two bootie calls in one day= jerk?

[meltdown75]

hmm, i guess no one else cares, but

PICS?

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: Gibson486
If they know it is a booty call, then no, you are no jerk.

If they knew it is a booty call, he wouldn't feel like one.

Not necessarily. Remember, he comes from a 7 year relationship, and if he's always had sex within that context it strikes me as natural that he would feel guilty here even if nothing is wrong. I think you may be passing judgement too quickly.

 

[NiKeFiDO]

if neither are relationship stuff then do whatever with whoever. however, #2 may want relationship?

 

[dquan97]

pics?

 

[OutHouse]

you are young, sow your seeds!!!

 

[tyim]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: moshquerade
how do you figure they will both result in nookie?

girl #1 - definite nookie, she hinted at what will happen during the course of the visit

girl #2 - possible nookie. we flirted quite heavily on the phone tonight and i said "we could meet up for coffee in the city or I can just come over with my coffee maker" she said "you don't need to bring the coffee maker..." sooooo.. it's a possibility if I play my cards right..

why not just have the 3 of you get together? you know what i mean?

i admit it, im jealous

and mosh is great as always

 

[cheapgoose]

nothing worng with what you're doing as long as both girls knows that you do have something on the side. It's only fair, a lot of stds out there, I'm sure you would want to know if girl #2 sucked some %$#@ a few hours before your arrival.

 

[ahurtt]

If you think that either of the girls #1 or #2 are developing feelings for you on a deeper than casual level and you are only pretending and leading them along to get some action, then that is cause to feel guilty. If you are completely honest with them both and they still continue to call you anyway, game on man. Do the 2 girls know about each other? Are you hiding them from one another? Has either of them asked if you are seeing anybody else and you lied and said no?

 

[DragonMasterAlex]

LOL, you're feeling guilty over *two*? A couple of years back I was getting 4 booty calls a week, and on at least 3 occasions all 4 happened on the same day. Moreover, later on down the line 3 of the 4 came together all at once, which I have to tell you was *damn* awesome

Jason

 

[Kibbo86]

As long as you arn't stringing either of them along with false promises, have fun.

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

this thread makes me sad

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: Gibson486
If they know it is a booty call, then no, you are no jerk.

If they knew it is a booty call, he wouldn't feel like one.

Not necessarily. Remember, he comes from a 7 year relationship, and if he's always had sex within that context it strikes me as natural that he would feel guilty here even if nothing is wrong. I think you may be passing judgement too quickly.

That may be, but I doubt it. A guy doesn't worry about how 'genuinely nice' a girl is when he knows she only wants a booty call. His words - not mine.

 

[mzkhadir]

you should really get help and stop posting your sob threads here.

 

[OVERKILL]

you sound like a selfish punk. Still looking to get your jollies off.
Grow up and you actually may find a decent woman.

 

[SpecialEd]

Would you be comfortable telling one girl about your involvments with the other?

If not, then you should be feeling guilty.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: SpecialEd
Would you be comfortable telling one girl about your involvments with the other?

If not, then you should be feeling guilty.

DING DING DING!!! We have a winner!!

 

[PingSpike]

Its a war out there man. Get in there and blow some sh|t up!

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
SO, long story short, a girl i've been involved with (not dating at a all) invited me over before classes tomorrow... I'm not very attracted to her, I'll be honest, but we both get something out of our time together.. Another girl, a girl I find cuter but have never done anything with, seems very much in the mood and invited me over to her place at night. I shouldn't feel guilty, right?

update:
argh.. Spent the night with girl #2, rescheduled with girl #1. Girl #2 was so sweet and gentle and genuinely nice that I'm feeling guilty and may cancel with girl #1... Neither are relationship material but I still feel like a jerk.

damn that conscience

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
SO, long story short, a girl i've been involved with (not dating at a all) invited me over before classes tomorrow... I'm not very attracted to her, I'll be honest, but we both get something out of our time together.. Another girl, a girl I find cuter but have never done anything with, seems very much in the mood and invited me over to her place at night. I shouldn't feel guilty, right?

update:
argh.. Spent the night with girl #2, rescheduled with girl #1. Girl #2 was so sweet and gentle and genuinely nice that I'm feeling guilty and may cancel with girl #1... Neither are relationship material but I still feel like a jerk.

damn that conscience

The girl canceled on me without me having to. Yeah, I shouldn't feel guilty - what I have to do is make it clearer with the sweetheart of a girl that I'm not looking for a relationship. I don't know, I've been feeling weird lately, I actually have a sex life (there was a 4 month gap between anything, that's how lame I am) but none of the girls i've been seeing are relationship material. Hopefully i meet that one girl so I don't have to feel as exhausted and guilty as I do.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
The girl canceled on me without me having to. Yeah, I shouldn't feel guilty - what I have to do is make it clearer with the sweetheart of a girl that I'm not looking for a relationship. I don't know, I've been feeling weird lately, I actually have a sex life (there was a 4 month gap between anything, that's how lame I am) but none of the girls i've been seeing are relationship material. Hopefully i meet that one girl so I don't have to feel as exhausted and guilty as I do.

Have to? HAVE TO?

 

[mzkhadir]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
The girl canceled on me without me having to. Yeah, I shouldn't feel guilty - what I have to do is make it clearer with the sweetheart of a girl that I'm not looking for a relationship. I don't know, I've been feeling weird lately, I actually have a sex life (there was a 4 month gap between anything, that's how lame I am) but none of the girls i've been seeing are relationship material. Hopefully i meet that one girl so I don't have to feel as exhausted and guilty as I do.

Have to? HAVE TO?

so basically all his threads are about booty calls and getting sex and nothing else.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: mzkhadir

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
The girl canceled on me without me having to. Yeah, I shouldn't feel guilty - what I have to do is make it clearer with the sweetheart of a girl that I'm not looking for a relationship. I don't know, I've been feeling weird lately, I actually have a sex life (there was a 4 month gap between anything, that's how lame I am) but none of the girls i've been seeing are relationship material. Hopefully i meet that one girl so I don't have to feel as exhausted and guilty as I do.

Have to? HAVE TO?

so basically all his threads are about booty calls and getting sex and nothing else.

No, actually, some of these posts lead me to having 2nd thoughts.. thinking out loud isn't a bad thing sometimes

 

[meltdown75]

i'd be more guilty about letting this thread get this far without pics.

shame on you.

 

[mzkhadir]

Originally posted by: meltdown75
i'd be more guilty about letting this thread get this far without pics.

shame on you.

qft

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: meltdown75
i'd be more guilty about letting this thread get this far without pics.

shame on you.

Ah, Melty - you never take your eyes off the prize.