Today is a sucky day *Update on Father's Condition*

Gyrene

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Normally I don't post about my problems on the forums, because I don't really know any of you, and you don't really know me, so what difference would it make. But, I'm going through a hard time now, so I'd thought I'd just talk about it anyway.

Today during lunch I was called in to talk to my boss. He really likes me, as I've worked at this company for the past 3 years, working my way up from the sheet metal floor to the AC designers office. I wasn't worried going in, I just thought he wanted to go play golf or something this weekend. However, I couldn't have been farther from the truth. He sat me down with a frown on his face and said "Brad, this is hard for me to say. You've been a great asset to this company, and you've been with us for a while now, but with the recent dip in local construction we have to let some designers. Friday will be your last day." Wonderful! (sarcasm). I guess it's for the best. I was getting tired of my job, and engineering probably isn't for me. I've always loved teaching the interns how to do stuff, so I guess my real passion is teaching. So I've decided to go to college, get my PhD, and do something with teaching. I'm looking into Purdue right now, as that's where my girlfriend is going.

To make matters worse, right after I get out of the meeting with my boss I find out my father has been knocked off his motorcycle and run over by a car, and is in critical condition at Baptist Hospital. I just lost my grandfather last week, I'm not going to lose my dad as well. I'm headed down to the hospital as soon as my boss let's me leave (He's being a real dick right now).

Another thing that makes me sad, though it isn't as big a deal as the rest, is now that I don't have a job, I don't think I can afford my Supra anymore. I'll be selling it in the next couple of weeks. So if anyone wants a 97 Supra TT with 55,000 mile and some mods done to it, contact me. Today is probably the worst day of my life. I just thought I'd share.
 

fs5

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if I were you I would just leave, your dad is in the hospital after all! not to mention you've been let go. I applaud you for looking at the bright side and going back to college.

here's to hopin' your dad pulls through
 

NTB

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Sorry to hear all of that :( . But maybe posting was a good thing - better to get it off your chest than to sit there and stew about it. Hope things get better.

Nate
 

pyonir

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Everyday is a sucky day. and sorry to hear about your father.

Anyway, Good luck in college!
 

Pacfanweb

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The boss can kiss ass. I'd TELL him I'm leaving. No way I'd wait until he says it's okay to go see a family member that just got in a wreck.

What's he going to do, anyway? Fire you?

Hope your dad's ok.
 

Gyrene

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Screw it. I'm gonna grow a pair of balls, and tell my boss to go fvck himself. I'm outta here. I'll post later on my dad's condition.
 

Whisper

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Hope your dad is doing well, and good luck with the boss. He seems to be genuinely upset about letting you go, so not sure if chewing him out would be the best option...but hey, it's your life.

And try to remain positive. Gonna be hard going through all this sh!t, but maybe it just means you're bound to win the lotto someday or something.
 

DorkBoy

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"I'm headed down to the hospital as soon as my boss let's me leave (He's being a real dick right now)."

You're getting laid off!! What do you care -> just leave. Your father is more important than a job you're losing in a few days.
 

fs5

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Originally posted by: dtyn
Screw it. I'm gonna grow a pair of balls, and tell my boss to go fvck himself. I'm outta here. I'll post later on my dad's condition.

exactly...
 

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Go Boilermakers!

Anyway I'm assuming you have some sort of Bachelor's degree already. So if you're getting a Masters or PhD. You might be able to get a TA or RA job and get school paid for. You might also get a little bit more for living expenses.
 

tk149

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Originally posted by: dtyn
Screw it. I'm gonna grow a pair of balls, and tell my boss to go fvck himself. I'm outta here. I'll post later on my dad's condition.
Good for you! Best wishes for you father and yourself.
 

Gyrene

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Update: My dad is in stable, but critical condition. I've spent all afternoon and evening down at the hospital. He has two broken legs, a broken left arm, 5 cracked ribs, a dislocated jaw, and maybe a damaged kidney. It turns out that he was stopped under the underpass, due to a heavy rainstorm that suddenly hit, and a young girl (17) hydroplaned and skidded off the road, hitting my dad. The doctor's said he'll be fine, but it will be awhile, and he might lose a kidney. I called my boss, I guess ex-boss now, tonight around 6, and told him that I wouldn't be coming back to work, ever. I thanked him for his tutelage, and for giving me an opportunity, but that my father was more important than 2 more days at work, so I wouldn't come back. Ok, I'm wiped out, I'm going to sleep. Just thought I'd give everyone an update on my father's condition.
 

Ns1

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man, i don't usually respond to these kinda posts, but your story sucks dude

good luck with whatever happens
 

pyonir

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Glad to hear he is doing alright. Some broken bones and a lost kidney isn't that bad for what the situation sounded like.

Good luck to him and YOU.
 

boyRacer

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Originally posted by: dtyn
Update: My dad is in stable, but critical condition. I've spent all afternoon and evening down at the hospital. He has two broken legs, a broken left arm, 5 cracked ribs, a dislocated jaw, and maybe a damaged kidney. It turns out that he was stopped under the underpass, due to a heavy rainstorm that suddenly hit, and a young girl (17) hydroplaned and skidded off the road, hitting my dad. The doctor's said he'll be fine, but it will be awhile, and he might lose a kidney. I called my boss, I guess ex-boss now, tonight around 6, and told him that I wouldn't be coming back to work, ever. I thanked him for his tutelage, and for giving me an opportunity, but that my father was more important than 2 more days at work, so I wouldn't come back. Ok, I'm wiped out, I'm going to sleep. Just thought I'd give everyone an update on my father's condition.

Your boss really is a d!ckwad. I'm sorry about your dad... and i always feel terrible when a rider goes down... glad your dad will be ok... just hope for a smooth recovery. Good luck to you... and for what its worth... I admire how you're handling this.
 
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dtyn - damn dood. I'm glad your father is stable. Sorry to hear about that :( :( Best wishes to a speedy recovery for your father.

Melvin
 

ggavinmoss

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Hang in there. Put work out of your mind and give all your attention to your family right now.

-geoff
 

Cyberian

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Best wishes for your Dad.
There is more than one job out there, but you only get one Dad.
 

Alchemist99

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Thank god your Dad is going to make it, Imo thats the most important thing, It's nice that you'll be able to
be there for him, Things will probably work out for the better with your job situation, Keep your chin up!
 

Phuz

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Originally posted by: NeuroSynapsis
man, i don't usually respond to these kinda posts, but your story sucks dude

good luck with whatever happens

Yeah, really. Keep on keepin' on, man.