Those that are married

TechBoyJK

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How soon after first meeting your spouse did you feel like you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with that person?

I've fallen in love quickly before, but nothing like this.... :)

you can reference this thread for happened leading up to this.....Thread

basically, we met online, found we had alot in common, met up, hung out, ended up kissing and such. First she tells me that she wants to take things slow because she doesnt know how she can handle going to school full time, working full time, and finding enough time to maintain that kind of relationship... but when we started talking about soulmates (after watching Vanilla Skies) I said I believe that everybody has 1 Soulmate and the game of life is to find them... When I said that, she leaned into me and whispered (I agree) and then she grabbed my hand like if we were holding hands while walking, started kissing me on the next and then said "I cant believe I found you"

which just has my head spinning because I really like her, basically feel the same way, shes more of my dream girl than my "dream girl", and I've never felt more instantly comfortable around someone in my life. Not only that, I think she is the hottest girl I've ever met. Waking up to her face instantly made today the best day of my life. I dont know how else to say it. Even though we've chatted online for a long time, Ive only spent one day in the real world with her.

Everytime before in my life that I rushed to tell a girl I loved them, it scared them off.....
 

JulesMaximus

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Wait until you get a few months of dating behind you. No need to show your cards this early...it's still just infatuation at this point anyway.
 

xSkyDrAx

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Wait until you get a few months of dating behind you. No need to show your cards this early...it's still just infatuation at this point anyway.

qft
 

ponyo

Lifer
Feb 14, 2002
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You just met. This is the best time. It all goes downhill after couple of months.
 

Rookie

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Wait until you get a few months of dating behind you. No need to show your cards this early...it's still just infatuation at this point anyway.


Been there, done that, have the T-shirt.

Give it 6 months.

oh and QFT
 

Rudee

Lifer
Apr 23, 2000
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Don't go too quickly dude. I've seen many a relationship fall flat on it's face because they fell too hard too fast and eventually burned out like a candle in a matter of a few months. If you become to sappy they will grow tired of it and dump your feminine, predictable a$$ for the badboy type. Happens all the time. Girl found, girl lost.
 

DAGTA

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Less than 48 hours ago you were asking for advice on which girl to date and you were learning towards DreamGirl. Now you're talking about marrying RealGirl? Get a grip before you ruin it.
 

TechBoyJK

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cool guys, thanks. I just need to slow my jets and get a grip. I'm glad I have this problem though, I just gotta find the discipline to not act a fool..