UPDATE: To the gf was cheating on me thread.

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LuckyTaxi

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Some of you may remembered when my gf was cheating on me and then I took her back hoping to work things out.
Well, it wasn't easy trusting her again and she didnt make it easier by doing things behind my back, and on top of that
she continued to talk to the guy on the phone. So, I confronted her and she said they were only friends, but you know
what happened with that before.

Anyways, I finally dumped her and she really didn't seem to care. Stating that I don't trust her and that she's sick of
tired of me checking up on her. Now that right there made no sense to me. So, it's sayanora to her.

The hard part is to try to fill in the gap in which she left. I must admit letting her go was hard becuz I've known her
since my senior year in HS (4 years ago). I spend my weekends with her and now it's going to be lonely without
her. *SIGHS* I guess it doesnt hurt to start off today by spending time at a picnic with my uncle and his friends.
A new day without the witch

I know its tough, but I will feel much happier in the end. I will find someone who's much much better than her.

Thx for all the support guys!
 
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joe678

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u guys split and she didnt even care...that should tell u something about your decision...ur better off now...
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: joe678
u guys split and she didnt even care...that should tell u something about your decision...ur better off now...
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Yep. Although it's too bad it had to be done, you did the right thing, so congratulations. :)
 
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snow patrol

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Your last sentence sums it up really. I think you've done the right thing, hope it all works out for the best.

Good luck :)
 
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GtPrOjEcTX

Lifer
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wow, pretty big transitions in your life

good relationship for years -> cheating gf -> confronting gf -> back together with gf -> gf wants to marry -> say no -> now dumped her -> happy & alone

good luck in life man.
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

Lifer
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Originally posted by: eLiTeGoodGuy1
Originally posted by: Murphyrulez
Get a dog. You'll be much better off.
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You can't pork a dog (legally)...
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You could, however, download videos of just that off your favorite p2p client if you were so inclined. :confused:
 
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Dually

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You will be way better off. My advice to guys is to not get married until you are at least 25/28. Your future is more important than a relationship anyway, and remember there is no "one" person for you out there that Fate has made.
 
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GtPrOjEcTX

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Dually
You will be way better off. My advice to guys is to not get married until you are at least 25/28. Your future is more important than a relationship anyway, and remember there is no "one" person for you out there that Fate has made.
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alright, bringing this from the other thread. I see you misunderstood what I meant by "one". I didn't not mean "'one' person for you out there that Fate has made" I meant the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with. And yes, divorce is wrong.
 
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tcsenter

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Woohoo, FREEEEEEEE!!! Try to find a girl who isn't so funkily brained next time, though that admittedly is easier said than done. Sometimes, you have the pleasure of going from psycho to pyscho^2.
 
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dakata24

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this is the gf that was talking about getting married right? and she didnt even care you two broke up..

good for you buddy.. you did the right thing..

dont forget all the sh!t she's pulled on ya if she ever tries to crawl back to you..
 
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bsobel

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Anyways, I finally dumped her and she really didn't seem to care
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It must feel weird walking around now that you got your balls back, but it's like riding a bike and you'll be used to it again in no time. Now, stop loaning them out...

Bill
 
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Hoeboy

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you finally realize why you were still with her regardless of all the sh!t she did. you were afraid to be alone and afraid to change from all those 4 years of having her in your life. a lot of people stay in relationships that don't work out mainly because they are afraid of the changes. but human beings tend to adapt well so you'll do okay. just don't ever let you blame yourself for what happened and most importantly of all, DO NOT WONDER WHAT IF THIS....WHAT IF THAT... etc....


with that said, i bet you she will call you in a few days and try to rekindle things... it's a battle of will now. don't give in!!! it's better to be single than be with someone that is torturing you. although some of the VERY horny guys on this board will think otherwise...
 
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