Tips on finding lost relatives?

[yhelothar]

Gonna look for that bastard.
I have his name, SSN, and picture.
Is there a service that could find someone based on that?

My mom said she filed charges for not paying child support, but they never found him.

 

[neonerd]

damn, that sux....ur dad left u when u were 3?? how old are u now?

 

[yhelothar]

18

 

[brunswickite]

was there a reason he left?

 

[HappyPuppy]

Why do you want to find him? He's a ratbastard and you are better off without him.

 

[yhelothar]

I never really cared when I grew up, until lately, I saw this son talking to his dad about intellectual stuff, and I noticed how much I missed out on.

My dad was a master's graduate from Columbia University and was an engineer at NASA. Sucks he had to be a dickhead.

Why do you want to find him? He's a ratbastard and you are better off without him

possibly to file charges?

 

[sillymofo]

Dude, all you have to say is announce you won the lottery in a magazine or something, and let everything work itself out.

 

[Yossarian]

don't bother.

 

[ViRGE]

Originally posted by: Yossarian
don't bother.

 

[yhelothar]

I can't at least file a lawsuit to compensate the child support money that he never paid?

 

[Gurck]

Kill him :evil:

 

[Bryophyte]

Haven't had any luck with cyberstalking? I found my birth parents (separately) using very very little information just by using the internet.

 

[Luden]

Link
Link
Link

 

[xEDIT409]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Haven't had any luck with cyberstalking? I found my birth parents (separately) using very very little information just by using the internet.

Whoa. That sounds really interesting.
If you don't mind, could you say how?

 

[yhelothar]

Just signed up at www.abika.com
They only charged $14.
Their site seems a lot worse and only accepts paypal, which right after I paid with paypal, it returned me back to the site with a CGI scripting error. :x

 

[ViRGE]

Originally posted by: virtualgames0
Just signed up at www.abika.com
They only charged $14.
Their site seems a lot worse and only accepts paypal, which right after I paid with paypal, it returned me back to the site with a CGI scripting error. :x

Not to get your hopes down, man, but think about it: he left you 15 years ago. Do you think he really wants to see you now?

 

[MichaelD]

Remember this:

Once you open Pandora's Box, you cannot close it.

 

[Rufio]

damn i ihope u update us w/what happens.

 

[300MDemon]

Similar situation here. I found mine just last week using Lexis Nexis. Our company pays for its use per month but the people search is extra. I'm just waiting on them to confront me about using it. But anyway my point is that you can pay to use it for this single instance and you'll find every address on him for the past few years.

 

[Papagayo]

Before you start calling him names, makes sure that he did ran off...

He could be dead somewhere or in a Mental institution..

 

[yhelothar]

He did run off.
He had a bad relationship with my mom. We had this big house in Florida, next to Kennedy Space Center. My mom took me and my sis to Taiwan when I was 3. When we came back, the house was owned by someone else. He sold off the house and took everything with him.

ViRGE - I don't want to meet him, I just want to know where he is and hopefully be able to file charges/get compensation.