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Airsofter

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Hi, I am 16 and a junior in high school. I was new in my freshman year, so I kept kind of quiet and was shy. Flash forward 2 years; I am more outgoing, have a lot of friends, am an amazing basketball player, etc. The problem is, I think I made some bad first impressions.

Anyway, there is this really hot girl in my grade that I never really met before. I'd rate her a 9 maybe 9.5, but I never had any classes with her. I talked to a few of her friends and we have the exact same tastes in music (Angels and Airwaves), Tv, movies, etc. She has a myspace, but I don't want to post it here.

Even though she mught be a little out of my league (extremely popular), I really like her and want to take a shot at it. I'll have a fresh slate to work on and I figure I could always use her to get other girls if necessary.

I don't know how to approach it though. I can't just walk up to her and start talking. I spoke to her maybe once in 3 years (wish I had some classes with her). She did the morning show during advisory for awhile though.

I have a few friends in her Math class that sit at her table. They know I like her, and they said they would put in a good word for me, lol. I figure it couldn't hurt as an introduction. They started talking about how I was thinking about asking some girl out (her best friend), but decided not to. This should get her interest since they are talking about her best friend and make her interested in me because I decided not to ask her out. Hopefully, a discussion will start and they will mention how I am trying out for varsity next year and some other good stuff.

Yeah, I know it sounds kind of stupid. What do you think? After this, I'll probably try to approach her at lunch and start talking about music or something. Maybe I'll tell her that I'll burn a cd for her or something.

I am not really looking to "score" right away with her. I just want to establish a nice relationship first. Like I said before, even if it doesn't work, other girls will most likely be interested in me since she is so popular. My parents are very overprotective anyway which is a whole other issue.

We have PSSA testing tommorrow, so maybe I'll try to get on the same bus as her and start talking during the 30 minute ride. She is always with her friends and I am pretty well aquainted with them.

Well, what do you guys think? Any tips from the pros here? I'll give reps of course.
 
shortylickens

shortylickens

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Originally posted by: savoyboy
Grow some balls.
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As a way to offer further advice:
Women dont know the difference between confidence and a loud, dumb asshole.
Just act cool and you'll get lotsa chicks. :cool:
 
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PurdueRy

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Originally posted by: Airsofter
Hi, I am 16 and a junior in high school. I was new in my freshman year, so I kept kind of quiet and was shy. Flash forward 2 years; I am more outgoing, have a lot of friends, am an amazing basketball player, etc. The problem is, I think I made some bad first impressions.

Anyway, there is this really hot girl in my grade that I never really met before. I'd rate her a 9 maybe 9.5, but I never had any classes with her. I talked to a few of her friends and we have the exact same tastes in music (Angels and Airwaves), Tv, movies, etc. She has a myspace, but I don't want to post it here.

Even though she mught be a little out of my league (extremely popular), I really like her and want to take a shot at it. I'll have a fresh slate to work on and I figure I could always use her to get other girls if necessary.

I don't know how to approach it though. I can't just walk up to her and start talking. I spoke to her maybe once in 3 years (wish I had some classes with her). She did the morning show during advisory for awhile though.

I have a few friends in her Math class that sit at her table. They know I like her, and they said they would put in a good word for me, lol. I figure it couldn't hurt as an introduction. They started talking about how I was thinking about asking some girl out (her best friend), but decided not to. This should get her interest since they are talking about her best friend and make her interested in me because I decided not to ask her out. Hopefully, a discussion will start and they will mention how I am trying out for varsity next year and some other good stuff.

Yeah, I know it sounds kind of stupid. What do you think? After this, I'll probably try to approach her at lunch and start talking about music or something. Maybe I'll tell her that I'll burn a cd for her or something.

I am not really looking to "score" right away with her. I just want to establish a nice relationship first. Like I said before, even if it doesn't work, other girls will most likely be interested in me since she is so popular. My parents are very overprotective anyway which is a whole other issue.

We have PSSA testing tommorrow, so maybe I'll try to get on the same bus as her and start talking during the 30 minute ride. She is always with her friends and I am pretty well aquainted with them.

Well, what do you guys think? Any tips from the pros here? I'll give reps of course.
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girls love to be used
 
drum

drum

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Originally posted by: Airsofter
Hi, I am 16 and a junior in high school. I was new in my freshman year, so I kept kind of quiet and was shy. Flash forward 2 years; I am more outgoing, have a lot of friends, am an amazing basketball player, etc. The problem is, I think I made some bad first impressions.

Anyway, there is this really hot girl in my grade that I never really met before. I'd rate her a 9 maybe 9.5, but I never had any classes with her. I talked to a few of her friends and we have the exact same tastes in music (Angels and Airwaves), Tv, movies, etc. She has a myspace, but I don't want to post it here.

Even though she mught be a little out of my league (extremely popular), I really like her and want to take a shot at it. I'll have a fresh slate to work on and I figure I could always use her to get other girls if necessary.

I don't know how to approach it though. I can't just walk up to her and start talking. I spoke to her maybe once in 3 years (wish I had some classes with her). She did the morning show during advisory for awhile though.

I have a few friends in her Math class that sit at her table. They know I like her, and they said they would put in a good word for me, lol. I figure it couldn't hurt as an introduction. They started talking about how I was thinking about asking some girl out (her best friend), but decided not to. This should get her interest since they are talking about her best friend and make her interested in me because I decided not to ask her out. Hopefully, a discussion will start and they will mention how I am trying out for varsity next year and some other good stuff.

Yeah, I know it sounds kind of stupid. What do you think? After this, I'll probably try to approach her at lunch and start talking about music or something. Maybe I'll tell her that I'll burn a cd for her or something.

I am not really looking to "score" right away with her. I just want to establish a nice relationship first. Like I said before, even if it doesn't work, other girls will most likely be interested in me since she is so popular. My parents are very overprotective anyway which is a whole other issue.

We have PSSA testing tommorrow, so maybe I'll try to get on the same bus as her and start talking during the 30 minute ride. She is always with her friends and I am pretty well aquainted with them.

Well, what do you guys think? Any tips from the pros here? I'll give pics of course.
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fixed.

can't wait for the flames
 
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Eli

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16?

hmm

Well, the secret to getting women is to talk to them. Just be yourself.
 
ElFenix

ElFenix

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wear a speedo*








*only works if you have a big package
 
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Trikat

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PM me when you get those PICs posted. I want to see this 9.0 / 10 or 9.5 / 10 chick you mention.
 
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insename2

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Originally posted by: LiquidImpulse
Originally posted by: Trikat
PM me when you get those PICs posted. I want to see this 9.0 / 10 or 9.5 / 10 chick you mention.
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i second that
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yea but he'll ruin his chances if he just randomly snaps a shot... or is he a cyber stalker and have access to her community webshots? who knows..
 
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Injury

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I read the first 10 words and I can answer the question already.

Girls decide if they like a guy well before they ask them anything, and there is little that can change that without dating.

If you like a girl, sitting around and wondering if she likes you to will change nothing, and eventually you'll miss any chance you had.

Keep it simple. "Hey, wanna go out sometime?"

Ask now, or get over it. You can't be afraid of rejection because it's going to happen sometimes.
 
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J0hnny

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Originally posted by: Eli
16?

hmm

Well, the secret to getting women is to talk to them. Just be yourself.
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Are you trying to completely ruin the guy's only chance?
 
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Airsofter

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Wow, I leave my pc for 20 minutes and there are already this many responses. She has a myspace with a lot of pics and is on a lot of other myspaces too, but I don't want to go posting her pics all over the net. I'd say she is top 5 in the school, so she is a little out of my league. I can't judge myself though. I am 6' 150lbs, in very good shape, Italian, and have a nice haircut. Lol, I don't know. I think I have a shot at her though. I mean I never met anyone who loves or even heard about the band Angels And Airwaves, so we have a lot of stuff in common.

I have to admit, she is kind of a bad seed though. She definately drinks and maybe smokes too. I don't do any of that because of track and basketball. I think she is taking a senior to the prom. He is a lot like me actually. We look and act the same.

When I say that I was new to the school, just about eveyone went to the public middle school but I came from the Catholic middle school. I knew maybe 3-4 kids my first day. I'd ask her out, but I don't have any classes with her. I'd have to stop her in the halls. It would be kind of creepy if some kid she hasn't talked to just asks her out randomly one day.

However, I think she has my lunch block every other day, so that is an oppurtunity.



 
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dawnbug

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Originally posted by: Airsofter
I figure I could always use her to get other girls if necessary
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That sounds horrible.

They started talking about how I was thinking about asking some girl out (her best friend), but decided not to. This should get her interest since they are talking about her best friend and make her interested in me because I decided not to ask her out.
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I don't think this is an effective strategy. Getting your name out is fine, but if the whole thing about asking out her best friend is a lie, it's probably going to backfire on you. She'll tell her friend that you were going to ask her out, and if you ever did go out with this girl, she could hold the fact that you once liked her best friend against you. Not a good thing overall.

So what should you do? Find out what clubs this girl is in and join one that you're interested in. Or walk up to her and start talking. Or wait for a school dance to come up and ask her out. Or just give her a call.

But whatever you do, don't use her popularity to get you other girls, and don't have your friends share any feelings, real or not, that you've had for her best friend.
 
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Airsofter

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I wouldn't want anybody pm'ing people my myspace to strangers on an off topic hardware forum, lol.

I didn't really mean it like using her to get other girls. I intended to say that I want to stay friends if it didn't work out. I don't want her to hate me if I try to act like a cool jerk or something and ruin my chances with other girls. She is seriously my top choice right now though.

As for the friend remark. Her best friend is pretty hot too (8.5 maybe) and she didn't have a date to the prom as of last week. It was getting kind of late and I think she wanted me to ask her. She is probably more of my league, but she wasn't my type so I decided not to go. I don't like wasting money on tickets, a tux, a limo, etc on a girl that I am not seriously interested in.

If this girl does tell her friend and she still doesn't have a date, I'd have no problem going with her though so its a win-win situation.
 
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