thanks everyone for your help. Might be picking up my car tomorrow if work goes well.

Cliffs update
- Called Sales Manager
- Had words with eachother
- Ended on a good note
- Buying car from different dealership tomorrow
- This is the longest post I have ever written. The End.
 

novasatori

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tell him that you've decided to purchase a car elsewhere
wtf? if you don't like the way you were treated stand up for yourself
 

Eli

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That's rough. You sound like a nice guy.

Personally, I would shop elsewhere. Don't worry about following through with your verbal agreement, and don't worry about what they will "think" of you.

They probably won't even call you.
 

jackace

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rule I always follow. NEVER buy major purchases when rushed. Get the info and come back the next day or on the weekend. Its too easy to screw yourself on a long term loan or something like that when you are being rushed and do not fully understand all the terms of the loan. Not to mention the crappy customer service. I would take my business elsewhere for that reason alone.
 

Cobalt

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Stand up for yourself man, it's a stealership. They didn't care you kept them late, they were gonna make money on you. You think they would care if they kept you late? Don't back down, use it as leverage to get a better deal. Talk with the manager, I'm sure he would like your business.
 

Yzzim

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I appreciate the advice and kind words.

I feel like I actually got a pretty good deal on the car. If I don't buy from them I don't know what I'll do as they seem to have the lowest price I've seen.

After it's all said and done I feel terrible for the salesman and sales manager. The salesman said his son just got home from Iraq and here we are keeping him at the dealership 2 hours longer than he should have been.

Could the dealership hold me to my verbal commitment on the terms of the car and come after me legally if I don't follow through? I really don't want anything to do with them after this.
 

V00DOO

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Originally posted by: Yzzim
I appreciate the advice and kind words.

I feel like I actually got a pretty good deal on the car. If I don't buy from them I don't know what I'll do as they seem to have the lowest price I've seen.

After it's all said and done I feel terrible for the salesman and sales manager. The salesman said his son just got home from Iraq and here we are keeping him at the dealership 2 hours longer than he should have been.

Could the dealership hold me to my verbal commitment on the terms of the car and come after me legally if I don't follow through? I really don't want anything to do with them after this.

If you didn't sign anything they can't do zhit! Just go to another dealer. If this dealer can offered you such a price so can other dealers.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: Yzzim
I appreciate the advice and kind words.

I feel like I actually got a pretty good deal on the car. If I don't buy from them I don't know what I'll do as they seem to have the lowest price I've seen.

After it's all said and done I feel terrible for the salesman and sales manager. The salesman said his son just got home from Iraq and here we are keeping him at the dealership 2 hours longer than he should have been.

Could the dealership hold me to my verbal commitment on the terms of the car and come after me legally if I don't follow through? I really don't want anything to do with them after this.
No, you didn't sign anything.

Seriously dude, if they even call you wondering what happened, you will be forgotten 5 minutes later. Don't worry about it.

Its your call. You can either use it as leverage and try and get a better deal, or shop elsewhere. You shouldn't have to put up with that kind of treatment though.
 

mooglemania85

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Finance guy was an ass. Be sure to tell the salesman and sales manager that is the reason you'll be going to a differnt dealership.
 

Greyd

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It can't be that good of a deal if they are trying to rush you. If they are going to treat you like that, you can pretty much guarantee that if you have any problems down the road, they aren't going to treat you well. They treat you this bad when they are TRYING to get you to buy and they'll treat you worse when they have nothing to gain.

Stop fearing the opinion of people (car dealership) so much.
 

Greyd

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Additionally, they know plenty of tactics to mess with you - which it seems they are presently employing. Don't feel sorry for them, they are tricking you and playing on your emotions. They probably already have you tagged as weak willed targets. Oh and if that guy really had a son that just came home or really cared about him - he would have left earlier no matter what. He made the choice to stay and make cash rather than see his son, if there is one at all.
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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Do I have to buy the car because the Sales Manager and I have agreed on a price?

NO, you do NOT. I've said this 1 simple fact many times over and over again here and hope that people don't get sick of it, but contracts over $500 must be formal and so just discussing it without documentation does not count. You can do whatever you want at this point.

They did NOT treat you well and I honestly wouldn't even bother with them. His comments were unneeded entirely and he isn't treating you well. With such a large purchase, you shouldn't have to put up with this. I'd call up some other stealerships and get what you want.
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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The salesman said his son just got home from Iraq and here we are keeping him at the dealership 2 hours longer than he should have been.

If that was true, he should have simply asked you if this could be done the next day when everyone has more time. Don't take crap from them, you can take your business elsewhere.

Also, I would try and figure out the financing part seperate from a dealership... that way you can haggle simply with just an out the door price and not have to worry about them making up for it with the financing.
 

compuwiz1

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Sounds like you are a typical special finance customer to me, one who comes in right before we close, and doesn't have all the shit together.

I'm the business, and I find this kind of behavior irritating. Why should I get home late, miss dinner, and have to put up with people who can't get their shit together?

Now, I'll be kind....the finance manager should not have treated you this way.

Now...learn how to be on time. Learn how to pay your bills on time. Learn how to get your documents in order.

People like this cost me 3 hours extra on some days. :|

I missed my Grandson's birthday party because of this, once.
 
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If you didn't sign anything you're not obligated to anything. If you are uncomfortable with the way you were treated DO NOT do business with them.

The professional way to deal with this would have been to collect as much info/paperwork as was possible at the time and make an appt to finish the transaction tomorrow. NOT to get you to sign a purchase contract before all the terms were clearly defined. The fact that they threw a contract at you before they knew pay off amounts and finance details is a BIG red flag.

Besides all that, the guy was a total dick to you. Sit back. Take a breath. Go shop somewhere else.
 

novasatori

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what you should have done was ask for a printout of what the final price would be then gone to another dealership ;)
 

Whisper

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Sounds like you are a typical special finance customer to me, one who comes in right before we close, and doesn't have all the shit together.

I'm the business, and I find this kind of behavior irritating. Why should I get home late, miss dinner, and have to put up with people who can't get their shit together?

Now, I'll be kind....the finance manager should not have treated you this way.

Now...learn how to be on time. Learn how to pay your bills on time. Learn how to get your documents in order.

People like this cost me 3 hours extra on some days. :|

I missed my Grandson's birthday party because of this, once.

If you're truly that irritated by this type of customer, why not just--as others have said--suggest that they come back the following morning? If you agree to stay late, and aren't mandated to do so, then there really isn't anyone else to blame.

Now, if you are in fact required to stay, it's a bit different...but not entirely, considering it's something that was known ahead of time.
 

hjo3

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He rolled his eyes at you? Christ, that alone would have been enough to send me to his nearest competitor.
 

compuwiz1

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Originally posted by: Whisper
Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Sounds like you are a typical special finance customer to me, one who comes in right before we close, and doesn't have all the shit together.

I'm the business, and I find this kind of behavior irritating. Why should I get home late, miss dinner, and have to put up with people who can't get their shit together?

Now, I'll be kind....the finance manager should not have treated you this way.

Now...learn how to be on time. Learn how to pay your bills on time. Learn how to get your documents in order.

People like this cost me 3 hours extra on some days. :|

I missed my Grandson's birthday party because of this, once.

If you're truly that irritated by this type of customer, why not just--as others have said--suggest that they come back the following morning? If you agree to stay late, and aren't mandated to do so, then there really isn't anyone else to blame.

Now, if you are in fact required to stay, it's a bit different...but not entirely, considering it's something that was known ahead of time.

Finance Manager does not have the option of leaving while a deal is going on.

People like this keep the sales manager, finance manager and salesperson over for extra time.

Got a 700+ score, no problem, you can come in and deal will be done fast. 486-576 score, you should not show up at closing time, and probably the only excuse for this, is that you've already been kicked out of everywhere else, so you show up, on the haps that you might make a deal with one more app. Very thick skulls.

 

dartworth

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Sounds like you are a typical special finance customer to me, one who comes in right before we close, and doesn't have all the shit together.

I'm the business, and I find this kind of behavior irritating. Why should I get home late, miss dinner, and have to put up with people who can't get their shit together?

Now, I'll be kind....the finance manager should not have treated you this way.

Now...learn how to be on time. Learn how to pay your bills on time. Learn how to get your documents in order.

People like this cost me 3 hours extra on some days. :|

I missed my Grandson's birthday party because of this, once.



typical AT lifer post...

I take it your one of those scumbags that work at a dealership...? Thanks for your great contribution to society...
 

Toastedlightly

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salesman was a dick. My father is a former car salesman, and he believed that being nice to the person and getting them what they wanted was a faster track to money than forcing them into something they don't want.
 

bctbct

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Sounds like you are a typical special finance customer to me, one who comes in right before we close, and doesn't have all the shit together.

I'm the business, and I find this kind of behavior irritating. Why should I get home late, miss dinner, and have to put up with people who can't get their shit together?

Now, I'll be kind....the finance manager should not have treated you this way.

Now...learn how to be on time. Learn how to pay your bills on time. Learn how to get your documents in order.

People like this cost me 3 hours extra on some days. :|

I missed my Grandson's birthday party because of this, once.


You're kind of out of line here. Salespeople are often pushy and it sounds like this guy got hooked to do things he didnt want to do.

Why would you want to complain about spending time with a customer trying to sell them, thats you're job?

Its pretty typical for work to interfer with life....get over it.

 

rh71

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Couldn't you skip their financing altogether and go with someone like CapitalOne (best according to carbuyingtips.com) ?

You basically get a blank check to write out the rest of what you owe. You shouldn't need to sign anything else finance-related at the dealer.

EDIT>>> oops I shoulda read the whole thing - looks like you still owe money on your current car... you should definitely read up on that site. Learn the scams and learn when to do what...