I'm getting there but my FIOS router really stinks - why are there so many different ways to do things with Ubuntu/Debain? For instance, I have found 4-5 server "how tos" that describe in detail the "best" way to set up a server. Most of them have these lines that say, "be sure to turn off this or you'll screw everything up!" but someone else says something different about same component. I guess Ubuntu is nice for someone who wants a dedicated server for home use, but there's a lot more to it when you're trying to actually set up an actual web hosting platform for yourself...
I have run into major stumbling blocks trying to get VHCS to run - namely it doesn't work with php5 which is what is installed in the LAMP edition automatically. Also, when you are logged into the server under a normal user and then you log in as sudo, you remain in the user's folder which kept me frustrated or hours because I couldn't figure out why I was denied permission to access /etc/apt/sources.list (I was not in correct folder). So, I think I can do it, I'm not giving up yet, but a true, "How To" is nowhere to be found for a true noob.