I don't doubt the story, but I think the guy and his wife, overreacted. I was searched during my last flight because I kept setting off the metal detector. ( I was traveling with my nephew, and he put a gum wrapper in the little coin pocket of my jeans.:Q) There was a line of 15 or so waiting, and about 5 were women. I was just amazed by the reaction of this one girl. She had a major problem with the fact that she had to be searched, like they called her a terrorist or something. Most of the women got the pat down right there as it really was no big deal. It's not like the women doing the search were trying to cop a feel. They use the back part of hand as they go down that part of the body. One lady had a problem with it being out where everyone could see though, so they took het to a side room. If the women in the story would have asked, I'm sure the same would have been done for her. If her husband would have been calm instead of being a stupid hothead, they would have made their wedding.
Like it or not, times have changed. If you feel you can't deal with it, stay home.