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UPDATE: Losing faith in humanity one person at a time, well three people at a time.

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So last week, Monday, me and some friends had a poker game. Lots of alcohol was involved. There was a total of five people, me, my S.O., a long time friend of mine, Mr. R and Mr. M and Mrs. K as well. After me and my S.O. leave Mrs. K (whose husband was not there) decided to turn on some porn and get cozy with the guys. Mr. R has a bery nice gf of 1.5 years and Mr. M has a gf of 6 years or so. Everyone ends up in the same bed together (Mrs. K. in the middle.) but nothing happens.

Well same setup basically on wednesday, but this time when we leave, strip poker is played. And after a few too many unlucky hands and Mrs. K is stark naked. Again the three of them end up in the same bed, and once again Mrs. K is in the middle.

Well this time instead of sleeping, a threesome insues. Everyone says someone else initiates, but it doesn't matter.

They are all suck pieces of sh!t and it really pisses me off. Mrs. K is married, what a fvckin whore. And the others have long time gfs. No one is gonna say anything to anyone else and they are just gonna move on as if nothing ever happened. I feel like sh!t because i almost didn't invite Mrs. K for fear of this. I made the plans, i brought the alcohol. I joked about strip poker after we were done. I layed all the pieces together for this happened and i didn't listen to my self.

I can't really explain why i am mad/frustrated/massively dissappointed. And i know the typical response is gonna be something like good for her, or your just jealous, or get new friends, or they were consenting adults. But i am close to all of them and they all suck. I am supposed to out with them all tonight and i really don't think i can stand it.


Cliff Notes:
Two guys with gfs in different towns
One married girl with a husband thousands of miles away
Me and my S.O.
Too much alcohol
Me and my S.O. leaving early
=
Threesome and me very upset.

More info
I don't the Mrs. K. Husband or Mr. M's gf, and i barely now Mr. R's gf (i would be tempted to tell her anyways, but its too strong a possibility that she would hurt herself, she has issues to say the least.)
It makes me sick thinking how disrespectful these people are to the ones they "love."
But i really don't think that there anything for me to do.

Mr. R and i have been friends for a long time and i told him how disappointed i was and how a few years ago he had told he would never cheat on a girl(he might call her 15 minutes before hand and tell her it was over) and that i had lost quite a bit of respect for him.

Update(12APR050
So tonight was poker night.
Mr. M was obviously upset about the situation, but it appears Mr. R and Mrs. K have plans to continue the prevous nights activities. This really chaps my a$$. If you are gonna persue a relationship with someone other than your S.O. have the balls to tell them. Mr. M stayed behind, if he indicates that something happened i will be lettiing Mr. K and Mr. Rs S.O. know. Atleats Mr. Rs gf, i know her well enough to fell obligated to tell her.

Update

Mrs. K and Mr. R slept together last night and Mr. M left. That's probably the end of poker nights, atleast with Mrs. K and Mr. R. Possibly one or the other in the future, but not both again. Still dunno what i wanna do.
 
You can either suck it up and not say anything.

Or

You can clear your conscience and drop the bomb and tell the husband of Mrs. K and the gfs of Mr. R & Mr. M.
 
I'd feel the same way, not because I was jealous or because I didn't think they had a right to make their own decisions in that way, but because I would lose faith in relationships knowing that three people could do that to their SOs. Especially three people you're close to and trust. Sucks :frown:
 
you hang out with these people (and went back for more the next day). time to find new friends.

PS 3some with 2 guys = yuck. 😛
 
I think if you're close the the husband or girlfriends of these three then you should tell them what happened. I'd like to know if my long-term SO did something like that to me, I think most people would.
 
Situations like this are one of the main reasons that I end friendships. Like you, I can't stomach it. It does make me lead to losing faith in humanity and realizing that the majority of people are selfish pricks. It'll bother you whenever you see them so you might as well end the friendships and find other friends.
 
BTW, if you tell the girlfriends/husband, expect to be called a liar and treated like crap. Most people in relationships won't believe their S.O. is cheating unless they catch him/her in the act.
 
You should tell the husband and hope you don't see a triple homicide on the local news. I think I might go that route if I were the husband. 😛
 
Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
You should tell the husband and hope you don't see a triple homicide on the local news. I think I might go that route if I were the husband. 😛
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What if: The girl has the approval of her husband to do these things? Some people do enjoy that kind of freakiness, you know.

However, if this is all done without the knowledge/approval of SO's, then it's not a good thing, IMO.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
You should tell the husband and hope you don't see a triple homicide on the local news. I think I might go that route if I were the husband. 😛
Click to expand...

What if: The girl has the approval of her husband to do these things? Some people do enjoy that kind of freakiness, you know.

However, if this is all done without the knowledge/approval of SO's, then it's not a good thing, IMO.
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HAh, you're right. That could be why he wasn't there. 😛

Oh, and this happened in CA so that explains everything!

 
Here's an idea. Mind your own business. And why are these idiots telling you what happened anyhow?
 
If you "rat out" the involved people you're gonna be getting the short end of the stick. Just keep your mouth shut and never talk to them again.
 
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