Those of you with SO's or have had SO's...

[monk3y]

How long did it take until you started saying 'love'?

 

[AdamSnow]

Few weeks... We were best friends for like 2 years before we started dating... so we loved each other before the relationship even began...

 

[BobDaMenkey]

Usually about 2 months or less.

Current relationship is going on like 2 months now, but I haven't felt the need to say it. I probably won't.

 

[theknight571]

I don't recall exactly...I think is was in the 4-6 month range before we started using the "L" word.

 

[Saint Nick]

two months here.

 

[bigrash]

2 days

 

[monk3y]

Originally posted by: bigrash
2 days

How long has that relationship lasted?

 

[SWScorch]

about a month or so... I think I told my current girlfriend that I loved after 2 weeks but I was drunk so it doesn't really count I was telling everyone I loved them

 

[bigrash]

Originally posted by: monk3y

Originally posted by: bigrash
2 days

How long has that relationship lasted?

2 days

 

[MisterJackson]

I may drop it tonight over Valentine's dinner. I've been with this girl for about a month now. She proved last night though that she's down for whatever, and I like that, a lot.

Normally I wait until long after I'm sure, even then I usually wait for the girl to say so first, just a thing with me.

 

[dirtboy]

I am cynical. I don't believe you can truly love someone in a short period of time. I think most people don't understand what true love really means. Especially when you look at the divorce rate these days... one has to know I'm right.

 

[ViviTheMage]

2~3 months

 

[Lola]

It was about 2 and a half months.
it was mutually said.
I can remember everything about what happened as well.

 

[MisterJackson]

Originally posted by: dirtboy
I am cynical. I don't believe you can truly love someone in a short period of time. I think most people don't understand what true love really means. Especially when you look at the divorce rate these days... one has to know I'm right.

I tend to agree with you, but when that person walks in your life and just meets all of your expectations then what have you got? Love is relative. There are different degrees of it.

I for one, love the girl I am with now after only a month for a myriad of reasons. It's not head over heels madly in love....yet, but I fel it going that way.

Love to me is looking past one's quirks and accepting them for who they are and having that reciprocated. I've got that now, and never had that before.

 

[Mr.IncrediblyBored]

1 year exactly. I wrote a paragraph on a greeting card expressing how I felt. I said it out loud after she read it.

 

[Chryso]

Usually during introductions. It makes a great ice-breaker.