Update on the girl I like...

gjeste

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So folks, remember that girl that I was obsessed about and had a huge crush on, who left to go to ecuador over spring semester? (PS: I am a 20 yr old student attending a private christian college)

Well guess what, she's back already. and she's prancing around campus telling everyone about her studying abroad tales.

well maybe you guys remember about how i made the idiotic move of admitting that I liked her, inside an email that i sent her. well she responded shockingly, and implied that she just wanted to hangout with me in a 'group setting'

she didnt respond to any of my emails after that.


Now she's back. and even worse, she has some other guy who is hanging around her a lot. Yea, right now they are supposedly only friends but we all know what that really means: "they are friends, but it could very easily go somewhere"

Even worse though, this guy is supposedly smooth, kinda popular, and is going to be the student body president next year, and he also has a darker complexion and is taller than me.

well the girl I like and this guy seem to talk a fair amount one on one. Also he has more in common with her than I do, they both have the same major which is "International Relations" kind of a unique one.


ok, lets admit it, maybe in this situation i am screwed.
I'd be willing to get in better shape, get more ripped, get a six pack, if my body is what is holding me off.
but something tells me its more than that. so i probably already lost.

but what do you do when you run into stiff competition like this in the future? Is there anything you can do?

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Orsorum

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It's over, man, let her go. If a woman blows you off, say fvck it, improve yourself to the point where she's drooling over how good you look, then go hook up with someone hotter.


That's the theory, at least.
 

Chiboy

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Originally posted by: Mill
You should kill yourself.

I agree with Mill, on a side note Mill I thought you died! You have been missing from #Neochat.
 

essasin

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man your in college..forget her..party and have some fun, but scoring with her mom is not that bad of an idea considering if shes a milf
 

dfi

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I'm confused. From your use of the phrase "stiff competition", you seem to be implying that you are in the race. But, as far as I can tell, you've been banned from the arena. The security guards won't even let you get near the arena.

She isn't replying to your email. That means she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. It doesn't get much worse than that. You can try to figure out how to win her, but that's just mental masturbation. You'd be better off doing the physical kind.

In other words, the situation is hopeless. Completely and utterly. As you put it so clearly yourself, you're screwed.

Go ahead and get in better shape now, because in 6 months you'll have fallen for another girl and wish you started working out right now. That should also help your confidence.

dfi
 

skywalker66

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Originally posted by: dfi
I'm confused. From your use of the phrase "stiff competition", you seem to be implying that you are in the race. But, as far as I can tell, you've been banned from the arena. The security guards won't even let you get near the arena.

She isn't replying to your email. That means she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. It doesn't get much worse than that. You can try to figure out how to win her, but that's just mental masturbation. You'd be better off doing the physical kind.

In other words, the situation is hopeless. Completely and utterly. As you put it so clearly yourself, you're screwed.

Go ahead and get in better shape now, because in 6 months you'll have fallen for another girl and wish you started working out right now. That should also help your confidence.

dfi


okay, to reiterate on "stiff competition"

I know I am not in the race this time. I am just worried that if I am in the race in the future, how I am going to deal with punks like these. The punks who bring tough competition to the tables.

You are allowed only one account. Start another one and your posting privileges will be terminated.
 

imported_Phil

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: dfi
I'm confused. From your use of the phrase "stiff competition", you seem to be implying that you are in the race. But, as far as I can tell, you've been banned from the arena. The security guards won't even let you get near the arena.

She isn't replying to your email. That means she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. It doesn't get much worse than that. You can try to figure out how to win her, but that's just mental masturbation. You'd be better off doing the physical kind.

In other words, the situation is hopeless. Completely and utterly. As you put it so clearly yourself, you're screwed.

Go ahead and get in better shape now, because in 6 months you'll have fallen for another girl and wish you started working out right now. That should also help your confidence.

dfi


okay, to reiterate on "stiff competition"

I know I am not in the race this time. I am just worried that if I am in the race in the future, how I am going to deal with punks like these. The punks who bring tough competition to the tables.

You can't, unless you force yourself to believe that you're better than them. If you see them as the "superior competition" then you're doomed to e-p00n.
 

Goosemaster

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Just let her go. There is no point int following her.

If with she was entrhalled with you as you seem to be with her it would be different.

Stop being nieve. She won't "grow" to love you without reason.


Trust me. There is always more tuna fish in the fridge.




Look elsewhere and good lick.
 

simms

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Sep 21, 2001
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No. Give up. It's fcktards like you, that keep going for my GF when she's already taken. Sorry, it's just that I can't stand some people.

If they're just friends, keep going for it, but once you know that she's taken... keep your hands off. and where I can see them.
 

EpsiIon

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Does anybody else think this gjeste is simply trolling at this point?

"Remember when I posted something and a lot of you called me stupid? Well, I'm posting something again... there really hasn't been a change in my relationship, but I was hoping you'd call me stupid a few more times..."

By the way, if you *are* serious, what kind of question is "what do you do when you run into stiff competition?" What kind of answers do you expect? Do you expect things like, "You should challenge that guy to a fight?" How about, "Get really fit and exercise in front of her?" You made your move and the girl gave you some strong "no" signals. It's time to move on.

In the future, though, if you haven't made your move, make your move. You should be able to figure out your chances pretty quickly after that, regardless of the competition...
 

Red Dawn

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Continue to stalk and spy on her. Itr won't help you get her but it will make for some interesting and disturbing reading for the rest of us.
 

Schadenfroh

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sorry to hear that man, i made a simillar mistake a long time ago in a similar situation. it sucks
 

isasir

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: dfi
I'm confused. From your use of the phrase "stiff competition", you seem to be implying that you are in the race. But, as far as I can tell, you've been banned from the arena. The security guards won't even let you get near the arena.

She isn't replying to your email. That means she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. It doesn't get much worse than that. You can try to figure out how to win her, but that's just mental masturbation. You'd be better off doing the physical kind.

In other words, the situation is hopeless. Completely and utterly. As you put it so clearly yourself, you're screwed.

Go ahead and get in better shape now, because in 6 months you'll have fallen for another girl and wish you started working out right now. That should also help your confidence.

dfi


okay, to reiterate on "stiff competition"

I know I am not in the race this time. I am just worried that if I am in the race in the future, how I am going to deal with punks like these. The punks who bring tough competition to the tables.


Psst buddy, you logged in under your skywalker66 account... Not that anyone couldn't tell that you had two accounts.
 

LordJezo

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Originally posted by: isasir
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: dfi
I'm confused. From your use of the phrase "stiff competition", you seem to be implying that you are in the race. But, as far as I can tell, you've been banned from the arena. The security guards won't even let you get near the arena.

She isn't replying to your email. That means she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. It doesn't get much worse than that. You can try to figure out how to win her, but that's just mental masturbation. You'd be better off doing the physical kind.

In other words, the situation is hopeless. Completely and utterly. As you put it so clearly yourself, you're screwed.

Go ahead and get in better shape now, because in 6 months you'll have fallen for another girl and wish you started working out right now. That should also help your confidence.

dfi


okay, to reiterate on "stiff competition"

I know I am not in the race this time. I am just worried that if I am in the race in the future, how I am going to deal with punks like these. The punks who bring tough competition to the tables.


Psst buddy, you logged in under your skywalker66 account... Not that anyone couldn't tell that you had two accounts.


PWND!!!!!
 

DaWhim

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Originally posted by: LordJezo
Originally posted by: isasir
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: dfi
I'm confused. From your use of the phrase "stiff competition", you seem to be implying that you are in the race. But, as far as I can tell, you've been banned from the arena. The security guards won't even let you get near the arena.

She isn't replying to your email. That means she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. It doesn't get much worse than that. You can try to figure out how to win her, but that's just mental masturbation. You'd be better off doing the physical kind.

In other words, the situation is hopeless. Completely and utterly. As you put it so clearly yourself, you're screwed.

Go ahead and get in better shape now, because in 6 months you'll have fallen for another girl and wish you started working out right now. That should also help your confidence.

dfi


okay, to reiterate on "stiff competition"

I know I am not in the race this time. I am just worried that if I am in the race in the future, how I am going to deal with punks like these. The punks who bring tough competition to the tables.


Psst buddy, you logged in under your skywalker66 account... Not that anyone couldn't tell that you had two accounts.


PWND!!!!!

he has more than 2 accounts.
easy to identify if this is skywalker66 or not.
this mofo never put the YAGT tag and all his posts is whining. what a whining bitch :|