Update on my 2 year girl issue: Progression and regression..more help greatly needed and appreciated :)

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nanyangview

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I asked her..SHE IS STILL SINGLE..NO BF...YAY!!! so it is good news...BUT she said that she never thought about that stuff..oh well..it is better than having a BF..so what should i do now? Her bday is coming soon..what should i get her?
This is what i plan to give her:

Home made card( Yes i can draw very well)

LORT II SOundtrack/DVD, some HP Stuff ,sweater for winter?

plz advice...
Yah..so this is the best time for me to tell her that i LIKE HER...so how should i do it?



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From my old story:
Ok guys..this is quiet a complicated situation but I sincerely hope that u relationship experts can give me a hand on this.

I knew this Chinese girl since when I was in Grade11 over 2 years ago in math class. We helped each other in school work and etc but then a year later I TRANSFERRED to another school. So basically I have not seen her in person for 2 years but we kept in touch via ICQ. And during the tough times of school, we support each other by saying encouraging things and in one occasion she even took the effort to scan many pages of her old test to help me out.. we thus kept in touch for 2 years this way? basically she is a really good and caring friend. Being a person who moves from country to country, school to school, I don?t have many close friends..but I consider her as one of my closest.

Basically her and mine personality really match in almost every aspect. She and me is those non-clubbing/partying type, we also like the same style of music, sports, arts blah blah?..(EXCEPT COMPUTERS HAHA) Her personality is a little shy (not partying/clubbing type, likes quiet stuff etc)

Now we both are in university, although she is in a different one, we still kept in touch and chatted everyday. Her birthday is coming in late October..so what should I get her? Hehe..actually I really like her too so maybe you guys can also help me on how I can express myself..


I am 18..never had a GF so I am a total NOOB!
Thanks for your time guys and gals!

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If she's never thought about it, then there might just not be anything there. Not trying to come in and dampen things or whatever, but it's always best to look at things from both sides. Judging from how you said your relationship with her was in school, it doesn't seem like she saw it as anything more than friends. Then again, girls are weird, so you never know.

As for what gift to get: homemade card could be alright, but I'd personally just get her a regular card and something small; nothing too romantic/expensive/etc. You don't want to make her feel all rushed and pressured by getting her like a diamond necklace, or a really nice outfit or something. Just let her know that you remembered her bday, and cared enough to buy her something. Gotta hold back a bit, or else you'll just be coming on too strong...especially when you aren't sure if there's anything there to build on. And if you aren't planning on going over to see her on that day, you could do so. Just might wanna let her know in advance. Could always say you'll buy her dinner, too...but don't make it sound like a date. Just a bday dinner (don't worry, guys buy friends dinner all the time, even if they are girls).

Good luck.
 
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