Get into PHP and web programming ,a bit easier than jumping straight into C++.
I agree with this.
I've had a thing for computers since my family first got one when I was about 7. I'm 26 now, and I've been working with them ever since. I went to college for Computer Science, and got my Bachelor's going on two years ago.
Most people seem to start with C/C++, which is a very powerful, but somewhat strict and tricky language. It's good for teaching the fundamentals, but in my opinion, you get too stuck with learning the rules of the language instead of just being able to code. If you do something as simple as forget a semi-colon somewhere in the 50 lines of code you wrote from a snippet you found on the net, the debugging information you get back isn't going to do a novice much good - it'll be daunting and virtually useless.
Visual Basic is a bit easier, since a lot of the framework is laid out for you (at least if you're using Visual Studio). There are still a lot of caveats and things to learn before you get to do anything interesting, but at least you'll be creating graphical programs pretty much from the get-go.
PHP and HTML, on the other hand, will let you create a finished product fairly easily. PHP definitely holds your hand a lot compared to C/C++ and other languages. It'll do automatic conversion from one data type to another, so you don't have to worry about the debugger screaming at you when you try to add 1 and "1", or 4 and 4.0. Overall, it just lets you get in there and get coding faster, which can be a huge encouragement to continue with your efforts.
It's never too late to learn programming, and it can be a lot of fun. Stick with it, and don't worry about how "late" you are compared to everyone else. Time isn't the only factor that determines if you're good at programming; I've known people that have been working with computers and programming languages for decades and still can't turn out anything worthwhile. There's a BIG difference between knowing how to write some code and knowing how to write GOOD code.