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*UPDATE* Thank god she wasn't home!

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illusion88

Lifer
I almost did it. ALMOST.
I am really falling for this girl, a good friend of mine. Me and her are real close friends and I want to start a relationship with her. But for about a month I just havn't been able to do it. I try and then strick up a different conversation before I can get the words out. I'm afraid that ill start something into a downward sprial and risk a chance of seeing her less, or perhaps losing her. It feels like a Do or Die situtation, only im sure its not (got to keep telling myself that 🙂). So today I was like "fvck it, I'm doing it." And I picked up the phone and dialed her number. "Here we go, grow some fvcking balls danmit". And the phone rang...and rang...and then beep. "Hey this is allie, Im not home right now so leave a message, or you can try my cell phone at..."

phew!
Thank god she wasn't home or I could have really have messed something up there.

UPDATE:

Ok this is what happened. We share a block of time where we have no classes. And during this time I couldn't find her. It was getting late and I had to get back to class. I didnt see her the whole day. I looked and looked, but couldnt find her. I asked her friends and they didn't know where she was. She was there, because she is in some of their classes and showed up for those. So I guess ill call her and see whats up. But im gonna take your advice and wait until I can see her in person. I guess tomorrow is the day. Besides its a better day I think. On Thursday I get out about an hour earlier, but we share lunch. So I can pop the question at lunch time and then go home to either jump for joy or wallow in self pity!

Ill get back to you guys

UPDATE:

I called one of her friends and talked to her on the phone. She said....no. You could try but I dont think that Allie is ready for something like that right now. So I called a good friend of mine and he said... go for it man, but dont rule out the possibility of going home empty handed. And then I called up her ex, who is a alos a good friend of mine, and he said... My permission is granted, but i doubt she will agree. She isnt really in a stage where she needs or wants a boyfriend. Sience I know them all really well, and I know they care about me. Im gonna go with just sitting tight. This could be the worst mistake in my life, or it could be avoiding a serious disaster. Ill sleep on it I guess.
 
You're doing yourself harm by thinking like that.

I've been in your position before and I'll tell you that it's going to eat you up inside until you do something. Or she's going to find someone else and you'll be miserable at your missed chance and will end up avoiding her just because you feel so bad.

The worst thing you can do is nothing at all, and chances are if you're falling for her she's feeling at least a bit towards you. If you're really good friends, just be blunt but don't pour your heart out. Tell her that you've been feeling that you two should see if there could be something more than just friends and see what she says. As long as you don't tell her that you've got a psychotic shrine dedicated to her and you have already planned out the wedding and the kids she should still be a good friend even if she doesn't feel the same way. Be tactful about it and you'll be golden, but no matter what you do, DO SOMETHING.

Not telling her anything is the worst possible thing you can do.
 
I agree you pretty much have to say something. Just be prepared is she doesn't feel the same way. I asked out a girl I'd known for a while (we weren't good friends, but we have/had classes together so we weren't just casual acquaintence's) and she said no. Felt like crap for a while but at least now I know.
 
*The Chickendance Music plays in the background*

Your best friend, huh? You do realize that if you make this move and she says "uh, get T.F. away from me!!!! raaaaappppeeeee!" the friendship is way trashed, right?

1. If you busta move and get the booty action, the relationship is trashed
2. If you busta move and she busts your lip, the relationship is trashed
3. You could stay home and beat the bishop forever and keep the friendship


Your move, Clyde. No pressure. 😀
 
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