This question is more directed to members who are either out of college/almost out of college but any input is appreciated:
During my time in college I've gone to my own private hell and back. I was in a drug induced haze for about two years and only within the past year and a half have I been able to pick up the pieces and regain some semblance of my former self. I have for the most part quit taking drugs but I have to admit there are times where I have been weak and given in to temptation. Some of those times have been very recent. Now comes the fun part...
I really like this girl... We've been talking to each other for about a year now and we're pretty close but not an "item" yet. She is more of the good girl, and I am "the crazy one" but hey opposites attract right?. We've always had a very open relationship but I don't know if I would be man enough to tell her about the times, especially recently, where I was weak and gave in to former demons. I don't want to lie to her because I respect her more than that, but almost from the beginning of our friendship she knew that I wanted to turn my life around. School-wise I'm doing a lot better than before. Emotionally, I am a lot more stable. I found God when I needed him/her/it most.
Should I tell this girl, that has been in my mind everyday since I met her, that I've been weak and risk pushing her away? Is this something that I can tell her later...like when we're old and grey?? Keep in mind that the girl I like has never done drugs, doesn't smoke, and doesn't drink regularly.
During my time in college I've gone to my own private hell and back. I was in a drug induced haze for about two years and only within the past year and a half have I been able to pick up the pieces and regain some semblance of my former self. I have for the most part quit taking drugs but I have to admit there are times where I have been weak and given in to temptation. Some of those times have been very recent. Now comes the fun part...
I really like this girl... We've been talking to each other for about a year now and we're pretty close but not an "item" yet. She is more of the good girl, and I am "the crazy one" but hey opposites attract right?. We've always had a very open relationship but I don't know if I would be man enough to tell her about the times, especially recently, where I was weak and gave in to former demons. I don't want to lie to her because I respect her more than that, but almost from the beginning of our friendship she knew that I wanted to turn my life around. School-wise I'm doing a lot better than before. Emotionally, I am a lot more stable. I found God when I needed him/her/it most.
Should I tell this girl, that has been in my mind everyday since I met her, that I've been weak and risk pushing her away? Is this something that I can tell her later...like when we're old and grey?? Keep in mind that the girl I like has never done drugs, doesn't smoke, and doesn't drink regularly.
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